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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing

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By *avexxMan
49 weeks ago

cheshire

yeh course they do..

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester

Some do. Some don’t. Some see it as predatory. Some are naive.

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By *ylonloverboy69Man
49 weeks ago

cheltenham

How big is your wallet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Some do. Some don’t. Some see it as predatory. Some are naive."

True i guess some could see it like that x

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By *dd_soxMan
49 weeks ago

Suffolk

I've met a lot that do over the years. No, not tick box and no, not interested in my wallet. Most importantly, not one to worry about age gaps

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By *iss DevilWoman
49 weeks ago

Bedford

I do enjoy older men (not too old, about 65-66 is my max at present), and for me, it's all about the connection, the chemistry. Also, depends whether the man looks his age or not, as I'd much rather have someone who doesn't look like a heart attack about to happen.

To the poster suggesting younger women are with older men because of their money- some may, but for many more, money does not matter.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester


"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill "

Sadly I cannot think of an older man / (much) younger woman kink dynamic that I’ve known where the man wasn’t being predatory and taking advantage of the naivety of the young woman.

A few years ago I learned that the critical thinking part of the brain, the part that understands long-term consequences to decisions and actions, doesn’t fully form until at least the mid twenties. And that changed the way I thought about large age gap relationships and interactions quite considerably.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow


"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill

Sadly I cannot think of an older man / (much) younger woman kink dynamic that I’ve known where the man wasn’t being predatory and taking advantage of the naivety of the young woman.

A few years ago I learned that the critical thinking part of the brain, the part that understands long-term consequences to decisions and actions, doesn’t fully form until at least the mid twenties. And that changed the way I thought about large age gap relationships and interactions quite considerably."

I was thinking more of ladies say around 30 and men 50+ of which I’ve seen many examples - not serious relationships but more for occasional sessions. Yes different if a lot younger. Maybe that says something about my understanding of younger

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By *ose and her beastCouple
49 weeks ago

Watford

I like experienced men wouldn't say that means older tho

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

This younger woman does…

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Nice thread. I see younger women wanting older much less than younger guys wanting older women they seem to be seen very differently don’t they?

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
49 weeks ago

Norwichish


"Nice thread. I see younger women wanting older much less than younger guys wanting older women they seem to be seen very differently don’t they? "

Think that depends on the people involved.

We would look at a 60 year old out of shape man with a 25 year old in the same way that we would look at a 25 year old man with an 60 year old out of shape woman. The latter is a rarer occurrence, and the assumption for the former is that money or power plays a part.

Compared to say a 25 year old woman dating Brad Pitt, or Leonardo DiCaprio we would probably understand, or a 25 year old man dating Gillian Anderson, Angelina Jolie etc.

No one is going to question the younger person of either gender as we would all understand the physical attraction. However we would also be ignoring the fact that money or power may still play a part.

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By *avid 50Man
49 weeks ago

kendal

I have met two young women from on here, neither meeting would be described as predatory they just wanted the experience of being with an older guy, it was after I added to a thread about body confidence, one girl, thought she was overweight and never going to find a partner and the other was just bored with her sex life and just wanted an illicit thrill. this is a swinging site where people can live out their fantasies so where does the idea of been predatory or wanting money come from ?

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By *andynecklaceWoman
49 weeks ago

Someplace

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By *andynecklaceWoman
49 weeks ago

Someplace

As a younger woman, I definitely prefer older men, I always have and I think I always will.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
49 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Years ago I did.

I now prefer them younger

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Absolutely we do can’t beat experience xx

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By *ardleedsMan
49 weeks ago

Leeds

Guess some do and some don't although at 50 i don't consider myself old. I was chatting to a yng 20s couple she wanted older and he wanted to watch. The idea she would be on bed arse in the air blindfolded i wasn't turning that down. Defo turn on but unfortunately never happened.

Also seeing the younger fems in sexy underwear is also such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Let's face us Mature Men

Hold a woman after making love .

Make a damn fine cup coffee / tea

So I have been told

Ps we leave the toilet seat down

Have a great weekend Fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"I have met two young women from on here, neither meeting would be described as predatory they just wanted the experience of being with an older guy, it was after I added to a thread about body confidence, one girl, thought she was overweight and never going to find a partner and the other was just bored with her sex life and just wanted an illicit thrill. this is a swinging site where people can live out their fantasies so where does the idea of been predatory or wanting money come from ? "

Well said matey

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
49 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Here purely for research purposes

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By *reston_SmallGirlCouple
49 weeks ago

Preston

50/60+ is all we really look for on here tbh

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By *bi HaiveMan
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49 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing"

Yes. Some do.

Every relationship I've had in the last 25 years has been with someone younger. Usually a fair bit younger.

Keeps me young.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
49 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"50/60+ is all we really look for on here tbh "

That's a nice tie in your pic. I should lend you one of mine sometime

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By *avid 50Man
49 weeks ago

kendal

When I was at university the girls of 18 to 20 prefer men 5 to 10 years older, simply because they know how to please a woman , when I was 18, I was very naive on the various ways to make a woman feel great and we all learn on the job and technique improves with experience

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By *ellaboo400Couple
49 weeks ago

Gorebridge

I know someone with serious daddy issues and she actually finds wrinkles and grey hair attractive, I was with someone 14 years older than me when I was in my early 20's and sorry to say but I now feel sick at the thought of being with an older guy and all my relationships since then the men have been younger than me

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By *ilverGent1Man
49 weeks ago

Livingston

Some certainly do seem to appreciate us, but I’ve never looked for younger ladies specifically. In fact, I generally look for a little older or around my age.

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By *oyandJulieMan
49 weeks ago

blackburn

I'm now in my 60s and would love a younger girl who appreciates an older guy

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By *venturerMan
49 weeks ago

Bodmin

I like ladies of any age but always treat them as ladies with respect and consideration, who doesn't like flowers, chocolate and wine?

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By *ayxWoman
49 weeks ago

brentwood

I don't mind being with older men or women at all. If there is a connection then I'm happy to meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"When I was at university the girls of 18 to 20 prefer men 5 to 10 years older, simply because they know how to please a woman , when I was 18, I was very naive on the various ways to make a woman feel great and we all learn on the job and technique improves with experience"

This isn’t always true.

Older men can be equally as inexperienced, selfish and crap in bed as younger men can, it really does depend on the person.

Older age doesn’t = better at pleasing a woman, I can say that from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I know a number of younger ladies who like the company of older men.......I attend and help to arrange parties with this theme.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

It is refreshing to hear the positive replies in here and differing views x

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Southend-on-Sea

I've had 3 longterm relationships with younger girls biggest gap being 20+ years

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By *archelCouple
49 weeks ago

A field somewhere

In my 20's I loved much older men. Now in my 40's I've gone the complete opposite way lol

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I have always liked older men. My first husband was 45 when I was 17 and Jamie is 12 years older

I don't mind any age when playing

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
49 weeks ago

Bradford

I can say that they do.

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By *allBBWWoman
49 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

Big fan of older men. In the main I'm attracted to their confidence and experience, but that's not all of it. I just prefer them generally over younger men x

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By *inkyJamesMan
49 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield

It's so nice to see a super sexy lady is of the opinion that a good lay is a good lay no matter what age

And I'm sure it's absolutely breathtaking lady always make her lover the best lover no matter what age they are

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By *eladeCouple
49 weeks ago

hull

Well am not young (38) but my fella is 57 and I love it.

Honestly love silver fox,and I find myself looking for older men on fab!

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By *ouple2playCouple
49 weeks ago

Solihull

When I was young (pause to try and remember that) yes I certainly did - one ticks a box, multiple for fun! xxx

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By *d4funtimesMan
49 weeks ago

Cambridge


"When I was young (pause to try and remember that) yes I certainly did - one ticks a box, multiple for fun! xxx"

good girl

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By *ouple2playCouple
49 weeks ago

Solihull


"When I was young (pause to try and remember that) yes I certainly did - one ticks a box, multiple for fun! xxx

good girl "

I do try…

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By *ayd100Man
49 weeks ago

clitheroe

Why not

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By *d4funtimesMan
49 weeks ago

Cambridge


"When I was young (pause to try and remember that) yes I certainly did - one ticks a box, multiple for fun! xxx

good girl

I do try…"

What happens when you are a mischievous one?

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By *eren4891Woman
49 weeks ago

North east wales

Personally not for me. Maybe 5-6 years older. 5 years younger. Altho depends on the guy/any attraction

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By *panksspankedMan
49 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Age is never the primary concern for me.

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
49 weeks ago

Up town top ranking

Yep I love older men

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By *ice guy 77Man
49 weeks ago

ashford

Wish there were more around here ??

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By *attooedlad445Couple
48 weeks ago

london

My young 22 year old gf loves being perved on by older men. I often show her off in person via a meet if anyone is interested.

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By *attooedlad445Couple
48 weeks ago

london

Same . My young 22 year old gf loves pervy older 60/60+ pervy men.

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By *lowercandyWoman
48 weeks ago

Lancashire


"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill "

I've found many men of all ages thinking they know stuff... A few questions certainly make me turn around and walk away.

Age doesn't give the skill, as you call it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Same . My young 22 year old gf loves pervy older 60/60+ pervy men. "

Definitely interested

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By *outhman15Man
48 weeks ago

southampton

Hi as a 57yr old its nice to hear that there are some women out there that like a more mature man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Personally not for me. Maybe 5-6 years older. 5 years younger. Altho depends on the guy/any attraction "

That’s a fair comment. I guess it is down to personal taste and attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Hi as a 57yr old its nice to hear that there are some women out there that like a more mature man"

Gives us hope huh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Well am not young (38) but my fella is 57 and I love it.

Honestly love silver fox,and I find myself looking for older men on fab!"

Wow looking at your profile he is a very lucky man

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By *j1104Man
48 weeks ago

Rochdale

I’m a younger guy n I do, just preference

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By *ackagain1965Man
48 weeks ago

Doncaster

An older guys and younger girl

He’s predatory but an older woman and younger man she’s a cougar

Just another show of hypocrisy

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By *nscarboroughMan
48 weeks ago

Scarborough

If any younger women want to find out, I’m available as your Test subject.

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By *avexxMan
48 weeks ago

cheshire

predatory i think that words put me right off...

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By *avexxMan
48 weeks ago

cheshire

word

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"An older guys and younger girl

He’s predatory but an older woman and younger man she’s a cougar

Just another show of hypocrisy "

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By *osey WalesMan
48 weeks ago

Surrey

Never about age for me. More the chemistry between us. If we connect, what does age, race, height matter. If the electricity is in the air, then the sparks will fly.

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By *outhman15Man
48 weeks ago

southampton


"Hi as a 57yr old its nice to hear that there are some women out there that like a more mature man

Gives us hope huh"

Sure does, you need that on here

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By *aughtycandyCouple
48 weeks ago

chams west Midlands

Our age gap is 24yrs

I'm not complaining

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Our age gap is 24yrs

I'm not complaining

Ha ha "

And both very hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing"

There’s definitely a kink out there, and I think that would probably go both ways. But maturity isn’t attached to someone’s age is it? I’ve met people much older that don’t know what the hell they want in life. and I’ve spoken to younger women, I have made me think that I need to sort myself out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing

There’s definitely a kink out there, and I think that would probably go both ways. But maturity isn’t attached to someone’s age is it? I’ve met people much older that don’t know what the hell they want in life. and I’ve spoken to younger women, I have made me think that I need to sort myself out "

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By *ister_EMan
48 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Most of my experience with younger women has been with couple's. That's a completely different psychology yet again.

It has mostly been a less experienced or insecure couples seeking a mentor or teacher or in one instance an older 'Bull',to help them explore or to help them learn to satisfy each other....

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"An older guys and younger girl

He’s predatory but an older woman and younger man she’s a cougar

Just another show of hypocrisy "

Not always, both sides get negative reactions.

I’ve seen the disgust and hatred for women who like or date younger men, I’ve also experienced the hatred myself for liking older men as a younger woman, people assume I’m a gold digger or have “daddy issues”, they’re very wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"An older guys and younger girl

He’s predatory but an older woman and younger man she’s a cougar

Just another show of hypocrisy

Not always, both sides get negative reactions.

I’ve seen the disgust and hatred for women who like or date younger men, I’ve also experienced the hatred myself for liking older men as a younger woman, people assume I’m a gold digger or have “daddy issues”, they’re very wrong.

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Nicely put and refreshing although sad to hear women suffer the same judgement too

Why people cannot accept others as they are and what or who like really frustrates me x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
48 weeks ago

chichester


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing"

Some do some don’t. I have a uni girl that is 19 that has been meeting since 18 as she gets off on trans women and especially as I am older she has the whole step on me mommy role play vibe. Comical but good sex and easy going to hang with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing

Some do some don’t. I have a uni girl that is 19 that has been meeting since 18 as she gets off on trans women and especially as I am older she has the whole step on me mommy role play vibe. Comical but good sex and easy going to hang with "

That sounds just perfect. Everyone’s happy which is how it should be

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
48 weeks ago

chichester


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing

Some do some don’t. I have a uni girl that is 19 that has been meeting since 18 as she gets off on trans women and especially as I am older she has the whole step on me mommy role play vibe. Comical but good sex and easy going to hang with

That sounds just perfect. Everyone’s happy which is how it should be"

Yeah i mean I get it she is using me as a tick box fetish as such but then equally I am hanging out of a very fit pert person that looks cute as fuck and likes a good time .

She is abit of a hippy / pro lgbt etc so I guess why she is cool with me being over twice her age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Almost always prefer same or older peeps. Just had too much disappointment with younger guys in particular

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By *im4play4uMan
48 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead


"Almost always prefer same or older peeps. Just had too much disappointment with younger guys in particular

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My days! If only you included men just a little bit older ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"Almost always prefer same or older peeps. Just had too much disappointment with younger guys in particular

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My days! If only you included men just a little bit older ! Lol"

Hahahahahahaha

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By *orny PTMan
48 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Some do. Some don’t. Some see it as predatory. Some are naive."

Some predatory gold-diggas, think we're naive.

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By *orny PTMan
48 weeks ago

Peterborough


"This younger woman does… "

nice!

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By *uttymonkeyMan
48 weeks ago

devon

My question is at what point did it change XD

My experience from my teen years until now was that it started with younger going for older which switched at some point when I wasn't looking

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By *inkycreamCouple
48 weeks ago

manchester

Our preferred age range is , 60 to 70 as female half has always been attracted to older women and couples, it’s everyone to there own.

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By *osey WalesMan
48 weeks ago

Surrey

The age old comment that sums fab up works here too..

Some will, some wont.

Some do, some dont.

I might

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By *eren4891Woman
48 weeks ago

North east wales

I think it's probably that way as close to my parents age/aunts/uncles.

Ex husband is 11 years older. Age gap in reality was abit much, but did fancy him at the time.

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By *iceynightMan
48 weeks ago

redruth

I think it depends on what they are looking fir, mainly it’s just fun I think

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By *ay19720Man
48 weeks ago

Ashford kent

Nice to see some on here that do..whoop. there hope yet..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"I know a number of younger ladies who like the company of older men.......I attend and help to arrange parties with this theme."

This

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By *rumjoeMan
48 weeks ago

bham

Mate's ex wife mad for older and fit as well

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
48 weeks ago

Stoke

Yes as they're genuinely more mature, plus I'm attracted to older guys!

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By *orkshirefucktruck2Couple
48 weeks ago

barnsley

Ya as old as ya feel as the saying goes.

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By *ips2022Woman
48 weeks ago

wigan

Love older men

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By *lik and PaulCouple
48 weeks ago

cahoots

Yes they do

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
48 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"Love older men "

There is a God

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By *ubmit me for funCouple
48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Something very nice about older guys.

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By *ill700Man
48 weeks ago

london

My ex loved it used to go and get used by them cum home tell me all about it while I got to have my fun with her

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By *irebrand 1263Man
48 weeks ago

near you

Fun older male here...just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing"

Had a couple with 40f and older guy my age 60s , and a 25yr old lady

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By *heonixrising500Man
48 weeks ago

Barnsley

Some do some dont

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By *onningtonplumberMan
48 weeks ago

Donnington

Some do obviously my ex was 21vyears younger than me we were together over 6 years and on here together for 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"Love older men "

Lucky older guy , gets to play with you

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
48 weeks ago

Norwich

Come on you fellow old guys, what's the youngest girl you've been with?

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By *adCherriesCouple
48 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest


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This isn’t always true.

Older men can be equally as inexperienced, selfish and crap in bed as younger men can, it really does depend on the person.

Older age doesn’t = better at pleasing a woman, I can say that from experience. "

100% agree!

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By *tagmeupMan
48 weeks ago

wirral

I like younger women

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By *omthckMan
47 weeks ago

SW1

We hve never taken the plunge but she loves the fact its a thing for me and after couple years knowing it we have spoke to a few guys shared pics ect and we both like the fact an older guy has a hunger/lust that the same age just havnt got the older gent gets to live his youth again and appreciate so much more

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By *iredhandMan
47 weeks ago

Manchester


"Love older men "

Unfortunately that would still rule many out, me included

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By *azsWoman
47 weeks ago

hoddesdon

Yes I love older guys

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I bloomin' well hope so!

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By *ottomandphuckCouple
47 weeks ago

Salisbury

Yes they do

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By *att71Man
47 weeks ago

Bristol

here's hoping they do

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By *toney606Man
47 weeks ago

Around and about,

In my experience yes

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By *oyandJulieMan
47 weeks ago

blackburn

I hope so

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By *eeds fun guyMan
47 weeks ago

yorkshire


"Yes they do "

Good to hear especially from a bi couple

Soft bi MMF

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By *tagmeupMan
47 weeks ago

wirral

Consider me then please

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
47 weeks ago

Coventry

I would say by the volume and polarity of many of the couples profiles on here, YES.

However I've mainly dated women older than me throughout my life. If that helps even the score?

Mr

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
47 weeks ago

Launceston

I totally bypassed guys my age when I was in my 20's and only dated older men, they treated women with more respect and knew what they were doing in the bedroom.

Now I'm older I suspect I will start meeting younger guys

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By *olarbear73Man
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

As Ive probably dropped off a lot of age filters now I consider myself older. So yeah, Hi to all those ladies who prefer older

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By *loydyMan
47 weeks ago

British


"How big is your wallet. "
why does it have to involve a wallet

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By *loydyMan
47 weeks ago

British


"I think those with a serious interest in BDSM/kink are much more likely to than vanilla swingers. They see older men as more experienced and with better skills in this area than younger men. Not always of course but you don’t see too many 30 year old male BDSM experts. I would advise older men to develop a special skill

Sadly I cannot think of an older man / (much) younger woman kink dynamic that I’ve known where the man wasn’t being predatory and taking advantage of the naivety of the young woman.

A few years ago I learned that the critical thinking part of the brain, the part that understands long-term consequences to decisions and actions, doesn’t fully form until at least the mid twenties. And that changed the way I thought about large age gap relationships and interactions quite considerably."

very deep

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By *ilverfox for youMan
46 weeks ago

Hull

Must vary where you are !no meets here for me !!

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By *wingAway79Couple
46 weeks ago

Surrey

we like some x

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By *omsub444Couple
46 weeks ago

watford

I love older men

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Let's face us Mature Men

Hold a woman after making love .

Make a damn fine cup coffee / tea

So I have been told

Ps we leave the toilet seat down

Have a great weekend Fabs "

So am I an older guy trapped in a young man's body then?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"How big is your wallet. why does it have to involve a wallet "

Because some people cannot possibly comprehend that some of us like men significantly older than us without there being an ulterior motive.

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By *iredhandMan
46 weeks ago

Manchester

The term ‘older men’ shouldn’t be confused with old men and has to be kept in perspective. Someone in their 20s might mean they like someone in their 40s but no older, whereas someone in their 40s might consider 60 acceptable.

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By *avexxMan
46 weeks ago

cheshire

lets face it we are fucked..

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By *inkyJamesMan
46 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield

So very lucky for me CaramelxCurves enjoys older men,it's hard not to waest any of her time sending such a lovely lady a unsolicited message,but I do have self control

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By *inkyJamesMan
46 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield

It's so hot that _omsub444 does not have a problem with older men

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By *iredhandMan
46 weeks ago

Manchester


"lets face it we are fucked..

"

It’s more likely that we aren’t.

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By *inkyJamesMan
46 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield

Nice to see that _ottomandphuck appreciates older man because of their, experience respect, & always making sure her orgasmic gratification is his one & only goal

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By *inkyJamesMan
46 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield


"Or is it a tick box/bucket list type of thing"

In my some conseter age just a number the way he very respectfully conducts himself is more important

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By *sjrcMan
46 weeks ago

Glasgow

Not a women lol, but always been into older guys. Now I’m 40 guess I’m also getting into that older category, though doesn’t feel it!

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By *ilverfox for youMan
46 weeks ago

Hull

No !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

My wife 11 years younger than me, she likes older guys more than younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Older guy, mid 50’s, appreciate ladies of all ages.

Most meets with females are similar or older, so younger would make a nice change…

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By *aughtycandyCouple
46 weeks ago

chams west Midlands

Oh yes ,I'm 24 and he's 48 ,it's just wow and gets better everytime ,guys around my own age haven't a clue on foreplay and pressing the right buttons xx

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By *tagmeupMan
46 weeks ago

wirral


"Oh yes ,I'm 24 and he's 48 ,it's just wow and gets better everytime ,guys around my own age haven't a clue on foreplay and pressing the right buttons xx"

Lucky bugger

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
46 weeks ago

South West London

Statistically younger women like older men

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By *aughtycandyCouple
46 weeks ago

chams west Midlands


"Oh yes ,I'm 24 and he's 48 ,it's just wow and gets better everytime ,guys around my own age haven't a clue on foreplay and pressing the right buttons xx

Lucky bugger"

We are both lucky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I think there a lot of women on TikTok that seem to be into older men. I’ve chattted to younger women on other sites and some are very into older men.

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By *liceinwanderlust101Woman
23 weeks ago

London

This way is the Only way

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"This way is the Only way "
nice

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"This way is the Only way "

You're almost a mandalorian

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By *ike_looking_forMan
23 weeks ago

Cumbria

Been lucky enough to meet a few who do seem to like older guys, a couple were just box ticking though but it's hard to complain....

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By *arry monk40Man
23 weeks ago

Telford

Love younger fills me with energy

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By *he Silver FuxMan
23 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I’ll help work on those Daddy issues

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
23 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

These threads irritate me. Some will some won’t.

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By *iredhandMan
23 weeks ago

Manchester

As the above comment says, some do and some don’t. In my experience there seems to be more younger couples than younger single women looking for older men, and that’s fine by me

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By *wingyDingDingCouple
23 weeks ago

Cheshire

One of our best ever meets was with an older gent so yes

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By *addy bareMan
23 weeks ago

lakeside

I seem to get a lot of attention from the younger ones.

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By *ike_looking_forMan
23 weeks ago

Cumbria

I hope you got some great B&W's from it!!

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By *icemember7Man
23 weeks ago

Worcester

Of course, just read some of the profiles, women and couples, think they look for experience and stamina.

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By *ay19720Man
23 weeks ago

Ashford kent


"My young 22 year old gf loves being perved on by older men. I often show her off in person via a meet if anyone is interested. "

Sign me up..lol

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By *tag90Man
23 weeks ago

penrith

When my mrs used to play her preferred was always older. When she was 34 we used to have a regular 60yr old play mate

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By *orthernman71Man
23 weeks ago

N

I’m still waiting for that scenario

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By *onderlust69Couple
23 weeks ago

Central belt

I married my handsome silver fox. 12 years age gap but I really don't think age matters x Mrs

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By *idzmaleMan
23 weeks ago

telford

Opinion s please. A friend of a friend has asked me out many times but she 19 and I’m 43. Is it wrong to go

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By *wingAway79Couple
23 weeks ago

Surrey

For some reason we meet more older then younger

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By *heonixrising500Man
23 weeks ago

Barnsley

I have met younger they enjoyed

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
23 weeks ago

dorset

Yes

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23 weeks ago


"For some reason we meet more older then younger "
i identify as older

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport

I'll ask President Macron.

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By *elboy1978Man
23 weeks ago

Fellgate

I am classed as an older man

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
23 weeks ago

manchester

From personal experience no

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By *azjaMan
23 weeks ago

Swindon /Algarve

Still hope for me then lol x

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By *CExeCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

Everyone is different, but Chels very much does

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By *estlands4Man
23 weeks ago

Sidmouth

I do ok for an old guy lol

I guess with age comes experience and maturity so the lady can hopefully be guaranteed a meet with someone who knows what they are doing and have the experience to behave in the correct manner.

Having been on here over a decade now I’ve met all ages, younger and older than me and of course it’s a ego boost when when a younger lady wants me sexually for whatever reason - but equally when meeting an older lady I hope they get that same boost - it’s about mutual fun and satisfaction whatever the age gap.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Seen no evidence of this but how the hell would I know?!

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By *HawkCouple
23 weeks ago

Macclesfield

Much prefer older as long as over 6ft !

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
23 weeks ago

Norwich


"Much prefer older as long as over 6ft ! "

I fall short by an inch! Lol

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By *orny PTMan
23 weeks ago

Peterborough

5'9" ain't no short arse!

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By * D 777Man
23 weeks ago

bathgate

i would not know ,well not yet

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yes they do.

I'm head deep in pussy.

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By *eronikapaulCouple
23 weeks ago

Reading


"Much prefer older as long as over 6ft ! "

So let's get this straight...you are saying that older men can be as long as six foot and still be acceptable? Over six foot is a no go, but a length of up to six foot is fine and fuckable. An unusual criterium but not one that we wonderfully preserved ageing shortarses will object to

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
14 weeks ago

Coventry

I've been lucky enough to have enjoyed the company of several younger women over my time here. None have been after anything more than the enjoyment of the moment, nor did any have any hidden motives. It's just down to attraction on an individual basis. Definitely more of a club thing though in my experience.

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