FabSwingers.com forum: Spontaneous meets...

By *osh bloke OP Man
51 weeks ago

hereford

Who has had one and has anyone ever had a bad one?

It's usually the spontaneous ones that turn out to be the best in my experience. I've noticed on fab that they're looked down upon and I wondered why?

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By *ellhungvweMan
51 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I like spontaneous meets - they are the most likely to happen. I don’t tend to take much notice of what the forums decide is and isn’t acceptable - it’s weird that a spontaneous meet on the site is “unacceptable” but that is literally what most club meets are and that is the default advise for single males. Go figure

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By *rpeggioCouple
51 weeks ago

Baughurst

"looked down upon"? "Unacceptable"? Where's that coming from? I've never read anything in the forums saying it implying that.

Many people will complain though about others (men and couples mostly) messaging about "meet now/today" and how annoying is that. Disregards other people's lives and time. It's like barging in the practice asking to see the doctor NOW!!... Well, normally people make an appointment at a time available for both.

Because it's only spontaneous for the person/couple that you want to fuck. For you, it's not spontaneous, is it? You choose a time that you are available and horny, you choose when to message, how and to whom. Not much spontaneity in that, right?.

If any of you two had a 3 year old son/daughter to take care of tonight, I bet you would not message anyone asking them to fuck tonight (or maybe, sadly, you would).

Nothing wrong with spontaneous, it's wild and sexy and hot, what people don't like is the entitlement and arrogance in the way some people message others about meeting "now".

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By *ankman69Man
51 weeks ago

WILLENHALL

I have had both, planned and unplanned, but also spontaneous to me this where you are texting and decide “fuck it” lets meet” might be for coffee or a lot more.

Planned is an arranged meeting, just be honest and if you say you’re going, go.

Unplanned is you meet at a social and it takes off, or even at a club, you meet and its gets steamy.

All should be carried out with respect and boundaries.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
51 weeks ago

Ashford and dept16

"I have had both, planned and unplanned, but also spontaneous to me this where you are texting and decide “fuck it” lets meet” might be for coffee or a lot more.

Planned is an arranged meeting, just be honest and if you say you’re going, go.

Unplanned is you meet at a social and it takes off, or even at a club, you meet and its gets steamy.

All should be carried out with respect and boundaries.

We agree if the desire is thrre why not clubs are the normal arena lending it's

Self to spontaneous play, but socials may and have lead to more. Only a couple of messages have but that was when we were first in thus hobby and giddy with excitement. It can be very thrilling.

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By *ananas57Couple
51 weeks ago

lake ariel

Almost all my meets are spontaneous, I’m not a planner

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