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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" I love group sex. I also love fucking a freshly fucked woman. As I am a very visually sexual person I love the whole looking and joining in factor of it. I have fucked more mens wives then I have shared my own partner but tbh I do prefer the woman to be my partner as I love the whole "reclaiming" element of it! I am not and never be the classic cuckold! I would be more of a Stag in this situation (though I like fucking different woman too much to be only a stag) and when it comes to coming! i find I cum much more when I know the woman has been fucked already! I think its a subconsius thing in my mind that tells my sperm "right lads, you have competition, so you better squirt more then the other guy". but thats just me guessing! I do wish you lived closer to me and fancied me, as I would love to fuck you after a few other! again thats just me | |||
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".....would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger ....?" I haven't been in a full on gangbang, the closest I've enjoyed is 3 men and 2 women and several occasions of a crowded couples only room at a club. But from these broadly similar experiences, I'd answer you like this .... For me, the group sex was very visually stimulating and there's nothing more erotic than when your partner keeps her eyes locked on yours as another man enters her. In a MFM, I have enjoyed watching my partner being spoiled and the centre of attention. Her pleasure has increased my pleasure. It's hot!! I've been the extra guy in MFM a few times and really enjoyed it, but not as much as when my partner and I have had another guy join us. So I think in a GB, I'd have preferred it with my partner being the centre of attention rather than a stranger. Last but not least, women are incredibly powerful sexually and can fuck a whole room full of men if they want. Most men couldn't do the same the other way around, so it's good to have a few guys helping you to fulfil as much of her needs as she wants! Gbat | |||
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".....would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger ....? I haven't been in a full on gangbang, the closest I've enjoyed is 3 men and 2 women and several occasions of a crowded couples only room at a club. But from these broadly similar experiences, I'd answer you like this .... For me, the group sex was very visually stimulating and there's nothing more erotic than when your partner keeps her eyes locked on yours as another man enters her. In a MFM, I have enjoyed watching my partner being spoiled and the centre of attention. Her pleasure has increased my pleasure. It's hot!! I've been the extra guy in MFM a few times and really enjoyed it, but not as much as when my partner and I have had another guy join us. So I think in a GB, I'd have preferred it with my partner being the centre of attention rather than a stranger. Last but not least, women are incredibly powerful sexually and can fuck a whole room full of men if they want. Most men couldn't do the same the other way around, so it's good to have a few guys helping you to fulfil as much of her needs as she wants! Gbat " Yes you are spot on with your last paragraph | |||
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" Personally I'm a stag so like to see a women shared/used if that's her preference, also love to join in cum sluts are my kink and get off so much on them, it's much better if they kiss too .... yum yum | |||
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" An interesting thought though there is a theory that the shape of the penis has evolved to displace rival male's semen, when females would mate with multiple male's to increase the chances of continuing the species. This can still be seen in the natural world today with other species. If this theory is correct, perhaps the gangbang scenario taps into primal ways of those times. (I often think that we haven't evolved much over the millenia, in some respects - take a Friday night out for young adults. The females typically accentuate feminine characteristics, boobs, bums, hips, etc. The guys want to be buff and display strength, as well as wanting to be top guy / alpha male and have fights to prove that they're the strongest, protect their female against competition, etc - exactly what happens in the animal world.). | |||
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"Call me weird, but waiting in line with a bunch of wanking blokes, just to be one of many cocks inside a woman holds no appeal to me." You're weird. Gbat | |||
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"Call me weird, but waiting in line with a bunch of wanking blokes, just to be one of many cocks inside a woman holds no appeal to me. You're weird. Gbat " Fair, I asked for that | |||
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" One of my biggest turn ons is to see a woman in pleasure, even more so if I’m involved, so I’m not sure what that says about me and evolution or the sexual imperative or whatever… I just enjoy it | |||
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"Been in a few parties and GB's. Much less "rutting" than you think. Respect given to the female at all times, it can get sore don't you know." Very valid point. I've often found some people's perceptions of what they think a GB is actually like is very different from reality. | |||
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"Its an interesting point about the natural element even the "fertilizing with our seed" aspect as I have never seen gangbangs in a "reproductive" light. Especially as every single one I've been involved with we have played safe. I have never attended a bareback one. So of course, as the question asks, sex is really for procreation but acts like a gangbang, to me anyway, are simply pure hedonism. Its all about the pleasure. Particularly the woman's. Again, to me at least, its paramount the she enjoys herself the most. The men, by default, will also do so. But that's a secondary, albeit still an important one. However, I will add here that in many of the gangbangs I've been to I have seen other men obviously not comfortable being there once the fun started. Seen stage fright strike as well as nerves, awkwardness, whatever else. But I have never seen the lady, once the fun starts, back out. Maybe that's just pot luck on my part? But I have said in other posts on here and read others make this point too: Gangbangs are a "niche" thing. They have a selective fanbase and are certainly not for everyone. As echoed in other comments on this very thread. And that's fine. Vive La Difference! But again, in an attempt, to fully answer Kaytie0's question, the thing I like best is the woman enjoying her herself being satisfied by a horde of guys. There is that primal, testosterone fuelled dynamic of her being almost at the mercy when cornered by the "pack" yet she is still the "one". The "Big Kahuna" for a more lighthearted analogy. The centre of attention. The "goddess" even??? Use what term works best for you. Also realised from attending gangbangs I'm indeed a voyeur. I do like to watch. And watching a woman with multiple men I find more alluring and erotic. Does it make a difference if the woman is a stranger? Yes, a little bit it does. If the lady is "mine" as in say a partner (my ex-wife and I attended a few gangbangs together) then I maybe enjoy the watching that little bit more. We never did the cuck dynamic though so I'm not able to offer insight into that aspect. In a nutshell a gangbang to me is just a group of like minded people indulging in mutually satisfying, hopefully mind blowing, sexual pleasure. " Fully agree, think you pretty much hit the nail on the head here. | |||
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" I won’t lie being in the midle we’re u have a guy in side u and ur face down between a woman’s legs and then a woman ridding u while he has his cock in ur mouth are. Both just hot and feels great | |||
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"Mmf sometimes gives me chance to have a rest haha " Hahahah typical man answer! | |||
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"Mmf sometimes gives me chance to have a rest haha Hahahah typical man answer! " I think part of the turn on for the guys is fucking another guys wife and filling her with your cum while he’s there watching her get pleasured It’s also nice to watch the lady take multiple cocks at once it’s a live porn show | |||
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"Interesting replies " personally I love seeing a woman pleasured but also love fckin a pussy full of cum | |||
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"There are two aspects to it for me. I enjoy the voyeuristic side of watching people together. I also enjoy the primal side of it." Agree with this, it’s great to watch a woman who enjoys multiple guys get into it and enjoy it, fascinating to watch but also so immensely horny when in the thick of the action | |||
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" I loved it seeing a girl play with more cocks the better that's so hot I think it's better with someone you no as seeing them in action is also very hot but also been involved in a GB with people I didn't no and still is good fun | |||
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"Men just like seeing cock in some fashion be it their own or another’s " prob true but still love the feelin fckin a hole we lubed | |||
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" I've never taken part in one. What is it you enjoy about them, OP? | |||
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself? Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?" I've not had a gangbang yet, but I just love the fact that everyone is getting involved with the woman and she's taking all the guys and especially hot if she enjoy's being cummed inside. So as you fuck her you can feel the other guys cum and using it as lube. Idk, it's just hot. | |||
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"It's like real sex and porn all rolled into one. Especially sexy if the woman at the centre of attention is your partner watching her having huge amounts of pleasure is definitely a big plus" I watched a previous longterm GF getting banged by two guys. It was extremely hot and did a lot for both our sex lives! Gbat | |||
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