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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There used to be a time when the wink was a good way to let someone know you were interested and if you got a return you would message.

But these days it’s seems the wink is obsolete. Even when sending or receiving a wink.

Too much demands for messages with x number of pictures.

Shame as a wink was pretty exciting to receive and a nice way to start engaging

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Can't remember the last time I received one. Do people still use it?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I’ve had several today. Quite happy to keep them.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We've had quite a few today

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yeah we like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There used to be a time when the wink was a good way to let someone know you were interested and if you got a return you would message.

But these days it’s seems the wink is obsolete. Even when sending or receiving a wink.

Too much demands for messages with x number of pictures.

Shame as a wink was pretty exciting to receive and a nice way to start engaging"

Like the Facebook poke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't remember the last time I received one. Do people still use it?"

Winked because I want to move to FunkyTown

Actually one of my favourite songs lol.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I think a wink is a good way to show there is interest x

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By *ystery MemberMan
over a year ago

York

I love to send and receive winks.

I still think it’s an easy way to break the ice.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I got a few in the last couple of weeks keep them I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink to sink

one in the pink

or one in the stink

Let me know what you think x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Keep the wink.

Some don't like but, some definitely do.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think they’re great way to show someone has interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll send winks but rarely do I receive any...same as messages really haha

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

A wink a wank helps you work rest and play

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

A wink has it's place, but just throwing them out without reading someone's bio is annoying.

We say for couples a wink is initial interest and if we like follow up with a message.

We also say for single guys, don't wink at all, just message, then same again if we are interested we will follow up with a message.

Unsolicited winks from single guys just tell us a few things

A) Don't read

B) Don't respect preferences

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By *ustus696969Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

We get them not a frequent as before but still get a few, we like to send them instead of a message to gage if people are interested

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I think a wink is a good way to show interest and then if you get one back it’s worth a message.

I only say worth as when I send a message they’re unique to that person/people and I like to put effort into it. If I did that with every profile where there’s some interest from my side, I’d be typing 24/7!

Winks make it easy to see if there’s mutual interest, if I get one back then I send a message.

It doesn’t happen all the time but if I get one without sending one first I then send a message. I think winks are great but I can see why people getting hundreds of messages and winks per day would prioritise messages and ignore winks.

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