FabSwingers.com forum: She is gagging for it He has no idea

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Current live situation:

ExGF, very open to anything. We driffted apart.

Now she's with LTP, but bored and asking for fun.

Her view is he is vanilla through and through. Tried a few ideas and he rejected outright.

Have fucked her a couple pf times since the LTP, but she wants more.... not sure how best to approach.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

Approach?

Don't know if you're boasting or asking for advice?

I'd get the fuck out of there ASAP. It has massive, avoidable drama, written all over it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Sounds like she needs more fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I'd approach it by not getting involved in cheating, but I'm guessing that's not the advice you're looking for.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Is she going to stay with him and see you on the side? If you're ok with that and being the back up, go for it. Surely you're worth more than that though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Suppose it'll be convenient for you to empty your sack when in the mood...both using each other...win win

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her some Maltesers and Skittles in the post. That'll spice up her time with her LTP

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As long as you're prepared to deal with the consequences if he finds out, crack on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Why be someone's option when you could be someone's 1st choice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid is as stupid does….

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Suppose it'll be convenient for you to empty your sack when in the mood...both using each other...win win"

You’re such a romantic

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ogWalkerDurhamMan
over a year ago

consett

Consent matters. Personally if he didn't know and consent i wouldn't go there. Ur not just fucking her ur also fucking their relationship by extension. Even though thats her prerogative still feels icky to me when you know he doesnt know.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Sounds like you and your ex are made for each other, tell her LTP what you have both been up to so the poor bloke can get on with his life and have a chance of meeting someone he can trust.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to get her relationship sorted out one way or the other and keep out of it until it is.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I would question whether all the acronyms are correct in your OP.

Ex GF?

LTP?

The only thing I know for sure is you play with fire you’re going to be burned.

Your choice as it’s not my circus or my clowns.

But an ex is an ex for a reason…

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he_ProzacsCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

Poor guy, the boyfriend in this deserves so much better. A shame that respect for other people can be in such short supply.

For you though, no advice that you'd want to hear tbh.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it’s cheating, no other way to describe it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread