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"Some do. Some don’t. Some see it as predatory. Some are naive." True i guess some could see it like that x | |||
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"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill " Sadly I cannot think of an older man / (much) younger woman kink dynamic that I’ve known where the man wasn’t being predatory and taking advantage of the naivety of the young woman. A few years ago I learned that the critical thinking part of the brain, the part that understands long-term consequences to decisions and actions, doesn’t fully form until at least the mid twenties. And that changed the way I thought about large age gap relationships and interactions quite considerably. | |||
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"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill Sadly I cannot think of an older man / (much) younger woman kink dynamic that I’ve known where the man wasn’t being predatory and taking advantage of the naivety of the young woman. A few years ago I learned that the critical thinking part of the brain, the part that understands long-term consequences to decisions and actions, doesn’t fully form until at least the mid twenties. And that changed the way I thought about large age gap relationships and interactions quite considerably." I was thinking more of ladies say around 30 and men 50+ of which I’ve seen many examples - not serious relationships but more for occasional sessions. Yes different if a lot younger. Maybe that says something about my understanding of younger | |||
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"Nice thread. I see younger women wanting older much less than younger guys wanting older women they seem to be seen very differently don’t they? " Think that depends on the people involved. We would look at a 60 year old out of shape man with a 25 year old in the same way that we would look at a 25 year old man with an 60 year old out of shape woman. The latter is a rarer occurrence, and the assumption for the former is that money or power plays a part. Compared to say a 25 year old woman dating Brad Pitt, or Leonardo DiCaprio we would probably understand, or a 25 year old man dating Gillian Anderson, Angelina Jolie etc. No one is going to question the younger person of either gender as we would all understand the physical attraction. However we would also be ignoring the fact that money or power may still play a part. | |||
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"I have met two young women from on here, neither meeting would be described as predatory they just wanted the experience of being with an older guy, it was after I added to a thread about body confidence, one girl, thought she was overweight and never going to find a partner and the other was just bored with her sex life and just wanted an illicit thrill. this is a swinging site where people can live out their fantasies so where does the idea of been predatory or wanting money come from ? " Well said matey | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing" Yes. Some do. Every relationship I've had in the last 25 years has been with someone younger. Usually a fair bit younger. Keeps me young. | |||
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"50/60+ is all we really look for on here tbh " That's a nice tie in your pic. I should lend you one of mine sometime | |||
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"When I was at university the girls of 18 to 20 prefer men 5 to 10 years older, simply because they know how to please a woman , when I was 18, I was very naive on the various ways to make a woman feel great and we all learn on the job and technique improves with experience" This isn’t always true. Older men can be equally as inexperienced, selfish and crap in bed as younger men can, it really does depend on the person. Older age doesn’t = better at pleasing a woman, I can say that from experience. | |||
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"When I was young (pause to try and remember that) yes I certainly did - one ticks a box, multiple for fun! xxx" good girl | |||
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"When I was young (pause to try and remember that) yes I certainly did - one ticks a box, multiple for fun! xxx good girl " I do try… | |||
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"When I was young (pause to try and remember that) yes I certainly did - one ticks a box, multiple for fun! xxx good girl I do try…" What happens when you are a mischievous one? | |||
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"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill " I've found many men of all ages thinking they know stuff... A few questions certainly make me turn around and walk away. Age doesn't give the skill, as you call it. | |||
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"Same . My young 22 year old gf loves pervy older 60/60+ pervy men. " Definitely interested | |||
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"Personally not for me. Maybe 5-6 years older. 5 years younger. Altho depends on the guy/any attraction " That’s a fair comment. I guess it is down to personal taste and attraction | |||
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"Hi as a 57yr old its nice to hear that there are some women out there that like a more mature man" Gives us hope huh | |||
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"Well am not young (38) but my fella is 57 and I love it. Honestly love silver fox,and I find myself looking for older men on fab!" Wow looking at your profile he is a very lucky man | |||
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"An older guys and younger girl He’s predatory but an older woman and younger man she’s a cougar Just another show of hypocrisy " | |||
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"Hi as a 57yr old its nice to hear that there are some women out there that like a more mature man Gives us hope huh" Sure does, you need that on here | |||
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"Our age gap is 24yrs I'm not complaining Ha ha " And both very hot x | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing" There’s definitely a kink out there, and I think that would probably go both ways. But maturity isn’t attached to someone’s age is it? I’ve met people much older that don’t know what the hell they want in life. and I’ve spoken to younger women, I have made me think that I need to sort myself out | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing There’s definitely a kink out there, and I think that would probably go both ways. But maturity isn’t attached to someone’s age is it? I’ve met people much older that don’t know what the hell they want in life. and I’ve spoken to younger women, I have made me think that I need to sort myself out " | |||
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"An older guys and younger girl He’s predatory but an older woman and younger man she’s a cougar Just another show of hypocrisy " Not always, both sides get negative reactions. I’ve seen the disgust and hatred for women who like or date younger men, I’ve also experienced the hatred myself for liking older men as a younger woman, people assume I’m a gold digger or have “daddy issues”, they’re very wrong. | |||
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"An older guys and younger girl He’s predatory but an older woman and younger man she’s a cougar Just another show of hypocrisy Not always, both sides get negative reactions. I’ve seen the disgust and hatred for women who like or date younger men, I’ve also experienced the hatred myself for liking older men as a younger woman, people assume I’m a gold digger or have “daddy issues”, they’re very wrong. " Nicely put and refreshing although sad to hear women suffer the same judgement too Why people cannot accept others as they are and what or who like really frustrates me x | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing" Some do some don’t. I have a uni girl that is 19 that has been meeting since 18 as she gets off on trans women and especially as I am older she has the whole step on me mommy role play vibe. Comical but good sex and easy going to hang with | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing Some do some don’t. I have a uni girl that is 19 that has been meeting since 18 as she gets off on trans women and especially as I am older she has the whole step on me mommy role play vibe. Comical but good sex and easy going to hang with " That sounds just perfect. Everyone’s happy which is how it should be | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing Some do some don’t. I have a uni girl that is 19 that has been meeting since 18 as she gets off on trans women and especially as I am older she has the whole step on me mommy role play vibe. Comical but good sex and easy going to hang with That sounds just perfect. Everyone’s happy which is how it should be" Yeah i mean I get it she is using me as a tick box fetish as such but then equally I am hanging out of a very fit pert person that looks cute as fuck and likes a good time . She is abit of a hippy / pro lgbt etc so I guess why she is cool with me being over twice her age lol | |||
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"Almost always prefer same or older peeps. Just had too much disappointment with younger guys in particular ." My days! If only you included men just a little bit older ! Lol | |||
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"Almost always prefer same or older peeps. Just had too much disappointment with younger guys in particular . My days! If only you included men just a little bit older ! Lol" Hahahahahahaha | |||
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"Some do. Some don’t. Some see it as predatory. Some are naive." Some predatory gold-diggas, think we're naive. | |||
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"This younger woman does… " nice! | |||
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"I know a number of younger ladies who like the company of older men.......I attend and help to arrange parties with this theme." This | |||
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"Love older men " There is a God | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing" Had a couple with 40f and older guy my age 60s , and a 25yr old lady | |||
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"Love older men " Lucky older guy , gets to play with you | |||
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" This isn’t always true. Older men can be equally as inexperienced, selfish and crap in bed as younger men can, it really does depend on the person. Older age doesn’t = better at pleasing a woman, I can say that from experience. " 100% agree! | |||
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"Love older men " Unfortunately that would still rule many out, me included | |||
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"Yes they do " Good to hear especially from a bi couple Soft bi MMF | |||
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"How big is your wallet. " why does it have to involve a wallet | |||
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"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill Sadly I cannot think of an older man / (much) younger woman kink dynamic that I’ve known where the man wasn’t being predatory and taking advantage of the naivety of the young woman. A few years ago I learned that the critical thinking part of the brain, the part that understands long-term consequences to decisions and actions, doesn’t fully form until at least the mid twenties. And that changed the way I thought about large age gap relationships and interactions quite considerably." very deep | |||
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"Let's face us Mature Men Hold a woman after making love . Make a damn fine cup coffee / tea So I have been told Ps we leave the toilet seat down Have a great weekend Fabs " So am I an older guy trapped in a young man's body then? | |||
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"How big is your wallet. why does it have to involve a wallet " Because some people cannot possibly comprehend that some of us like men significantly older than us without there being an ulterior motive. | |||
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"lets face it we are fucked.. " It’s more likely that we aren’t. | |||
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"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing" In my some conseter age just a number the way he very respectfully conducts himself is more important | |||
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"Oh yes ,I'm 24 and he's 48 ,it's just wow and gets better everytime ,guys around my own age haven't a clue on foreplay and pressing the right buttons xx" Lucky bugger | |||
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"Oh yes ,I'm 24 and he's 48 ,it's just wow and gets better everytime ,guys around my own age haven't a clue on foreplay and pressing the right buttons xx Lucky bugger" We are both lucky xx | |||
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"This way is the Only way " You're almost a mandalorian | |||
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"My young 22 year old gf loves being perved on by older men. I often show her off in person via a meet if anyone is interested. " Sign me up..lol | |||
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"For some reason we meet more older then younger " i identify as older | |||
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"Much prefer older as long as over 6ft ! " I fall short by an inch! Lol | |||
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"Much prefer older as long as over 6ft ! " So let's get this straight...you are saying that older men can be as long as six foot and still be acceptable? Over six foot is a no go, but a length of up to six foot is fine and fuckable. An unusual criterium but not one that we wonderfully preserved ageing shortarses will object to | |||
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