FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages do you really get?

By *leasureseekers123 OP Couple
47 weeks ago

Heathrow

We see lots of profiles with the “we get hundreds of messages each day and so can’t reply to everyone” type of text in their profile. It’s safe to assume that single women get the most but how many messages do you really get on an average week?

For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester

Probably half a dozen a day max from new people.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
47 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

A few a day, I use filters.

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By *ORBCouple
47 weeks ago

Dundalk

In the 2 years since we set this profile up we have had somewhere between 30 and 40 messages in total.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I’d say I get about 10-12ish most weeks there are weeks I don’t get many at all, so with that on average 5-6?

I’m shite at replying though, I don’t mean it as I log in, go to the forums, spend a while typing away and log out. Oopsies

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
47 weeks ago

Chatham

I get loads, get chatting to someone then lots crop up , normally when your about to call it a day and go to bed.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
47 weeks ago

nearby

Not too many, probably more if they would answer

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By *olfandtazCouple
47 weeks ago

Bristol

5 - 10 normal day

10- 20 if we post up a meet

20-40 if we do a cam show

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Southend-on-Sea

Every day mostly from single guys even though it says I'm not interested in single guy's!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

If I’m active and have posted new pics then I have messages in the hundreds but if I’ve not posted anything and not on often I can get around 15-20 a day sometimes less sometimes more

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
47 weeks ago

Wherever

From random people, no more than 10 a day, but often less than that.

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By *urvelover87Man
47 weeks ago

stevenage

Depends on how many I send usually. If I am not active and not sending out messages or winks my inbox is a desert, if I am bothering others with messages/winks I may get a couple replies or back and forth messages.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
47 weeks ago

IPSWICH

On a typical day none.

Maybe one if I've been in a forum thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I don’t send them anymore as I’m “just doing me”, that said maybe 6 a week

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By *ittlelad69Man
47 weeks ago

clay cross

Normally around 5 a week mostly from guys

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By *irmhandmancMan
47 weeks ago

Bolton

Ha! A number not even worth mentioning. Barely any!

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By *iz78Woman
47 weeks ago

wirral

"If I’m active and have posted new pics then I have messages in the hundreds but if I’ve not posted anything and not on often I can get around 15-20 a day sometimes less sometimes more

What she said

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By *ealitybitesMan
47 weeks ago

Belfast

Maybe one every couple of months

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By *educerMan
47 weeks ago

Brentwood

on a normal day, maybe 2 or 3. If a meet/status is put up then perhaps 4 or 5.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
47 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Around 30 a day on a normal day.

Travelling somewhere new, or uploading a new picture gets it towards the 100 mark. Well over that if I actually show nipple or something more than the usual in my gallery in said upload.

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By *orenzo99888Man
47 weeks ago

Letchworth

Not many but get more when i share a naked picture

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
47 weeks ago

Cheshire

Get around 3- 5 messages per day generally. A few more at the weekend.

The most I have ever received is after a dressing and photo session (I was extremely randy) in which I posted the results I got over 40 individual messages. Unfortunately the one guy I invited over ended up not turning up.

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By *arriedcouple100Couple
47 weeks ago

Devon

We get maybe 1 or 2 a day must be doing something wrong haha xxx

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By *ynecplCouple
47 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

These days 1 or 2 a week if we are lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

0 on a good day

Then again 0 on a bad day too!

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
47 weeks ago

Tamworth

Very few. If we are lucky about five a week.

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
47 weeks ago

here and there

We used to get anywhere up to 60/70 a week ,but since we changed our settings no where near as much now

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

It's very rare that anyone messages me first, and maybe about the same amount of people message back. Fab is full of single dudes like me so couples and ladies get tons of messages to sift through so it's not hard to accept

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
47 weeks ago

Home

Not much

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By *aomilatteCouple
47 weeks ago

Midlands

One in the last 2 weeks, and that was from friends

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By *bflirtyCouple
47 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Just counted all the ones in the space of a week. 86, so. Not quite hundredsbut we definitely get more if we’re logged in.

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By *edagainMan
47 weeks ago

Newcastle

None

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

About a dozen a week maybe. I try to reply to them all as there aren't many to keep on top of.

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By *olden RatioWoman
47 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I reckon less than 10 a day. Once I hit 40 I noticed that the amount of messages I received daily decreased significantly.

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By *andPextraCouple
47 weeks ago

North West

Very dependent on filters and pictures. With no filters on and a new pic maybe 20 or so a day.

With filters on and no new pics some days hardly any.

Did speak to someone who had GENUINELY got 600 in 14hrs on joining the site.

That is nuts.

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By *wabathMan
47 weeks ago

Bath

1 or 2 a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Around one or two a day, mainly from guys

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By *orbidden eastMan
47 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Well, I am a man on Fab, which means 0

But if I’m lucky, I’ll get deleted message

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

82 today (I can't believe I Just counted). But I'm pretty rubbish at managing my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

A couple ..

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By *heelz69Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester

A few, most saying no thanks!

I do get a few by the same people, and I do like a regular person to chat with

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By *heGigglersCouple
47 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Couples profile - 10-20 a week

MrsGigglers singles - 1k a week when shes active

My Single males account - 1 a month

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By *igboobstCouple
47 weeks ago

barrow

10 on a good day but realistically on any given day 0-5

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By *he Vital SparkMan
47 weeks ago

Preston

I'd say about 3-4 a month.

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
47 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Today I've had 23 messages.

5 are from friends on here.

8 I have banned for dick pics.

4 I've replied to.

The rest have been ignored.

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

About 5 a day.

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By *igboobstCouple
47 weeks ago

barrow

"Today I've had 23 messages.

5 are from friends on here.

8 I have banned for dick pics.

4 I've replied to.

The rest have been ignored. "

You mind us adding one more message to that list?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
47 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

About maybe 20/30 a day depending on whether we have posted a pic.

If C goes on cam then a lot more.

You have a gorgeous figure - I can only guess as it’s a couples profile and there’s no pics of Mr, maybe people don’t bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Where they instigate the conversation- once in a blue moon!

As replies to me, a few a day.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
47 weeks ago

Hounslow

It all depends on if we put up a new photo.

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
47 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

"Today I've had 23 messages.

5 are from friends on here.

8 I have banned for dick pics.

4 I've replied to.

The rest have been ignored.

You mind us adding one more message to that list?

Not in the slightest.

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By *olvespairCouple
47 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Depends if we post a meet or update a status. We're in PDI now so uploading a few pics - had 50ish messages today. But usually about 10

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By *leasureseekers123 OP Couple
47 weeks ago

Heathrow

"About maybe 20/30 a day depending on whether we have posted a pic.

If C goes on cam then a lot more.

You have a gorgeous figure - I can only guess as it’s a couples profile and there’s no pics of Mr, maybe people don’t bother.

If that was a reply to us- we don’t use fab to meet anymore so we’re not bothered how many messages we get, but were just curious on what other people get.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

None

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By *ongandharderMan
47 weeks ago

Rotherham

"We see lots of profiles with the “we get hundreds of messages each day and so can’t reply to everyone” type of text in their profile. It’s safe to assume that single women get the most but how many messages do you really get on an average week?

For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "

10-20 ISH. Mostly from guys but occasional mf couples. And rarely single f

All though some messages are forum replies rather than direct intrest messages

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By *ueens of the SceneWoman
47 weeks ago

Leicestershire

For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "

I’ve never counted on either this or my personal profile

I do know it’s not 100’s in a day on either , nor do I want it to be , tailored , well pitched and clear messages are ace … lots of ‘ hi how are you ‘ are pointless

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
47 weeks ago

In the clouds

About 4 a day

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By *rispyDuckMan
47 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

200 minus 150 = __divided by 5= __ minus 5 again lol =

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By *yreGuy99Man
47 weeks ago

Somewhere in Moria

I used to get lots of messages from men until i realised i could block them from messaging. Now it's around 1 or 2 every 5 months. It doesn't bother me anymore of course.

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By *ickthehallsMan
47 weeks ago

Peterborough

I travel a lot so at least a few a week from men seeking to suck me dry haha

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
47 weeks ago

Cardiff

I get probably about 25-55 a day but I delete most if they haven't read my profile

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
47 weeks ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

Probably a message from someone new every two to three weeks. Sometimes more if we've posted a club meet.

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By *ornyGuy69400Man
47 weeks ago

Mid Wales

Maybe one a month if I’m lucky

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By *igfun911Man
47 weeks ago

East Lancashire

Bugger all

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
47 weeks ago

kent

We might get a couple if we’re actually online, but it’s rare to receive one if we haven’t been active.

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
47 weeks ago

Inverness

Around 30/50 a day unless we post some new content, then we can get a few hundred.

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By *k_123Man
47 weeks ago

Preston

1 or 2 a day but mainly from guys who want give me a bj

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By *atch1982Man
47 weeks ago

Abingdon

None unless I initiate conversation with a well thought out message that will ‘jump off the page’ …….. or a stupid comment in the forums! X

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

About 1 every day.

So, about 6 or 7 a week.

If I left my filters open for men to message I it would be about 3 or 4 times that. But sadly, I'm straight..

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By *izzy.Woman
47 weeks ago

Stoke area

I've got filters to reduce the amount of mail and try to ensure at least they are from people in the age range I'm interested in.

I get 10 to 20 messages daily on average.

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By *ickie_RankingMan
47 weeks ago

London

A big disappointing ZERO

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
47 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Not as many as people think... Could be anywhere from 10-25 on a normal day, but majority just get deleted because they didn't read the profile.

More if I post new pics or advertise for a social.

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By *eeper ThanMan
47 weeks ago

Dartford

Interesting thread I’m actually quite surprised with the numbers

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
47 weeks ago

Kent

If I post a pic it can be 100 to 200. Otherwise it's about 50 or 60 a day. Most I ever got was when I briefly hit page one of hot photos, then I got over 800 in a single day.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Not many normaly about 1 a day

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By *ndiiiMan
47 weeks ago

Paisley Scotland

Depends , from friends quite a few.

Others like my lottery wins...3 in total (£10 each time) xx

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By *tacie-JaneTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Birmingham

On average 10 a day….more at weekends and if I post status/pics

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
47 weeks ago

Nuneaton

2-5 a day on average

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Bolton

It varies I guess but on average maybe 10-15 a day x

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By *ev_1Couple
47 weeks ago

Bickliegh

Single male nil

Our couples 3 or 4 a day

Wife's account bloody loads

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By *sirapMan
47 weeks ago

Manchester

I get about 3-4 a day.

I send about 3-4000 a day though…

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By *ustBoWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't get many I have very tight filters. I would say about 4 or 5 a week normally. The most I got in one day recently was three.

I've zero interest in recieving loads of messages that I won't read or reply to I don't see the point of that for anyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

3 or 4 but I have my filters on

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By *irty-pairCouple
47 weeks ago

South Essex

We probably get about 10 new messages (excluding replies) a week. Most of them are your standard one-liners.

If we’ve been on the forums lots, have a meet posted, or spend an evening on cam, that can be two, three or four times as many.

I’d say that’s a good number, but we always prefer quality over quantity xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Absolutely none! I’m lucky to get 2/3 views a week never mind messages

Send a couple out to never receiving a reply or even been read! When first signed up had a few but from men. So because of this I find myself rarely coming on because seems a pointless exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I get maybe 1 reply a week if I send a message to someone…. Even my friends list do t reply anymore. *true story.

This place couldn’t appear anyless sociable away from the forums if it tried for a single guy.

But it’s also a laugh at times when someone cool pops into your inbox.

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By *ickylouCouple
47 weeks ago

Suppose it depends if people are posting on the forums or post new pics or just being quiet on here

When we post pics and comments in the forums we will get 20-50 a day. But they will mainly be “meet now” messages.

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
47 weeks ago

east coast

0 lol not 1

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Certain pictures seem to provoke way more then others

Can ranger between 10-100 a day

Been a busy week

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By *moothdickMan
47 weeks ago

stoke

About one a month and that’s mainly guys ..

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By *lik and PaulCouple
47 weeks ago

cahoots

Maybe 20ish per day unless we post a pic or video and then it goes ballistic.

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By *wingdance1Couple
47 weeks ago

Cumberland

We doing something wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "

Yes about the same for us

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By *nkedguy777Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester

Lucky if I get 1 a week, most of the time it’s more like 1 every 2/3 weeks

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By *reams2013Man
47 weeks ago

Inverness

For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "

None, nor winks or replies if I message someone, I didn't actually think I was that ugly ??

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By *ak4uMan
47 weeks ago

chelmsford

Depends how active I am, a few a day but I usually have to instigate the conversations. If I don't then very few.....

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Not a great deal sadly. But never mind.

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
47 weeks ago

Colchester

Varies. Somedays absolutely nothing. Then others (like Saturday) it was unusually busy with around 80ish from 5 different people.

Frequency is determined by how active we have been, posting pics, comments on the forum or hovering in the shadows in the chat room.

As a rule of thumb it’ll be 1/2 people with 10-15 messages a day depending on how well

We know them or how keen they are to chat to us.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
47 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

4/5 a day maybe

Several from friends

More if I post a new photo

Those that are saying they are getting hundreds a day either have no filters in place or are exaggerating

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By *irk_Dastardly.Man
47 weeks ago

Salisbury

Very few, if I do get them normally from blokes chancing it.

More if I instigate a chat or start a forum thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

None really unless I instigate the first message and then I would say only 20% reply.

When I had a couples account it would be 3-4 a day, more if we posted a new photo and about 10 or so shortly after being on cam.

I’m ok with no messages. People will message if interested and if I message and no reply I take that as a polite no and make sure I don’t bother them again.

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By *ecky and justCouple
47 weeks ago

Godalming

Some days we get none, others maybe 10 or 12..

All depends on what we’re commenting on and whether we have a status update that’s inviting.

When we’ve run parties or socials then we get lots.

It’s the 1 or 2 quality messages that are the key..

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By *ecky and justCouple
47 weeks ago

Godalming

Also.. We have filters that stop a lot.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
47 weeks ago

London

The odd one from men but that's it.

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By *inky duo 100Couple
47 weeks ago

Lancaster

With our filters in place we usually only get around 4 a week unless we are chatting to someone or have a meet on ( not something we do much anymore).

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

5 or so a day. More if we make a post to the forums

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
47 weeks ago

Norwich

Very few sadly, apart from one or two regular friends

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By *emma200Woman
47 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Depends how active I am on here

There have been times I’ve had 50-60 , others 10 a day, but that does depend also on what time of day I come on x

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By *aulupforitMan
47 weeks ago

Corbridge

0 as I very rarely send messages.

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By *uffhandymanMan
47 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

I get lots that are pretty pointless, probably 8-10 per day. But I do get maybe 4-5 per day that are worth while and genuine

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
47 weeks ago

Kenilworth

About 5 a week. But the more were online either in chat or posing to the forums the more we get.

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By *adbod2godbodMan
47 weeks ago

Manchester

Unsolicited from men - 1-10 a day

Unsolicited from women - 0 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Not many but we block single males.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
47 weeks ago

Harrow

Annually unsolicited 10 or less from women or couples

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
47 weeks ago

London

Depends. If I post a new picture then I'll get quite a lot, maybe 50 a day. If I'm active on the forums I get about 10-20 a day. If im not on for a few days/weeks then maybe 1 day.

Inbox was at 60 something unread and now at 42 unread. I guess as people delete messages or accounts.

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By *randmrs86Couple
47 weeks ago

Merseyside

Hardly any, admittedly we haven’t updated the photos for awhile which I think would help, x

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By *eyouandi85Man
47 weeks ago

dhrham

Hardly any, I was on here a couple year back as part of a couple, and couldn’t keep up with messages, starting back with a singles profile. Seems to be difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I send some out about 100 I’ve had 4 back but single males is a hard slog I feel justify your self. That’s why I try to just go to socials as I feel I’m way better in the flesh.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
47 weeks ago

Cumbria

Since we closed the gates to single men we get 1 or 2 a day, if we open the gates it’s 10 or 20.

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By *viatrixWoman
47 weeks ago

Redhill

No content, status posted, etc… about 50-80 a day.

If I post a photo or a status can go up to 200.

If I post a video my inbox blows up- 500+ and I have to mass delete.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"No content, status posted, etc… about 50-80 a day.

If I post a photo or a status can go up to 200.

If I post a video my inbox blows up- 500+ and I have to mass delete.

Yeah, but that’s because you’re awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"No content, status posted, etc… about 50-80 a day.

If I post a photo or a status can go up to 200.

If I post a video my inbox blows up- 500+ and I have to mass delete.

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By *jbucksCouple
47 weeks ago

Bletchley

It varies. I think it depends on if we do a post or photo upload etc. Mostly 10 - 15 a week

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

crazy lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

If I hang out on Fab a lot - post lots on the forums, upload new photos, put up a status more often - then my inbox will be like Grand Central Station. If I back off and keep quiet, it’ll be so empty it echoes.

So I’m in control, really.

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By *hare2CareCouple
47 weeks ago

Shepshed

Quite a few when we're active, but mostly from single men who are out of our age range, and who clearly haven't read our profile.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
47 weeks ago

Lingfield

Very few now as I'm out of the age range of most couples and the majority of those I contact never reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

About 10 a day. If I post a pic, maybe 30-40 a day?

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By *wistedTooCouple
47 weeks ago

Frimley

Dunno, but enough every day min to make us have to scroll a bit.

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By *mallcock44Man
47 weeks ago

blackpool

Not nearly enough lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
47 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A great big huge zero

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I’ve been on this site 3 month and I’ve had 1 msg starting to loose faith in this site

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By *enelope2UWoman
47 weeks ago

Fife

I max out pretty much daily if I'm on cam I can get a full inbox within an hour of getting off cam

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
47 weeks ago

Portstewart

With our filters normally 10 to 15 a day but if we have a meet up or something else in our status it can be as much as 45 to 50 a day

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
47 weeks ago

My Own Little World

As Man

Over 55

None

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By *oxy RedWoman
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *he KinkysCouple
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Maybe 5 a day on average

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By *oxy RedWoman
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

I would say 20-25 on a normal day and that can go mental with a photo post. Currently, I have 235 unread messages to get through x

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By *arkside007Man
47 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Usually 1 or 2 a week must be something I didn’t say lol

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By *herry PRADATV/TS
47 weeks ago

Greenwich

Mostly over 100 a day lol

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By *unner6969Man
47 weeks ago

Bicester

I’m very suspicious if I get a message from a woman, or couple, that isn’t a response to one of my own messages. Unless it asks something specific about one of my pictures, or profile.

Typically, I get one message per 30 (I’m guessing) personalised messages I send.

Over a year since a message, meet or forum post actually triggered a meet on here. Probably going to stick to the more common ‘dating’ apps from now on and real life liaisons - much more successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I reckon on average I've had one message a month since joining Fab. I sort of expected that, as I am a mature male competing against younger, fitter males. Also I don't really make that much of an effort myself, so I guess the saying is true. You only get out what you are prepared to put in. No complaints from me though, just a profile view, brightens up my day.

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By *empseyANDRedheadCouple
47 weeks ago

warwick

About one a day. But not very active in here

If we upload a few public pics it can be as many as 20 a day

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By *ElectricityMan
47 weeks ago

Preston

One every blue moon

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By *laze400Man
47 weeks ago

Coventry

Never received one

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By *lark_KentMan
47 weeks ago

Northampton

2 a month, one to say my subscription is running out and one to thank me for renewing

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