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"Yes, but I mean actually take her from you " Well he’s a bull so he has a much greater ability to be able to satisfy my wife sexually, he’ll be more confident and charismatic, he’ll be more successful and generally have a lot more to offer my wife than I will ever have so I’d completely understand if my wife chooses to be with her bull full time and dumps me. | |||
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"That's not really being a bull though is it, that's crossing the line into something genuinely not good, something nasty or at least heading that way. My job as a bull is to meet up, pleasure the wife, have my wicked way, get what I want. If a hint or a barrel full of humiliation is on the cards then play it that way. Once I have had the goodies then am on my way, I'll leave her to you pal, put up with her shit, provide for her, wash the car, pay the mortgage, follow her around the shops carrying her bags like a donkey. I just want the good fun bits your wife has to offer" I agree with you. But there's always a risk of her finding feelings or "falling for" the bull. Nearly happened for me when she got lost in all that "I'm his slut, not yours. You're my slut!" Business. | |||
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"That's not really being a bull though is it, that's crossing the line into something genuinely not good, something nasty or at least heading that way. My job as a bull is to meet up, pleasure the wife, have my wicked way, get what I want. If a hint or a barrel full of humiliation is on the cards then play it that way. Once I have had the goodies then am on my way, I'll leave her to you pal, put up with her shit, provide for her, wash the car, pay the mortgage, follow her around the shops carrying her bags like a donkey. I just want the good fun bits your wife has to offer" There's quite an arrogance to this comment but (being honest) it actually hits the nail on the head. Hotwifing/cuckolding is predominantly a sexual thing, if a bull and wife end up together (as a couple) then something somewhere has changed in that particular dynamic. | |||
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"You wouldn't do anything, especially if you are a cuck. You would sit, watch and enjoy as the Bull and the wife hold all the power in that dynamic." I think they mean instead of you forever...  | |||
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"What would you do if the bull wanted your wife full time " __ Then that would not be a cuck/wife and bull dynamic. It would be a plain, run of the mill, boring "wife leaves husband and moves to another man" old story. | |||
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"Yes, but I mean actually take her from you " End contact with him, he's out of order and overstepped the mark.. | |||
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"It happen to a former colleague of mine. He confided in me that he and his wife were swingers and decided to look for a bull to spice up their dynamic. Unfortunately the bull was too confident and ordered my friend to always sleep in the spare room even when the bull wasn't there. The bull's visits became more often and he eventually announced that he would be moving in. My friend's wife still loved him but she was so under the bull's influence that she agreed. Eventually he told my friend that he'd instructed his wife to start divorce proceedings and that he was to move out. This all came out when I noticed that my friend seemed distracted at work and he told me the whole story over a lunchtime pint or two. After a while he couldn't concentrate on his work so he quit. As he didn't live near me I lost touch with him. A few years later after I had retired there was a Christmas reunion party. When I asked whether anyone had heard from him I was told that shortly after quitting work he committed suicide. I don't know what happened to his wife and the bull " Omg....this is such a sad story  ....He became a broken man & lost everything.... couldn't cope & then took his own life.... Horrific it is
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"That's not really being a bull though is it, that's crossing the line into something genuinely not good, something nasty or at least heading that way. My job as a bull is to meet up, pleasure the wife, have my wicked way, get what I want. If a hint or a barrel full of humiliation is on the cards then play it that way. Once I have had the goodies then am on my way, I'll leave her to you pal, put up with her shit, provide for her, wash the car, pay the mortgage, follow her around the shops carrying her bags like a donkey. I just want the good fun bits your wife has to offer" Oh jeez. Don't think you understand this swinging lark. Wanting another man involved as a "bull" doesn't mean your relationship or life more generally, sexual or otherwise is bad. It just means you get a kick out of having another man involved! Think you've had too much of the humiliation smelling salts. | |||
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"all this bull has the power is all bullshite in our marriage and cuckold lifestyle i have all the sexual power the bull (hate that term) only has power if i allow and what i allow at the time towards cuck tho can be sexually dom to me .. i call them boyfriends not bulls as porn has ruined that term they are for me just assertive guys who get to please me whiles i please them at no point do they interfere with my marriage they are for sexual purpose only and i dont know of any otherr couple that are lifestyle cuckold who gives the 3rd guy full power ..and we know loads privately see to be a cuckold couple you have to have a already very together rock solid relationship thats full of love and trust with each other to allow a cuckold relationship when you factor in that 80/90% of cuckold couples are just roleplay/fantasy then the rest life style that means most 3rd guys (bulls) are just a prop .... my boyfriends are regular long term friends of us both they have me sexually all my sexual satisfaction comes from others but my hubby is mine id rather give up this lifestyle altogether than lose him ... think about it why would a wife give up her cuck we have everything a great marriage and a great adventurous sex life.. i knew when i meet my husband ge was one in a million we make this work with out him id not be swinging without him id never had veen so open us 2 together is what makes this work sure as in all walks of life people leave for someone else and there will be those on here who will testify that but they are broke down relationship wise because they were never strong before hand .... you dont give up something if its so rock solid.. i dont do exclusive either if a guy wants me to his self i tell them to jog on me and hubs joined this lifestyle to have lots of sexy fun being exclusive is not swinging or cuckolding its tieing yourself down to relationship in a different way.... swinging cuckold other kink lifestyle couples all have the same back bone solid relationships thos that are not will and alway do fail and the same for all those lifestyles the 3rd person /people are just extra and nothing else .. cuckolding is sex with consent cuckolding is a very open relationship sex wise real or not if someone runs of with someome then thats just no longer wanting that relationship not cuckolding cuckolding to cuckolding couples is full on mental and sexual fun the cuck has to love his wife to get his kicks the wife has to love cuck to be able to be happy to do what she wants sexually.. cuckolding is a married woman in a relationship who gets seeded by other men thats what it means in its simple meaning that can be traced back in history ie the cuckoo bird lays its eggs in another birds nest ... cuckold is not runnig off and leaving your husband thats something compleately different .. there alot of men women and couple who really have no clue to what cuckolding is due to porn and single guys blurring the lines ... no other role has been blown out of proportion more tha ''the bull'' most are full of shit (yep porn again) also the amount of single guys who call themselves cucks is unreal simply put your not even if youve been one you no longer are and then add in all those men who are in compleate cuckooland not cuckold land... note to self dont eat cake and type as you write too much and eat too much cake #justmyopinions keep it to the forums if you private me ill block you" Great post. I agree x | |||
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"What would you do if the bull wanted your wife full time " I've spoken to people who actually wanted that as part of the cuck situation. | |||
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"That's not really being a bull though is it, that's crossing the line into something genuinely not good, something nasty or at least heading that way. My job as a bull is to meet up, pleasure the wife, have my wicked way, get what I want. If a hint or a barrel full of humiliation is on the cards then play it that way. Once I have had the goodies then am on my way, I'll leave her to you pal, put up with her shit, provide for her, wash the car, pay the mortgage, follow her around the shops carrying her bags like a donkey. I just want the good fun bits your wife has to offer There's quite an arrogance to this comment but (being honest) it actually hits the nail on the head. Hotwifing/cuckolding is predominantly a sexual thing, if a bull and wife end up together (as a couple) then something somewhere has changed in that particular dynamic." I agree on the hint of arrogance, I only speak from my own experience that when and only when things turn sexual in a cuckold scenario then arrogance can come into it, from the bull, the wife or both. I can't speak for anyone in a full on "cuckole lifestyle" as I have no experience of it nore do I intend to get involved, I have a fair bit of experience of cuckole roleplay only, the thought of humiliating or degrading anyone once the roleplay has ended is a turn off to me, but each to their own. I have meet cuckole couples whom I have become friends with, one couple I have known for nearly 20 years and for over half that time I lived less than 2 min walk from them, they are friends and the thought of taking the cuck/wife/bull outside of the bedroom doesn't even enter my head. This is just my own personal experience but am sure I can't be alone in that outlook. | |||
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"That's not really being a bull though is it, that's crossing the line into something genuinely not good, something nasty or at least heading that way. My job as a bull is to meet up, pleasure the wife, have my wicked way, get what I want. If a hint or a barrel full of humiliation is on the cards then play it that way. Once I have had the goodies then am on my way, I'll leave her to you pal, put up with her shit, provide for her, wash the car, pay the mortgage, follow her around the shops carrying her bags like a donkey. I just want the good fun bits your wife has to offer Oh jeez. Don't think you understand this swinging lark. Wanting another man involved as a "bull" doesn't mean your relationship or life more generally, sexual or otherwise is bad. It just means you get a kick out of having another man involved! Think you've had too much of the humiliation smelling salts. " I had my 1st swinging experience as a 19yo and have indulged on and off as a single and also as one half of a couple since then, I'd like to think I know a fair but i also embrace that you never stop learning. I never said cuckole couples have a bad life, relationship or sex life, the cuckold couples I know, from my knowledge all have a great marriage or at least that's the way it appears to me. Your entitled to see things as you see them, but I couldn't disagree with you more about couples who "just means you get a kick out of having another man involved" less than 5% of my "swinging" has involved the cuckold scenario, the vast majority of couples who want to introduce another guy into their sex life have nothing even remotely to do with cuckole, humiliation degrading or whatever terminology you wish to use, I speak as someone who has invited other guys to join my partner and I and as someone who has had the invite to indulge with couples, that's my opinion, I appreciate that you are entitled to disagree | |||
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"What would you do if the bull wanted your wife full time " Wave a red flag and distract him away what else do you do when a bull goes for your wife | |||
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"...those men who are in compleate cuckooland not cuckold land... note to self dont eat cake and type as you write too much and eat too much ..." __ 
Great post, sound, looks and clear, and also fun to read, Foxy. | |||
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"I know a good friend of mine who kept encouraging his wife to see & experience BBC....She did not want to....But he plagued & plagued her & she eventually did see others....(BBC).... Anyway to cut a long story short....One day & totally out of the blue his wife ups & leaves for her new found love of a certain BBC....She has never returned & is now leaving with her new BBC play mate who has now become her partner.... Bare in mind his wife never wanted to be with other men initially...." Sometimes when you open Pandora's box you cannot close the lid again. | |||
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