FabSwingers.com forum: Is Oral a no go?

By *alkthattalk OP Man
over a year ago

Darlington

I’ve had a partner for some time who never gives oral, but gladly receives oral.

Is this common with women?

Are BJs a turn off?

Do men actually have to refuse their partner giving them head, as they don’t like it?

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By *ightNWet69Woman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

I've met a few guys who don't like receiving oral. Quite a few women don't like to receive too.

Some people probably don't like to even give or receive oral.

Everyone is different.

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By *alkthattalk OP Man
over a year ago

Darlington

True: we are all different!

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By *ixedpairCouple
over a year ago

South West

We're obviously all different. Mrs absolutely loves giving head to the point I've had to turn her down, she gets no pleasure from oral on her though.

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

I only want head from a partner if they genuinely love sucking cock and it turns them on doing it. Likewise I only want to go down on people who get off on it.

Love recieving and giving with both sexes, but if they're just doing it to indulge me then I'd much rather give it a pass

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Different people like different things and different people like doing different things.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I'm a massive fan of oral - giving and receiving. I would never ever want someone to do something they weren't enjoying but if they didn't share my love of all things oral i would knock it on the head

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"I'm a massive fan of oral - giving and receiving. I would never ever want someone to do something they weren't enjoying but if they didn't share my love of all things oral i would knock it on the head"

Pun intended?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think on fab there's a kind of broad band of what a lot of people think is the correct way to have sex. Basically it's kissing, oral and penetration. I don't like receiving oral or kissing for that matter, one guy was aghast and assumed that I basically just went straight to being fucked.

It's good to accept that we're all different

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton

"I’ve had a partner for some time who never gives oral, but gladly receives oral.

Is this common with women?

Are BJs a turn off?

Do men actually have to refuse their partner giving them head, as they don’t like it? "
I don't give oral (not even to my man) but this is due to a bad experience I had with an ex before I started swinging. I love receiving it and feel like a hypocrite sometimes but my man and everyone else we have played with have been fine about it. I do enjoy watching him getting a BJ when we meet other swingers

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By *AM-93Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Big lover of giving and receiving oral, a lot of pleasure to be had. Obviously we are all different but for me you can’t beat it!

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By *valanche6969Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Used to have an ex that never gave me a blowjob but loved me going down on her! Luckily for her, I loved giving so wasn’t really an issue! She’d always get me off in other ways so no complaints at all!!

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I love giving oral. But receiving it is a yes and no. I love a sloppy BJ but find I climax way too quickly maybe as an end to the meet for round 2/3 it ok

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By *emptme1993Man
over a year ago

manchester

I love giving and receiving, it’s one of my favourite things to do

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

I love giving women oral and love giving wife oral and she loves receiving it. But she refuses to give me oral.

But in the past she’s tried to give me oral and it’s obvious she doesn’t like it and it’s then not enjoyable for me…

That said she enjoys anal, so not just 1 thing or other.

Would be boring if everyone was the same…

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By *egs 11Woman
over a year ago

BIDEFORD

I love giving and receiving oral. Hubby loves a bj but rarely gives oral. When he does blows my mind.

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By *eeper ThanMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I love receiving oral and I get off giving it to.

It might sound shallow, but I don’t think I could be with someone long-term if they didn’t ever do it

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Love giving oral. Receiving sometime ends little to quickly. Love to look up and see enjoyment on face and getting lost in moments.

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm orally bi. I simply enjoy making others cum. Of course I enjoy receiving too but it's not an essential

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

"Love giving oral. Receiving sometime ends little to quickly. Love to look up and see enjoyment on face and getting lost in moments. "

Love to break my bi cherry with mf oral

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not for me! Oral is very much about giving as receiving for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving to receiving tbh but never turn down a bj

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Big lover of giving and receiving oral, a lot of pleasure to be had. Obviously we are all different but for me you can’t beat it! "

This is us, we both love giving and receiving with each other

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By *alkthattalk OP Man
over a year ago

Darlington

"I think on fab there's a kind of broad band of what a lot of people think is the correct way to have sex. Basically it's kissing, oral and penetration. I don't like receiving oral or kissing for that matter, one guy was aghast and assumed that I basically just went straight to being fucked.

It's good to accept that we're all different

Variety is the spice of life!

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By *alkthattalk OP Man
over a year ago

Darlington

"I love receiving oral and I get off giving it to.

It might sound shallow, but I don’t think I could be with someone long-term if they didn’t ever do it"

I get off giving oral. It’s so naughty and animalistic and I feel in control. I can cum whilst they cum as I’m that turned on by the act.

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By *alkthattalk OP Man
over a year ago

Darlington

"Big lover of giving and receiving oral, a lot of pleasure to be had. Obviously we are all different but for me you can’t beat it!

This is us, we both love giving and receiving with each other

Sounds like a match made in Heaven…

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By *ayxWoman
over a year ago

brentwood

Each to their own but I absolutely love giving and recieving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give but obviously prefer to receive a nice warm tongue between my legs

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I’ve had a partner for some time who never gives oral, but gladly receives oral.

Is this common with women?

Are BJs a turn off?

Do men actually have to refuse their partner giving them head, as they don’t like it? "

Within Fab world most ladies seem to give oral, with varying degrees of enjoyment and enthusiasm. In normal world not giving blow jobs is quite common I think especially as couples get older. Hence lots of jokes along the lines of brides being happy on wedding day as no longer need to give blow jobs

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