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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

So this one's obviously for all the couples out there... How do you feel about meeting a guy who's never had a MMF before? Would the lack of experience put you off or would you be excited to introduce him to something new?

I've been with quite a lot of girls and a few guys but never both, so does anyone have any advice for those who haven't yet? Or what kind of couples to look for and how to find them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

No one?

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
51 weeks ago

goffs oak

For us verifications are the most important thing, if someone hasn’t experienced a threesome that’s fine, but knowing they are genuine and verified is the most important thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

Thank you I hadn't thought about that, I guess my profile looks kind of empty without them.

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By *ikos81Man
51 weeks ago

Glasgow


"For us verifications are the most important thing, if someone hasn’t experienced a threesome that’s fine, but knowing they are genuine and verified is the most important thing."
Ok maybe u are right but is I m not verand having issue how can I meet

People??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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51 weeks ago

East Sussex

We'd be fine. Everyone has to start somewhere

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By *heonixrising500Man
51 weeks ago

Barnsley

My first was a really good meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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51 weeks ago

East Sussex

The only advice I'd give would be chat to the couple find out broadly what they expect and let them know what you expect. If you think meeting socially first would help go for a drink with them

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I’m yet to experience this and would / will treat it like the start of anything else with conversations and friendship, getting to know both is essential for me.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
51 weeks ago

Liverpool

Our first mfm was also the guys first threesome. I enjoyed the build up chatting with him and setting boundaries. It all went perfect and we all had an exciting very horny time which we repeated several times with him before enjoying another guy.

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By *helroyCouple
51 weeks ago

Skegness

Love 1st ones

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By *archelCouple
51 weeks ago

A field somewhere

No issue for us as long as he ticks all my boxes, I'm having him

Mrs

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By *nkedguy777Man
51 weeks ago

Manchester

Never had the opportunity of a threesome,so glad couples would be ok with that

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By *aturasqCouple
51 weeks ago

Hertfordshire


"For us verifications are the most important thing, if someone hasn’t experienced a threesome that’s fine, but knowing they are genuine and verified is the most important thing."

Totally agree

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By *revaunanceCouple
51 weeks ago

Exeter


"Would the lack of experience put you off"

No.


"or would you be excited to introduce him to something new?"

No, we get excited about meeting with people. We are swingers, not apprenticeship coordinators.


"I've been with quite a lot of girls and a few guys but never both, so does anyone have any advice for those who haven't yet? Or what kind of couples to look for and how to find them? "

Finding them is easy if you use the site's tools or attend clubs and socials. Remember they are probably looking too, so all you have to do is find one another.

When it comes to messaging, on Fab it tends to be the male half that filters the messages and then the female half see the few that have not been discounted. This might not always be the case, but assume the male half will read the message first.

When it comes to meeting, include both people in the conversation, don't just fixate on her, because he'll soon get annoyed and the meet could come to a rapid end. Also, don't assume anything, they will let you know when they are ready to play.

Good luck

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By *heelz69Man
51 weeks ago

Manchester

Still waiting for my 1st

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By *aximus74Woman
51 weeks ago

Manchester


"So this one's obviously for all the couples out there... How do you feel about meeting a guy who's never had a MMF before? Would the lack of experience put you off or would you be excited to introduce him to something new?

I've been with quite a lot of girls and a few guys but never both, so does anyone have any advice for those who haven't yet? Or what kind of couples to look for and how to find them? "

Don't think too much about it,be yourself,have a chat and a drink first and I'm sure it will flow naturally. Don't put too much pressure on yourself and just enjoy it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

Can't speak for guys but we've met women who have never met with a couple before, it's never been an issue for us or them as long as all sides are respectful, obviously there's 1st time nerves to consider

Mrs

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By *eachcplCouple
51 weeks ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

We have met guys who don't have any verifications and have taken a chance on them. We all have to start somewhere. Generally we have not had any problems, athough after some meets we have decided not to meet them again.

On the other hand we would never consider meeting anyone who had a lengthy list of verifications. That would not be the type of person we would ever meet. Someone who is putting it about all over the place.

It's down to individual choice. Only you can make your decision.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
51 weeks ago

Scarborogh


"We have met guys who don't have any verifications and have taken a chance on them. We all have to start somewhere. Generally we have not had any problems, athough after some meets we have decided not to meet them again.

On the other hand we would never consider meeting anyone who had a lengthy list of verifications. That would not be the type of person we would ever meet. Someone who is putting it about all over the place.

It's down to individual choice. Only you can make your decision. "

I think it is important to consider verifications to check compatibility, but reflect on where these are from. We have many, but lots of these are from socials. They prove we are genuine and friendly! Mrs SW

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By *ice guy 77Man
51 weeks ago

ashford

I've had quite a few mfm meets, but found that some on here don't want to leave feedback,yet I've meet them more than once,and it's been fantastic,they keep asking me back, ???

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