FabSwingers.com forum: A question for club goers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d assume people who go to clubs might also be on fab. So, with that in mind, does it bother you that you might get sexy with someone that ignored/deleted you as a ‘no’ on fab, or had blocked you or you blocked them (because of previous conversations) and you only find out afterwards when you go to verify?

It’s the things I think about before venturing to a club. How do you manage switching of the ideas of preconceptions and possible regrets.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Don’t think it would bother us in the slightest. We’re on here to meet people, primarily, so if we chat to someone in a club who we’ve not hit it off with on here, it’s no big deal. Fab is sometimes a pretty distorted version of reality

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

I’ve done it a few times. Gone to verify someone (on a previous profile) and then realized that one of us had blocked the other.

It’s not someone I’d ideally want to make a habit of, but it happens I guess.

Funny when it’s someone who has blocked me though.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No not at all, there's profiles here I wouldn't have looked twice at even ignored but meeting in person at socials they've been amazing and definitely my type of people.

It's hard to judge on here especially if it's a few close up pics and not much more, in person that can be totally different so it wouldn't and hasn't bothered me at all.

Mrs

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Don’t think it would bother us in the slightest. We’re on here to meet people, primarily, so if we chat to someone in a club who we’ve not hit it off with on here, it’s no big deal. Fab is sometimes a pretty distorted version of reality

Pretty much this for us too although most people we have met there haven't been on Fab or used to be and have left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely even exchange names in clubs, a quick chat, a look up and down and then off for a play that hopefully develops into a full on orgy with more random strangers.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I’d assume people who go to clubs might also be on fab. So, with that in mind, does it bother you that you might get sexy with someone that ignored/deleted you as a ‘no’ on fab, or had blocked you or you blocked them (because of previous conversations) and you only find out afterwards when you go to verify?

It’s the things I think about before venturing to a club. How do you manage switching of the ideas of preconceptions and possible regrets.

We don't message first so we don't get the ignored/deleted so much. We did play with a couple in a club then couldn't find their profile on Fab until we found it in our block list (they'd sent a random friends request and we used to be a bit block happy). We unblocked them and sent a verification. You need a thick skin to be on Fab and also to go in club's, don't take things to heart. You could see someone you know from vanilla life in a club, how's that for a dilemma? (If you do say Hi and carry on your night.)

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By *heitaliandreamerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I posted a similar thread last weekend. Personally it has happened few times to play with women or couple in clubs that ignored me completely when tried to contact them on fab

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Not in the slightest as people see the real us in a club, sometimes it's difficult to get yourself across how you'd like in text on here

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It’s the things I think about before venturing to a club. How do you manage switching of the ideas of preconceptions and possible regrets.

Nope. Happened lots and have always had a laugh about it afterwards.

It's why, despite all the moans from single guys about club prices and potentially being ignored etc, I still say it's worth dipping a toe in the club scene a few times to find out for yourself what it's like.

The funniest thing is when you find you're outside their age preferences or that they have something exclusionary (no bi guys, must be VWE, no beards etc) in their profiles. In a club environment everything is generally taken on face value and decisions made based on attraction and conversation.

You can have shockingly bad pics and one line of text in theory, and if people like you in person you'll do fine.

And if after an event at a club where you got naked with someone and they decide that they don't want to verify you or unblock you? So what.

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