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Pleasuring a women.

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By *ctionman123XXX OP   Man
over a year ago

st clements

This is a genuine question for the ladies.

What’s the best way to truly make you beautiful women feel satisfied after and during sex?

Main aim of the question is I don’t want to be a selfish lover, wanting the women to feel climaxed and pleasured just as much as myself.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Let her cum first

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Let her cum first "

And second, and third.

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By *ctionman123XXX OP   Man
over a year ago

st clements

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Let her cum first

And second, and third. "
exactly this

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Give them lots of orgasms! Then worry about yourself

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By *ctionman123XXX OP   Man
over a year ago

st clements

Have you found anyway to increase orgasms through penetration ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to make them cum before I even think about using my cock don't know if that's the right thing to do

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Take your time to find what pleases her.

Find every erogenous zone you can using your fingers, tongue and cock.

Even toys - if she's happy with that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Genuinely treat each woman as an individual. The previous answers don't apply to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try to make them cum before I even think about using my cock don't know if that's the right thing to do "

It is absolutely the right thing to do

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always try to make them cum before I even think about using my cock don't know if that's the right thing to do "

It wouldn't be for me.

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Not a women, but ...

There are a few women who never cum (so they've told me) - but they enjoy being the whole process of being pleasured. In such circumstances, it is nice to know that you don't have to finger blast her until she is dry - just share the moment with her.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's best to start by realising that women are indivuals and there isn't a set of moves or one approach that will work for every woman.

Kudos to the op for asking and seeking to learn.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Failing that- motorboat her.

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

I have not met any two women who are the same. I have met some who love to be linked, others who hated it. Some who love their nipples played with, others who it did nothing for. One whose preference was anal, most who would not even consider it.

It is about taking your time and watching and listening for what she likes. And then do it again to check. And, if she says no, then it means no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a few have said every woman is unique and an individual. Take your time, be patient and giving to find out what they enjoy. It’s always worked for me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A good build up, I can't just switch it on because someone's horny.

A willingness to please not just cum and run, read her body learn what she likes, spend time on her get warmed up before getting your end away.

Afterwards wipe your cock on the curtains & leave quietly.

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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For me, and every woman is different blah blah blah, it's about foreplay. Mental and physical. I like lots of kisses that gradually increase in intensity. Lots of easy, unhurried exploration.

The more intense orgasms? They happen if I'm relaxed and really in to the person/people I'm with. When it starts feeling like there's pressure to respond in a certain way I close down. The more relaxed I am, the better the sex will be for everyone involved, not just me. I like feeling desired in that moment, have a slight praise kink and utterly adore seeing how someone reacts to me. That's one of the biggest turn ons.

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By *ucklingMan
over a year ago

Sleaford

Be nice to her, treat her like she's the only person who matters, give her lots of orgasms, and enjoy her company.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"This is a genuine question for the ladies.

What’s the best way to truly make you beautiful women feel satisfied after and during sex?

Main aim of the question is I don’t want to be a selfish lover, wanting the women to feel climaxed and pleasured just as much as myself. "

Making her feel like she's the center of the universe

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By *ea wangMan
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Maybe op you should engage with them as individuals and see what they want or desire from the experience

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Lots of oral. Be assertive, authoratative and confident. If she's wiggling off the bed, pin her down and make her cum some more. Don't fingerblast for the squirt/gush, if you're good that will happen naturally.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

And then smack that assssss

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