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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

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By *imionMan
over a year ago

redditch


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."
not at all we all need to feel to pleasures of a naked body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Providing a service??? how is it even that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife.... not at all we all need to feel to pleasures of a naked body"

Hes not asking you though. Hes asking women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Act of kindness then...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Act of kindness then..."

And that. This is such a blokey post op. You are thinking too deep.

Think the women just don’t care. No label to it.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

I don’t sleep with married men so…. Neither

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True, then it's a morality thing

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Would say that question lays with the man, as he's the one with the decision to act.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Would say that question lays with the man, as he's the one with the decision to act. "

This ^

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The idea of my sexual attention (under any circumstance) being either a service or an act of kindness (charity?) makes my skin crawl.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The idea of my sexual attention (under any circumstance) being either a service or an act of kindness (charity?) makes my skin crawl."

Agree

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Home wrecker! Imo! I would never knowingly help a man deceive another woman x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"The idea of my sexual attention (under any circumstance) being either a service or an act of kindness (charity?) makes my skin crawl."

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't class myself as anything. If the guy is married then it's not any of my business.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Would say that question lays with the man, as he's the one with the decision to act. "

Yes but would make us women enablers?? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't class myself as anything. If the guy is married then it's not any of my business."

Definately

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Homewrecker, there's a word I haven't heard for years

I have noticed though that the notion of downtrodden, weeping wives at home with six bootless children while the philandering husband works his way through an array of willing floosies persists, even in fab

In my experience if a home is to be wrecked it takes more than one person to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d class myself as having questionable morals

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I also thought the notion of women providing married men with sex as a service had passed into folklore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy wants sex,then I don't care if he married or not.

I will go to bed with him,no problem.

Selfish,maybe,but it helps us both out.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Anyone fancy a liquorice bootlace?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd rather not be involved at all thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anyone fancy a liquorice bootlace? "

One of those red ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Seriously?

1. Women on here aren’t providing men with a “service” Women have as much right as men to sexual pleasure.

2. Why are women labelled as “home wreckers” if they knowingly or otherwise sleep with a married man? Surely the man seeking sex outside of his marriage is the potential “home wrecker”!!

3. We play with married couples and if we were to have a MFM, it would have to be an exceptional single man. Wouldn’t indulge a cheater.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

It was done to me by my ex, and it was done to my ex's partner by his wife.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

I would never ever sleep with another man's wife without their face to face consent.

Home wrecker definitely..

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Desperate

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Bit of a bizarre way to phrase your question op

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Desperate "

.

In my experience married men are much less hassle and more respectful too to be honest.

Like I said. Just my experience but I’m a fussy bitch. Certainly not a desperate one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Desperate

.

In my experience married men are much less hassle and more respectful too to be honest.

Like I said. Just my experience but I’m a fussy bitch. Certainly not a desperate one "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Seriously?

1. Women on here aren’t providing men with a “service” Women have as much right as men to sexual pleasure.

2. Why are women labelled as “home wreckers” if they knowingly or otherwise sleep with a married man? Surely the man seeking sex outside of his marriage is the potential “home wrecker”!!

3. We play with married couples and if we were to have a MFM, it would have to be an exceptional single man. Wouldn’t indulge a cheater.

"

If a man does something wrong it's a woman's fault.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Well, I don’t do that. So, irrelevant.

“What he needs”

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Seriously?

1. Women on here aren’t providing men with a “service” Women have as much right as men to sexual pleasure.

2. Why are women labelled as “home wreckers” if they knowingly or otherwise sleep with a married man? Surely the man seeking sex outside of his marriage is the potential “home wrecker”!!

3. We play with married couples and if we were to have a MFM, it would have to be an exceptional single man. Wouldn’t indulge a cheater.

If a man does something wrong it's a woman's fault. "

BINGO!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"The idea of my sexual attention (under any circumstance) being either a service or an act of kindness (charity?) makes my skin crawl.

Agree "

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Well, I don’t do that. So, irrelevant.

“What he needs” "

No need to reply then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Seriously?

1. Women on here aren’t providing men with a “service” Women have as much right as men to sexual pleasure.

2. Why are women labelled as “home wreckers” if they knowingly or otherwise sleep with a married man? Surely the man seeking sex outside of his marriage is the potential “home wrecker”!!

3. We play with married couples and if we were to have a MFM, it would have to be an exceptional single man. Wouldn’t indulge a cheater.

"

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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa


"Act of kindness then...

And that. This is such a blokey post op. You are thinking too deep.

Think the women just don’t care. No label to it. "

Blokey and very... revealing...

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Well, I don’t do that. So, irrelevant.

“What he needs”

No need to reply then "

Maybe I have needs. And my “need” was to reply.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Well, I don’t do that. So, irrelevant.

“What he needs”

No need to reply then

Maybe I have needs. And my “need” was to reply. "

Touché

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Well, I don’t do that. So, irrelevant.

“What he needs”

No need to reply then "

I think Fab is a poor place to post your opinion if you don't want anyone to disagree.

Not just the opinion in this thread. Any opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d encourage my buddies to try and sleep my with my girl

I either find out she loyal

Or I help a bro get laid and lose a dead weight by my side

It’s a win win. It’s not home wrecking. It’s home insurance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d encourage my buddies to try and sleep my with my girl

I either find out she loyal

Or I help a bro get laid and lose a dead weight by my side

It’s a win win. It’s not home wrecking. It’s home insurance "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! What a question! What’s your view OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow! What a question! What’s your view OP?"

That each to their own, I don't judge and don't suffer from guilt.... duck for the barrage

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Isn’t it interesting* that women are labeled home wreckers but men never are.

And isn’t it interesting* that people somehow think it’s the woman’s fault for wrecking a home, when the man was the one who decided to put his penis in a woman who wasn’t his wife.

*It’s not interesting.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

"

I have to ask...what stats?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn’t it interesting* that women are labeled home wreckers but men never are.

And isn’t it interesting* that people somehow think it’s the woman’s fault for wrecking a home, when the man was the one who decided to put his penis in a woman who wasn’t his wife.

*It’s not interesting."

I didnt say a women! Could be anyone sleeping with the married guy. So.e people do have a chip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And isn’t it interesting* that people somehow think it’s the woman’s fault for wrecking a home, when the man was the one who decided to put his penis in a woman who wasn’t his wife.

."

What does that mean? Isn’t the person in a relationship responsible for staying faithful?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

I have to ask...what stats?"

There aren’t any

Men and women probably want to cheat at the same rate

But women probably end up cheating more because it’s easier + harder to catch

Men would cheat more, if it was easier. But most guys can’t pull when they are single, never mind cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! What a question! What’s your view OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow! What a question! What’s your view OP?

That each to their own, I don't judge and don't suffer from guilt.... duck for the barrage "

My opinion

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife.... not at all we all need to feel to pleasures of a naked body

Hes not asking you though. Hes asking women. "

He didn't. Men sleep with men too

Either way, once a question is posted anyone can answer so lets not put people off doing that

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

I have to ask...what stats?

There aren’t any

Men and women probably want to cheat at the same rate

But women probably end up cheating more because it’s easier + harder to catch

Men would cheat more, if it was easier. But most guys can’t pull when they are single, never mind cheating. "

There are stats and they do not reflect your opinion here.

Men and women express a desire to cheat at approximately the same level.

However men statistically cheat more because men have more opportunities to cheat (out of the house more than women, less childcare/domestic responsibilities, etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

I have to ask...what stats?

There aren’t any

Men and women probably want to cheat at the same rate

But women probably end up cheating more because it’s easier + harder to catch

Men would cheat more, if it was easier. But most guys can’t pull when they are single, never mind cheating.

There are stats and they do not reflect your opinion here.

Men and women express a desire to cheat at approximately the same level.

However men statistically cheat more because men have more opportunities to cheat (out of the house more than women, less childcare/domestic responsibilities, etc)."

I’d argue those stats are misrepresented

You could easily argue women end up cheating more, because technology has given them an unlimited access to men via apps and websites like this

Either way, no one can truly know who cheats more, because it’s an act people tend to keep secret and lie about when asked

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I also thought the notion of women providing married men with sex as a service had passed into folklore. "

Ah. Unless of course it's the oldest profession.....

#sexworkiswork

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also thought the notion of women providing married men with sex as a service had passed into folklore.

Ah. Unless of course it's the oldest profession.....

#sexworkiswork"

Oh dear... some crap coming your way hehe

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I also thought the notion of women providing married men with sex as a service had passed into folklore.

Ah. Unless of course it's the oldest profession.....

#sexworkiswork

Oh dear... some crap coming your way hehe "

Why?

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Providing a service??? how is it even that?

"

Right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

I have to ask...what stats?

There aren’t any

Men and women probably want to cheat at the same rate

But women probably end up cheating more because it’s easier + harder to catch

Men would cheat more, if it was easier. But most guys can’t pull when they are single, never mind cheating.

There are stats and they do not reflect your opinion here.

Men and women express a desire to cheat at approximately the same level.

However men statistically cheat more because men have more opportunities to cheat (out of the house more than women, less childcare/domestic responsibilities, etc)."

I would say men gey caught more because we are not as devious or clever as women...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I also thought the notion of women providing married men with sex as a service had passed into folklore.

Ah. Unless of course it's the oldest profession.....

#sexworkiswork"

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

I have to ask...what stats?

There aren’t any

Men and women probably want to cheat at the same rate

But women probably end up cheating more because it’s easier + harder to catch

Men would cheat more, if it was easier. But most guys can’t pull when they are single, never mind cheating.

There are stats and they do not reflect your opinion here.

Men and women express a desire to cheat at approximately the same level.

However men statistically cheat more because men have more opportunities to cheat (out of the house more than women, less childcare/domestic responsibilities, etc).

I would say men gey caught more because we are not as devious or clever as women..."

You shouldn’t paint men as only getting caught because they are idiots. People in relationships tend to trust their partner and expect the best from that, people betraying that trust is gross

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Anyone fancy a liquorice bootlace?

One of those red ones?"

Yes, I'm not an animal

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I also thought the notion of women providing married men with sex as a service had passed into folklore.

Ah. Unless of course it's the oldest profession.....

#sexworkiswork

Oh dear... some crap coming your way hehe "

Not sure why. It's true that sex workers provide a service for a fee.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Neither. He's the home wrecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather not be involved, but, so find a married guy a turn on!

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"

You could easily argue women end up cheating more, because technology has given them an unlimited access to men via apps and websites like this

"

I don’t think you understood what I wrote.

Men have more opportunity to cheat, because they are generally out of the house more without restriction.

Women have less opportunity to cheat, because they tend to have more domestic and childcare responsibilities.

For instance, if you regularly work late and are not expected to be home to pick the children up from school or feed them their tea, easier to cheat. If you regularly get to go to the gym, easier to cheat. If you regularly play golf with your mates, easier to cheat.

Women statistically don’t have opportunities like this because they shoulder the burden of domestic and care responsibilities. You can’t cheat while you’re caring for your toddler, driving them to swimming lessons, or dragging them round the supermarket.

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By *anJenny 181Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Married cheating Men are 100% a red flag for us.

We don't want a woman scorned hammering at the door & causing bother.

no Drama zone for us lol

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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

"

What are your sources? Where are these 'stats' and who has produced them?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

A service or a home wrecker? Neither.

His circus. His clowns. Not mine

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Neither. He's the home wrecker. "

Yes.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

What a question! They are doing neither. And it is the married man deciding to cheat.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Married cheating Men are 100% a red flag for us.

We don't want a woman scorned hammering at the door & causing bother.

no Drama zone for us lol"

Agree. And great vid

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

I have to ask...what stats?

There aren’t any

Men and women probably want to cheat at the same rate

But women probably end up cheating more because it’s easier + harder to catch

Men would cheat more, if it was easier. But most guys can’t pull when they are single, never mind cheating.

There are stats and they do not reflect your opinion here.

Men and women express a desire to cheat at approximately the same level.

However men statistically cheat more because men have more opportunities to cheat (out of the house more than women, less childcare/domestic responsibilities, etc).

I would say men gey caught more because we are not as devious or clever as women...

You shouldn’t paint men as only getting caught because they are idiots. People in relationships tend to trust their partner and expect the best from that, people betraying that trust is gross"

A-fucking-men to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You could easily argue women end up cheating more, because technology has given them an unlimited access to men via apps and websites like this

I don’t think you understood what I wrote.

Men have more opportunity to cheat, because they are generally out of the house more without restriction.

Women have less opportunity to cheat, because they tend to have more domestic and childcare responsibilities.

For instance, if you regularly work late and are not expected to be home to pick the children up from school or feed them their tea, easier to cheat. If you regularly get to go to the gym, easier to cheat. If you regularly play golf with your mates, easier to cheat.

Women statistically don’t have opportunities like this because they shoulder the burden of domestic and care responsibilities. You can’t cheat while you’re caring for your toddler, driving them to swimming lessons, or dragging them round the supermarket."

Could argue the opposite just as easy

Women are alone in the day more often while the kids are at school, or the husbands working late. Much easier to cheat while someone’s at work. Much harder to cheat when your actually at work

Either way, no one can say who cheats more, because no concrete evidence can be gathered on the subject

I just know that most men come on here and have very little success. Same with apps

Most women come on here and have unlimited options. Same on apps

So if I’m gonna put my money on anything, it’s more likely women are cheating more, purely because it’s so much easier to make it happen

If it was as easy for men to get laid as it is women, then I’d say men would cheat. But it’s not

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

If I am single, how is it my fault?

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I don’t sleep with married men so…. Neither "

Have you not found those Fab "Single" Men?

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

The last house on the left…


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Firstly, I’m amoral

Secondly, the home wasn’t wrecked by the wrecker. It was wrecked by the person who took the vows in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a woman in hot pics right now with plenty of verifications admitting to being here without her husbands consent

This website slowly erodes my ability to believe it’s possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship anymore. It’s just too easy to cheat, and it’s just too hard to catch it with the abilities technology gives people

There’s a reason France made it illegal to get paternity tests. And it’s not because everyone’s being faithful

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"There’s a woman in hot pics right now with plenty of verifications admitting to being here without her husbands consent

This website slowly erodes my ability to believe it’s possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship anymore. It’s just too easy to cheat, and it’s just too hard to catch it with the abilities technology gives people

There’s a reason France made it illegal to get paternity tests. And it’s not because everyone’s being faithful "

It is possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship. I wouldn't dream of trying to convince you though because even I've started to wonder based on what I see on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good topic lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a woman in hot pics right now with plenty of verifications admitting to being here without her husbands consent

This website slowly erodes my ability to believe it’s possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship anymore. It’s just too easy to cheat, and it’s just too hard to catch it with the abilities technology gives people

There’s a reason France made it illegal to get paternity tests. And it’s not because everyone’s being faithful

It is possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship. I wouldn't dream of trying to convince you though because even I've started to wonder based on what I see on here"

I’ll stay trying, because giving up just guarantees failure, but damn is it hard to have faith when you look around

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Stats have proven that in a relationships women are more likely to cheat than the man.

Judging by how many women on here are without their partners knowledge, and my experience in the partner danceing world there may be something in it.

I have to ask...what stats?

There aren’t any

Men and women probably want to cheat at the same rate

But women probably end up cheating more because it’s easier + harder to catch

Men would cheat more, if it was easier. But most guys can’t pull when they are single, never mind cheating. "

Yes they are why don't you look? All you have to do is use Google.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"There’s a woman in hot pics right now with plenty of verifications admitting to being here without her husbands consent

This website slowly erodes my ability to believe it’s possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship anymore. It’s just too easy to cheat, and it’s just too hard to catch it with the abilities technology gives people

There’s a reason France made it illegal to get paternity tests. And it’s not because everyone’s being faithful

It is possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship. I wouldn't dream of trying to convince you though because even I've started to wonder based on what I see on here

I’ll stay trying, because giving up just guarantees failure, but damn is it hard to have faith when you look around "

Just around fab or among your peer group?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I suppose at end of day it comes down to each individuals moral compass! And tbh I wouldn't want to meet/shag with a man prepared to cheat on the one he claims to love! Not my kind of man I guess! X

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Ive avoided all married and cheating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ive avoided all married and cheating."

We haven't. We try to but a couple of times we've realised afterwards that the guy had an unaware partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a woman in hot pics right now with plenty of verifications admitting to being here without her husbands consent

This website slowly erodes my ability to believe it’s possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship anymore. It’s just too easy to cheat, and it’s just too hard to catch it with the abilities technology gives people

There’s a reason France made it illegal to get paternity tests. And it’s not because everyone’s being faithful

It is possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship. I wouldn't dream of trying to convince you though because even I've started to wonder based on what I see on here

I’ll stay trying, because giving up just guarantees failure, but damn is it hard to have faith when you look around

Just around fab or among your peer group?"

Both.

Fab is a hard truth, because I see how easy it is for someone to make a profile and gather verifications with little risk of getting caught

Among friends it’s endless stories of cheating, being cheated on, knowing people that have cheated. And that’s just those that get caught.

It’s just far too easy these days. You don’t even need to go outside. You can plan to cheat on your phone while sat on the toilet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"There’s a woman in hot pics right now with plenty of verifications admitting to being here without her husbands consent

This website slowly erodes my ability to believe it’s possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship anymore. It’s just too easy to cheat, and it’s just too hard to catch it with the abilities technology gives people

There’s a reason France made it illegal to get paternity tests. And it’s not because everyone’s being faithful

It is possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship. I wouldn't dream of trying to convince you though because even I've started to wonder based on what I see on here

I’ll stay trying, because giving up just guarantees failure, but damn is it hard to have faith when you look around

Just around fab or among your peer group?

Both.

Fab is a hard truth, because I see how easy it is for someone to make a profile and gather verifications with little risk of getting caught

Among friends it’s endless stories of cheating, being cheated on, knowing people that have cheated. And that’s just those that get caught.

It’s just far too easy these days. You don’t even need to go outside. You can plan to cheat on your phone while sat on the toilet "

You're right.

I can understand why you're cynical and frankly I'm glad I was younger pre internet.

Don't lose heart, you can't be the only person who feels as you do. I can't recall your age but I think it's similar to our children and they're both in faithful long term relationships

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I don't class myself as anything. If the guy is married then it's not any of my business."

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid cheating married Men....too much drama & consequences....

I think if a person intentionally seeks & pursues married men....he/she is a potential home wrecker....

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

He's already on here looking for sex, the reason he is doing this is nothing to do with me.

Married men are less clingy which suits me down to the ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a woman in hot pics right now with plenty of verifications admitting to being here without her husbands consent

This website slowly erodes my ability to believe it’s possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship anymore. It’s just too easy to cheat, and it’s just too hard to catch it with the abilities technology gives people

There’s a reason France made it illegal to get paternity tests. And it’s not because everyone’s being faithful

It is possible to have a happy, faithful long term relationship. I wouldn't dream of trying to convince you though because even I've started to wonder based on what I see on here

I’ll stay trying, because giving up just guarantees failure, but damn is it hard to have faith when you look around

Just around fab or among your peer group?

Both.

Fab is a hard truth, because I see how easy it is for someone to make a profile and gather verifications with little risk of getting caught

Among friends it’s endless stories of cheating, being cheated on, knowing people that have cheated. And that’s just those that get caught.

It’s just far too easy these days. You don’t even need to go outside. You can plan to cheat on your phone while sat on the toilet

You're right.

I can understand why you're cynical and frankly I'm glad I was younger pre internet.

Don't lose heart, you can't be the only person who feels as you do. I can't recall your age but I think it's similar to our children and they're both in faithful long term relationships"

Appreciate the kind words. I’m very lucky to have been in 3 long term relationships with women I absolutely trusted were loyal with every fibre of their being, so I know it’s out there and I know that others have found it too, so I won’t be giving up, even if it feels like the odds are against me

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

Would never knowingly sleep with another married partner of either sex if they were cheating!

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife...."

Providing a service. Wtf

Is that how you view women ? They are there to provide service to men by giving them sex.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"If I am single, how is it my fault?"

It takes two to tango!

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

wow providing a service ??? and some men wonder why they get nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you class yourself a home wrecker or providing a service by sleeping with a married man who doesn't get what he needs from his wife....

Providing a service. Wtf

Is that how you view women ? They are there to provide service to men by giving them sex.

"

Who said women??? Could be a man...

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Neither, nothing to do with us if a guy is married and playing away. He was the one who made a commitment to his wife not me.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"If I am single, how is it my fault?

It takes two to tango! "

But if it wasn't me, it would be someone else.

I don't seek them out, but it happens.

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