FabSwingers.com forum: What made you realise you wanted to see your wife with another man?

By *ancs married couple OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Silverdale

For us, I had a dream that she gave someone a blow job. I was incredibly turned on but when I mentioned it she said she didnt fancy being with another man, just another woman, which was fine with me although I was surprised at how horney the dream was. Fast forward a few months and she's snogging this beautiful red head woman in a club. I was behind her playing with her. Afterwards she said the red head had asked her if she would wank her husband off. She said no at the time. After a bit of thought I said "maybe you should have done". She agreed! That's when we both decided it was time to take our naughtiness to then next level

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By *enatton2Couple
51 weeks ago

West Midlands

We watched a lot of porn together in our early days together, that put thoughts in our head that we spoke about and eventually decided to try

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By *ancs married couple OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Silverdale

Can see the natural progression there!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

Other way around for us I always had a fantasy of seeing him with another woman, similar to you I had a dream about him giving oral to another woman & that was hot, since then we've enjoyed some great experiences with other women.

As for other men it's me (Mrs) that isn't entirely sure I think I'm off cock

Mrs

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By *ancs married couple OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Silverdale

Ha ha it was the same for us! Mrs loved watching me with another female (and her enjoying the female too) but totally unsure about another cock! It was odd that i was the one that was instigating it but maybe that's normal afterall!

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By *bflirtyCouple
51 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

A long time ago at a BBQ someone I’d never met before talked about Torture Garden and then a week or so later invited us (ex wife now). Ended up playing and never looked back. When I met Alicia I told her after a short time what I was into and took her to TG - she loved it. That was 24 years ago…

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By *ibblepilotMan
51 weeks ago

Preston

"For us, I had a dream that she gave someone a blow job. I was incredibly turned on but when I mentioned it she said she didnt fancy being with another man, just another woman, which was fine with me although I was surprised at how horney the dream was. Fast forward a few months and she's snogging this beautiful red head woman in a club. I was behind her playing with her. Afterwards she said the red head had asked her if she would wank her husband off. She said no at the time. After a bit of thought I said "maybe you should have done". She agreed! That's when we both decided it was time to take our naughtiness to then next level

Dream scenario!

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By *anx666Man
51 weeks ago

Camden

I love watching videos of my wife in our 3 sums. Men & woman.

Men ones are better , watching her face as she's getting fucked & cumming. Big turn on !

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
51 weeks ago

Bradford

I think I'd reach rock bottom if that thought ever crossed my mind .its beyond my comprehension. yet seam very popular here.how the world has changed .

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By *ee1967Man
51 weeks ago

watford

When me and ex wife started swinging we met maybe 5 cples, we realised we both got very turned on with just a guy, she loved to suck, wank, kiss and fuxk him as I watched. And I loved to wank and watch and join in

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
50 weeks ago

Gloucester

For us it was when a work colleague made a pass at Wifey at a works Christmas party. They had a little kiss but that was all. She put a stop to it and tearfully confessed when she got home. But what shocked us both was how turned on I got and we had great sex. We chatted afterwards and I said if she wanted to take it further I wouldn’t mind. That opened the door to us swinging and all the fun we’ve enjoyed since. As regards the guy at her work, nothing happened for several years but then when he handed his notice in and he made another pass at her she responded and they fucked a couple of times

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By *yeSureMan
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

The constant glares and stares when we were out n about. You see some guys and then that starts the mind wondering and wandering

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By *ogerroger69Man
50 weeks ago

West Yorks

A deep yearning for a few years before it actually happened x it changes your sex life x

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By *4funXXXMan
50 weeks ago

cheshire

It was after she had told me about her ex boyfriend and what he did with her. I just said I’d loved to have watched it. Eventually got the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

We are always talking about it. It turns us both on loads at the thought but at the moment she won't take the next step.I'm not pressuring her, what will be, will be

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By *CBoyTV/TS
50 weeks ago

Tonypandy

"We watched a lot of porn together in our early days together, that put thoughts in our head that we spoke about and eventually decided to try"

Similar for me. I noticed she was prticulary getting turned on by photos of women with two guys. After some gentle coaxing she admitted that it had always been a fantasy of hers ..so we did embark on a number of threesomes. It was fantastic seeing her enjoying two cocks and it felt so loving knowing I'd helped her to enjoy her sexuality that way.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
50 weeks ago

Cannock

I knew Dee has been quite adventurous with other guys before we met, threesomes, photography, etc, so I suppose a natural progression into cuckolding was obvious.

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
50 weeks ago

Cornwall/Devon

Very early on in our (what was then a vanilla) relationship we started talking about fantasies as you do. Ruth eventually confessed to wanting to have two guys at the same time. My reply was “I can make that happen” (having been on the scene a little bit before). Silence from Ruth for a few minutes then a whispered “go on then”.

It was an amazing first time for her and the rest as they say is history.

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By *outhwesthornMan
50 weeks ago

villamartin

I love it the way she acts its such a turn on I wouldn't have it any other way now

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By *ill700Man
50 weeks ago

london

My ex got me into it when we started dating she confessed she felt bad after a date she went and sucked her ex off I said don’t worry it turns me on we had lots of fun together she met him a few times and another ex and a few others amazing times

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
50 weeks ago

Bristol

For me it's less of a 'want her to be with other guys' and more 'want to be with her whilst we play with others'.

I'd watched alot of threesomes and group sex in porn, and love seeing and hearing Mrs orgasm and be pleasured etc so it's seemed natural to want to see her experience that.

I would sometimes imagine having a other guy if she was sucking me on all 4s, or sucking a guy if we were in doggy. I just wanted her to experience being spoiled by others.

Plus I got very turned on by the prospect of couple swapping and seeing her play with a guy while I fucked someone new too

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By *elaxing2Couple
50 weeks ago

Manchester

First realised when discussing sex and always wanted to see us with other people involved as turn on thinking of sucking another man’s cock and seeing them slide inside her and luckily for me Lucy was thinking same and wanted others involved and have multiple cocks and pussies xx

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By *urreywifeandmeCouple
50 weeks ago

woking

Had very clear dreams of her taking other cocks after watching her using toys in front of me . My best mate had her on his lap and his hand was up her skirt playing with her pussy after a boozy nite out . I could even hear how wet she was. Fucked her on way home and again when in doors , incredible time

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
50 weeks ago

houghton

The Mrs used to swing with her ex and was open about it in our first date, I had zero problem with it as love and sez are two vastly different things. I love seeing her enjoying herself and she loves being a slut.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
50 weeks ago

Cardiff

To give you the night off

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Watching with interest

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By *randMrs45Couple
50 weeks ago

Birmingham

We talk about it a lot more lately, have plenty of role play with the idea…I don’t know what’s stopping us really, we both want it to happen it’s just taking that first step

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
50 weeks ago

Lurgan

We were out one night and the Mrs told someone she liked the look of them, and instead of being annoyed like I thought I should have been, I was a bit turned on by the thought. Think it stayed in my mind after because I had a few vivid dreams of her playing with other men and woke up hornier than I’ve ever been. Told her all of this, discussed it and luckily I got to experience what I’d been fantasying about for a year in real life … was class to be fair

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By *aramel.desiresMan
50 weeks ago

Birmingham

"We talk about it a lot more lately, have plenty of role play with the idea…I don’t know what’s stopping us really, we both want it to happen it’s just taking that first step"

May be try a club. Go for the atmosphere and chillax. You don't have enough play huy you get the chance to dress up and feel sexy. The worse that can happen is you have a great night together.

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By *aloo42Couple
50 weeks ago

preston

One summer evening we were playing pool at a local pub, she was dressed for the weather and some lads made a few comments about her legs, arse, tits. Nothing happened but we had an interesting chat after. Saw a strange advert for a club in Blackpool and took the plunge. Haven't looked back and made some good friends in the process

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By *akedTruthPT2Couple
50 weeks ago

Wellington

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By *akedTruthPT2Couple
50 weeks ago

Wellington

"I love watching videos of my wife in our 3 sums. Men & woman.

Men ones are better , watching her face as she's getting fucked & cumming. Big turn on !"

This. 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Would love to see my wife with other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Mines a bit odd. Me my wife and brother went out for a meal and all got a bit d*unk. Went back to oirs and I was showing him how my IPTV system worked. It just happened that it had quite a comprehensive selection of porn channels and films which we started watching. Wife was complaining and went to get more drinks. When she got back she sat next to me and I surreptitiously started playing with her. She didn’t stop me so I went for pussy. She didn’t stop me again. One thing led to another and I ended up fuckeing hee in the lounge with my brother watching. I didn’t last long and she wa still horny so I told her my brother will fuck her. He did. It was very horny and we went from there!

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Imagining it during sex with her and getting even more aroused as a consequence.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
50 weeks ago

moved to cuckold land

Me & my wife roleplay together her fucking others & i know I so want take it to reality.

My wife not having same thought at present though unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

We had been chatting about getting involved in the lifestyle. I said that I’d love to see her with another bloke. Turned out that she got very turned on with the thought of me with a bloke. We organised a meet. Both ended up sucking his cock together and she watched me on my own with him and vice versa.

Here’s to more hot meets.

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By *atfighterMan
50 weeks ago

Aldridge

When she said I couldn't have another bike.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
50 weeks ago

outside of penrith

With ex we often video our selves watched it back . Also loved hearing her talk about past sex life . We talked about fatazises etc. Also back before we lived together had lot car sex we got Court one night by some lads in a car we found it more a turn on than embarrassed

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By *nlyfunsMan
50 weeks ago

Anyone want to chat about it on snap???

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
50 weeks ago

easington were the sun dont shine

watching porn saw f2f i said love to see you with a woman , cpl weeks later we booked 1 night at a bnb club just to watch test the water. got bit d*unk she ended up in a ffff little orgy. few years later we booked a hotel to meet a fem , as they were playing they got me to join in, after the session the female left i told her to put on blindfold as i had a suprize ,she did i had a man come to room .

he done what was asked giving her oral till she cum them fucked her hard, lots of emotions flying thru my head .soon as they were finished i fucked her harder than ever.

now even though we play with cpls and fems i love to watch her getting fucked hard ,have a few dvds also great to watch back when horny.

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