FabSwingers.com forum: Sending a dick pic in the first message

By *ymAndIcedCoffee OP Woman
51 weeks ago

Worcester

I wish guys wouldn't do this.

I have now seen the penis of a contractor that I use at work.

I didn't want to see his penis.

And now I have to see him next week on a job, and he has no idea that I know what he looks like naked.

It might even be weird enough for me that I find a different contractor for future jobs.

Just don't do it guys. Not until you're asked for one.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
51 weeks ago

London

What’s worse is when you think you’re chatting to a woman and she sends a dick pic haha

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
51 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.

I dunno why people don’t send a message like hi I like your profile etc would you like to see my dick?

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By *avexxMan
51 weeks ago

cheshire

nope i agree abs no need for it,,

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By *enatton2Couple
51 weeks ago

West Midlands

For us it usually gets the message deleted immediately or if I’m in a bad mood then it’s a block

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
51 weeks ago

Wherever

I agree, once seen, you just can’t un see it.

And before someone jumps on me saying “But it’s a sex site!” I know, and I still don’t consent to see anyone’s genitalia.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffee OP Woman
51 weeks ago

Worcester

"For us it usually gets the message deleted immediately or if I’m in a bad mood then it’s a block"

This time it's a bit more than a delete or a block, it might have lost him about £18k of work per year!

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By *ames-77Man
51 weeks ago

milton keynes

Most blokes have dick pics on their profile so would be very silly to send one

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
51 weeks ago

Home

I'm don't think I have sent a Dick pic unless I was asked

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By *andPextraCouple
51 weeks ago

North West

Instant delete. Or one as a profile picture. Along with messages we can read the whole of without opening it.

Put

Some

Effort

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By *erkshire8299Man
51 weeks ago

slough

Is it ok to have a dick pic only on your profile but then to send a face photo when contacting anyone ?

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By *lym4realCouple
51 weeks ago

plymouth

We tend to block anyone who has just dick pics or insists on sending us one and far more interested in what it's attached to ....but it is a weird way to try to kick off a conversation though !

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
51 weeks ago

London

" We tend to block anyone who has just dick pics or insists on sending us one and far more interested in what it's attached to ....but it is a weird way to try to kick off a conversation though !

I don’t randomly send dick pics but I do have a lot on my profile so you’d probably block me straight away x

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By *ymAndIcedCoffee OP Woman
51 weeks ago

Worcester

"Is it ok to have a dick pic only on your profile but then to send a face photo when contacting anyone ? "

I have no problem with dick pics on profiles.

I'd personally they weren't avatar photos because, quite frankly, I don't want penis shoved in my face every time I browse the site or forums.

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By *TinRedCouple
51 weeks ago

Reading

We HATE unsolicited dick pics! We don't reply to guys when have them as their profile pic too... It's the worst!

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By *TinRedCouple
51 weeks ago

Reading

"Is it ok to have a dick pic only on your profile but then to send a face photo when contacting anyone ? "

Why would you have a dick pic as your profile pic? We genuinely don't understand why guys do this?

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By *restonCouple555Couple
51 weeks ago

preston

"I dunno why people don’t send a message like hi I like your profile etc would you like to see my dick? "

Because on some level they know the answer will be, 100% of the time, "No."

But then, they know that the answer to anything else they ask will also be "no." Most single men, even if they do arrive with the misconception that they will get sex on here, quickly learn that just like in real life, nobody's interested in them or their dicks.

For these guys, showing their unwanted penises to unsuspecting women is the closest thing they'll get to sexual contact, and websites like these are basically the one remaining place they can get away with it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't know why they think it works, I wonder if they would flash some randomer in the street (and bollocks to this is a sex site excuse)

Yes you have a cock well done you, no I don't wanna see it.

I just ignore them or rate them if im feeling that way inclined, it's never a good rating.

Mrs

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By *ileyandOhCouple
51 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Dick we delete. When you send just a dick pic we assume ....you are just a dick

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By *helovesitwetCouple
51 weeks ago

Auchterarder

"I wish guys wouldn't do this.

I have now seen the penis of a contractor that I use at work.

I didn't want to see his penis.

And now I have to see him next week on a job, and he has no idea that I know what he looks like naked.

It might even be weird enough for me that I find a different contractor for future jobs.

Just don't do it guys. Not until you're asked for one."
always immediately block and delete if a cock photo appears first message .I don't think men know ladies are not bothered by cock photos

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By *iredhandMan
51 weeks ago

Manchester

I don’t send unsolicited dick pics. If people want to see them they can either check my profile or ask for one. You wouldn’t get your cock out for a stranger you like outside fab would you?

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By *pstanding CitizenMan
51 weeks ago

Nottingham

I don't send them unless asked

I have a couple on my profile as is,so don't feel the need to send them in messages

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By *anchbiguy84Man
51 weeks ago

bristol

You should try grindr.

I see your “unsolicited dick pic” and raise you “unsolicited butthole pics”

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By *emptme1993Man
51 weeks ago

manchester

I don’t see the point, also why I don’t have one set as my profile. Everyone knows I’ve got a male profile so chances are if they go on it and look they’ll see them pics if they wanted to see them

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"You should try grindr.

I see your “unsolicited dick pic” and raise you “unsolicited butthole pics”"

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I can say I've never done this

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By *archelCouple
51 weeks ago

A field somewhere

We all know what we're here for...no need at all. Same with sending filthy chat to someone you've never met. Grinds my gears.

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By *iredhandMan
51 weeks ago

Manchester

"We all know what we're here for...no need at all. Same with sending filthy chat to someone you've never met. Grinds my gears.

No filthy chat from me and definitely not as a first message. I’m more interested in finding out more about the person before making any assumptions. The filthy chat can be kept for more appropriate occasions.

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By *orn-in-69Couple
51 weeks ago

Shipley

Sending them uninvited at all. One guy we were potentially interested in sent one. We said please don't send another... what did he do? Did he get to meet us?

Answers on a postcard!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is it ok to have a dick pic only on your profile but then to send a face photo when contacting anyone ?

I have no problem with dick pics on profiles.

I'd personally they weren't avatar photos because, quite frankly, I don't want penis shoved in my face every time I browse the site or forums."

This.

It's the same for men and women tbh.

Have one (or a couple) in your profile gallery, but FFS don't set your profile photo as a close up crotch shot and don't send in messages unless requested.

Simples really, yet so many assume that because Fab is a a sex/swinging site it's necessary to shove your crotch virtually in someone's face.

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By *tickler2000Man
51 weeks ago

St Agnes

You wouldn't do in real life. I wouldn't say hello to a lady then flop my cock out in Tescos

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
51 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Dick pics and dick profile pics earn an insta ban from me.

Like I know you're very proud of it, but it's just a know with some wrinkly skin attached.

When I want to see it, I'll ask.

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By *aizyWoman
51 weeks ago

west midlands

I don't get sending a dick pic in a msg, when the same dick pic is the only pic on their profile and its their profile pic, baffles me.

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