Over three different accounts on this site (my current solo profile, this one with a mate, and a popular M/F profile back in 2019/20) there’s always been something that really has grated on me, and I feel like others might feel the same.
As single guys, or indeed as a MM profile, it’s highly likely that your success rate won’t be a particularly high one, and that’s fine - we’ve all played the game, and rejection is just part of the process, whether on fab, sliding into a DM on social media, or out clubbing/partying.
‘Tis the way of the world’ and so it has been, since the dawn of time.
The male to female/couple ratio must weigh favourably for the former, and having seen first hand just how inundated a M/F or F profile can be (hundreds and hundreds of messages) I myself take no offence in a lack or reply or response - that’s the norm..
Lads, heed this advice please.
It’s quite normal that an attractive, mid 20’s couple, might not want to engage with an out of shape, 62 year old bloke from Doncaster.
Who’d of thought it hey?!
What I don’t like, and what is seemingly becoming a more regular trait on this site, is rude, abusive responses and profile/bio’s by those you wouldn’t look at twice in the street.
Now, go with me on this..
‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder’ blah blah blah I get that, but we all know what’s ‘attractive’ and what isn’t, let’s not kid ourselves, and most importantly, we all know how to be polite, and how to act with a bit of decorum.
Well, that’s what I thought, anyway.
Every day I see women or couples, who, let’s face it, you wouldn’t look twice at in the street, put out rude statuses or updates, moan about this and that, bio’s littered with sweat words or it’s written with an aggressive undertone.
To put it simply, most men aren’t fussy, they will fuck anything, and as a consequence, on a sex swapping site, you’re going to get messaged, whether you’re a 9 or a 2 - that’s a guarantee.
I’d actually say that the better looking women/couples are actually more polite than those further down the scale - they’re used to the messages, whereas for two tonne Tessie, perhaps this is the first bit of attention she’s had, I mean, I can’t imagine people are scrambling into the DM’s in the real world..
Let’s keep the message fairly basic here.. STAY IN YOUR LANE - or, at the very least, be humble.
Just remember, that the bloke that’s messaged you, has probably sent the same, generic copy and paste message to 100’s of other women on here.. you aren’t special, so why the rude persona?
Just because you have a c*nt, doesn’t mean you need to act like one, does it?
Ignore the message, delete the message, that’s what we used to do on my M/F profile - why would I reply calling someone an idiot, or can’t you read, or just be abusive, for abusive’s sake?
Tone down that ego yeah? It’s not benefiting anyone.
Rant over!! |
