FabSwingers.com forum: Unicorn

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Obviously as the name suggests they are few and far between, but to be this difficult to find a single woman willing to join a couple is an under statement. We have yet to meet a single woman from fab after being on here for over a year, we've definitely had more luck around the local pubs than anywhere else.. Are we doing something wrong?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

So many couples are exactly the same, it is so difficult, but it does happen. Just keep trying, and attend social events and clubs as they are a great way to meet people.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oveToPlay.Couple
49 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx"

I suppose your right yes, I just think that I don't want to see fuck picks so why would any other woman?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

"So many couples are exactly the same, it is so difficult, but it does happen. Just keep trying, and attend social events and clubs as they are a great way to meet people."

We used to go Atlantis but we mainly go the derby one but now that is shut for a while we've been re thinking what we can do

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oveToPlay.Couple
49 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx

I suppose your right yes, I just think that I don't want to see fuck picks so why would any other woman?"

They don't have to be of a sexual nature xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx

I suppose your right yes, I just think that I don't want to see fuck pics so why would any other woman?"

It's a very valid point. I would definitely want to see what the man looks like as I would be playing with him too. Why would you post fuck picks? There are photos of you that aren't fuck pics, so just do similar shots of Mr.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"So many couples are exactly the same, it is so difficult, but it does happen. Just keep trying, and attend social events and clubs as they are a great way to meet people.

We used to go Atlantis but we mainly go the derby one but now that is shut for a while we've been re thinking what we can do"

There are clubs all over the country, just take your pick

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx

I suppose your right yes, I just think that I don't want to see fuck picks so why would any other woman?

They don't have to be of a sexual nature xxx"

I suppose not lol. We do have photos of us orh set to friends only.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx

I suppose your right yes, I just think that I don't want to see fuck pics so why would any other woman?

Sorry I meant dick picks, auto correct had me there x

Yeah will do that then.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rouble81Couple
49 weeks ago

Bolton

I think some are nervous to friend request without chatting. I agree that as a female I need to be attracted to both parts of the couple so would like to see something of him too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entle_lover_xMan
49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

"Obviously as the name suggests they are few and far between, but to be this difficult to find a single woman willing to join a couple is an under statement. We have yet to meet a single woman from fab after being on here for over a year, we've definitely had more luck around the local pubs than anywhere else.. Are we doing something wrong?"

Well there are actually quite a lot of so called unicorns although many don't particularly like the term. The problem is the vast majority of couples are looking for one so competition is high. As others have said pics of man are a must. Also I think lots steer away from bi-curious ladies and prefer bisexual. Rightly or wrongly many seem to feel like they will be part of an experiment. Saying that you've met somebody so doing better than most. It is possible to meet from here but much better chances at socials, parties, clubs, etc.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
49 weeks ago

Lincoln

Apart from the picture comments above that I'd agree with, your profile doesn't really tell anyone anything about you either.

LvM

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entle_lover_xMan
49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

As an aside why is that when thinking of pics of a man there first though goes to fucking or showing off his cock?! It really is baffling at times. Is it the same in real life? Can a lady only check somebody's attractiveness if they are fucking or wandering about with a full on flagpole?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *archelCouple
49 weeks ago

A field somewhere

We have a few unicorn friends who we go clubbing with regularly, although we don't play with them.

As a straight woman who prefers single guys, I find it incredibly difficult to find good respectful guys to play with...in my experience they're rarer...I now call them unimen lol

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
49 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx

I suppose your right yes, I just think that I don't want to see fuck pics so why would any other woman?

Sorry I meant dick picks, auto correct had me there x

Yeah will do that then."

This 1000000%

You're expecting a woman to engage with you both. So need to give them an idea of who they're talking to.

Many couples are guilty of having similar images, dominated by shots of her because 'she's better looking', 'he takes the pics' or for any number of reasons. You're not helping yourselves.

There's nothing worse than a conversation going well with a couple and then when you finally get to see both parties the interest/attraction changes. Be upfront. Give people a clear idea of who you are and You're far more likely to get the result you seek. Having been in a couple for a decade we always had equal numbers of shots of us both, as well as plenty of us together.

Single women have always been in high demand and have both singles and couples seeking them, so have plenty of options.

Why would they choose the hard path when so many profiles allow them to see who they're talking to and can easily make decisions on attraction from the outset?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Thanks for the advice, I'm glad I asked now because we would of never known that we need pictures of him, and as more to the profile about ourselves

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heekyDemandCouple
49 weeks ago

Leicester

It's possible you could meet a woman from a couple, if their man is happy to sit back and just watch. No different than a cuck/bull scenario except you are adding an extra woman.

Have been more than happy to do this ourselves and have seen plenty of others do this in clubs too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

"We have a few unicorn friends who we go clubbing with regularly, although we don't play with them.

As a straight woman who prefers single guys, I find it incredibly difficult to find good respectful guys to play with...in my experience they're rarer...I now call them unimen lol

Mrs"

Good name, I'm happy IV got such a respectable partner, he knows what he can and can't do and is so attentive in pleasuring me and other women we've been with.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heGigglersCouple
49 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Fab isn't a great place to look to be honest, as someone who set up a SF profile last year, I can safely say most of their inboxes will be full to bursting, and most of it will be trash!

Go to a club, treat it like you would a night at your local where you are doing just fine. Be warm and approachable, don't act like you are just looking for sex, and if you do meet someone, ask what they are looking for. A lot of couples seem to forget it's not all about what they want

Another good tip is DON'T go for nights where its couples and single females only. Most of our single friends hate couples nights, and on a night where everyone is welcome you are more likely to find couples who play separately too, so this increases your chances of success even more!

Hope this helps,

MrsGiggler x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *p4fun60Couple
49 weeks ago

Hampshire

In the last 12 months we've been extremely lucky in that we've had the fortune & pleasure of having quite a few single ladies join us as playmates - but always met them in a club environment, none as a direct message through fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

"In the last 12 months we've been extremely lucky in that we've had the fortune & pleasure of having quite a few single ladies join us as playmates - but always met them in a club environment, none as a direct message through fab

Yeah I think we need get back into the clubs, our local is Atlantis it's a shame the last time we were there Mr nearly had heat stroke it was that hot lol. And now the derby one is temporarily closed we don't go there, but we have seen one in Runcorn open so may venture out that way, child minder dependant x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rouble81Couple
49 weeks ago

Bolton

We are planning on Xtasia this weekend but not sure if that’s out of your way. I know there are a few in Birmingham.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adgerMan
49 weeks ago

york

"We have a few unicorn friends who we go clubbing with regularly, although we don't play with them.

As a straight woman who prefers single guys, I find it incredibly difficult to find good respectful guys to play with...in my experience they're rarer...I now call them unimen lol

Mrs"

I thought you had to ride a one wheel bike to get that badge!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Wet met one when I was married but only one time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

For myself there has to be attraction with both parts of the couple for me that is the hardest but. I find a lot of couples profiles only have pictures of the female and none of the male or just a cock pic

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ong-leggedblondWoman
49 weeks ago

Next Door

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx

I suppose your right yes, I just think that I don't want to see fuck picks so why would any other woman?"

As a single female I like to see both parties in the couple before I play. And yes, it does happen.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atnip make me purrWoman
49 weeks ago

Reading

"Hey guys

Just had a look at your profile and the only pics you have are of the Mrs.

As lovely as they are, a woman who's looking to meet a couple would also want to see what the male half looks like.

So maybe start with uploading some pics of you both

S xxx"

Good shout.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnmrsjones OP Couple
49 weeks ago

stoke on trent

We are planning on Xtasia this weekend but not sure if that’s out of your way. I know there are a few in Birmingham. "

We've made pla s this weekend, but would definitely like to meet up more with people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heekyDemandCouple
49 weeks ago

Leicester

It's not a universal problem, we have single woman friends that regularly go to clubs and bemoan that they aren't welcome as they only want to swap and not add a +1

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andPextraCouple
49 weeks ago

North West

We must be going the wrong clubs…

In all our visits I hardly ever recall a single lady.

It’s harder to meet single ladies than we thought.

My strap on is still untested

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
49 weeks ago

I don't think single women who are happy to meet couples are unicorns. Far too many of them prancing around.

That aside, OP, remember there are two of you. Wanting to meet one person. Make sure your profile, your conversations all reflect that. It's far easier in person to see/feel chemistry and as much as the go to clubs/socials line can be scoffed at, it's a good way of meeting women.

If you were a single woman and wanting to meet a couple, what would you be looking for? That could help you think about how to approach it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"We must be going the wrong clubs…

In all our visits I hardly ever recall a single lady.

It’s harder to meet single ladies than we thought.

My strap on is still untested

"
loads single women go to Cupid's in Manchester

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Silver FuxMan
49 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

They are called Unicorns, the mythical creatures, for a reason…

In Hot Fuzz Newsagent voice “Ain’t caught any of them Unicorns then”

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andPextraCouple
49 weeks ago

North West

We have only been there once.

It was like a morgue.

Possibly the wrong night, time of the month or just unlucky.

But i suppose we could revisit

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ayxWoman
49 weeks ago

brentwood

Hi OP

I'm a unicorn that has met several couples for MFF and I also meet with a FB for other dynamics.

I looked through your profile and I'd say a picture or two of your partner (clothed or in boxers) would help massively.

The pictures you currently have are stunning but if you are aiming for a woman to join you both then show both of you imo.

C xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arried West End CoupleCouple
49 weeks ago

Glasgow

We would love to meet a unicorn for some regular fun. But it’s hard to find one x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heekyDemandCouple
49 weeks ago

Leicester

"We have only been there once.

It was like a morgue.

Possibly the wrong night, time of the month or just unlucky.

But i suppose we could revisit

Doesn't need to be a single woman to use your strapon, plenty of women in couples are happy to get fucked hard by another woman too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ouplemidzCouple
49 weeks ago

Nr Market Bosworth

To be honest we have never had any problems meeting single woman, we do go to organised socials and clubs though.

We also go on cam in the chatroom and just have a laugh.

Have had alot of fun over the years.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heekyDemandCouple
49 weeks ago

Leicester

To be honest we have never had any problems meeting single woman, we do go to organised socials and clubs though.

We also go on cam in the chatroom and just have a laugh.

Have had alot of fun over the years.

Probably Libs, Attic, Chams?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tlanshiaWoman
49 weeks ago

Chatham

Being called a unicorn is a little off putting tbh.

A lot of couples approach with what the unicorn can provide the couple. We would like to do x. Some, not saying you do these things, forget the single woman is a person and what the couple could offer her.

Is it one off, scope for a FWB situation. it's harder because you have to like three people.

Also some male pictures would be ideal.

Ive been the couple and the unicorn.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"We have only been there once.

It was like a morgue.

Possibly the wrong night, time of the month or just unlucky.

But i suppose we could revisit

"
there lots of daytime and evening event s on Cupids gone very busy the hosts doing good job getting them in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss DevilWoman
49 weeks ago

Bedford

I used to meet couples, for 1:1 meets. Your profile would be one I'd ignore as there is zero information about how experienced the woman is, for instance the "bi-curious" bit normally tells me she is, most likely, inexperienced and not sure about girly play. Even though I am happy to be the active part of girly play, I would be worried I'd join you just for him to get his fantasy fulfilled rather than being an equal partner.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *om and JennieCouple
49 weeks ago

Chams or Socials

Have you thought about attending local socials? There is utb and lichvegas, and then maybe try xtasia and chams for clubs. We have met quite a few single ladies and become friends with some although we have not played with any yet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isstinseltoesWoman
49 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not a unicorn, but would echo what others said. The lack of any pics of the man will be offputting to single women,looking to meet 2 people.

Bi women are much sought after by most couples so can afford to be picky. They'd need to see you both to know if theres any initial attraction.

Pics don't have to be sexual, but you need one or two of him to show his body type and maybe a couple of you together.

Clubs also seem a popular way for couples to meet bi ladies too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread