FabSwingers.com forum: Drinking on first social meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

So, I had a meet last week, purely social

Met about 2pm.

Left about 4.30

In that time she sank 3 pints of lager.

I was a bit taken aback

Am I wrong ?

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By *MCMan
49 weeks ago

London/EA

Why’re you taken aback? Because she ordered a pint or because she had 3?

Everyone has their personal preference in drink. I don’t personally see any issue with it.

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By *aomilatteCouple
49 weeks ago

Midlands

50 minutes per pint, no need to be taken aback. Hopefully she doesn't see your post.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
49 weeks ago

Northampton

Assuming you had a social in a bar, this seems fine

If a library, I’d say a red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

What did you expect when meeting in a bar for a social OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Whoopy-do!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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49 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't think that's too bad. We met a couple and the woman drank 12 vodkas in a couple of hours, some were doubles. Her partner refused to go to the bar in the end.

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By *educerMan
49 weeks ago

Brentwood

Perhaps it says more about your level of conversation OP

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By *exy gentMan
49 weeks ago

Midlothian

That's a worry, bit of a lightweight lol ??

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By *layfullsamMan
49 weeks ago

Solihull

"So, I had a meet last week, purely social

Met about 2pm.

Left about 4.30

In that time she sank 3 pints of lager.

I was a bit taken aback

Am I wrong ?"

Neither of you are wrong it’s personal preference and you’re not compatible.

Maybe she didn’t like you in person as much as online but thought she’d see if drinking helped or maybe nerve's got to her

Did she start fighting with everyone and getting Leary or did she chill and was good company ?

I’d happily by a meet a pint or 3 if we were having a good time

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
49 weeks ago

Wherever

I made a mistake once to meet someone for “dinner”. He commented rudely on my choice of food, so since then I will ever only meet someone for coffee as a social meet.

I don’t drink alcohol but I guess it’s similar.

Too much unnecessary judgement.

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