FabSwingers.com forum: I smelled a rat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello all........new boy on the site and I know guys on their own aren't always welcome, especially solo married ones. So , about 10 days ago, I had a -message from a guy not too far away telling me he and his older woman friend wanted a mmf session and would like me to be the guy. Lots of messages to and fro with specific details of what might go on.......he supposed to be bi or bi/cu.she wanting to watch/ join in etc including use of strap ons. Moblile no given but when I texted it, the no was wrong..........he apologised for that, gave me the "Right" one. He was supposed to take a call from me today to fix a meet but now he is "No longer on site"..surprise.

I was suspicious pretty well from the off as he was not verified and the "woman" was not on the profile with him, plus no pics, yet he wanted a face pic of me............as if I would.

Back to the drawing board but as they say, no experience is wasted.

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

if it sounds to good to be true ......

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Back to the drawing board but as they say, no experience is wasted.

I agree as it gives you ideas of what to look for next time to save wasting any time.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hello all........new boy on the site and I know guys on their own aren't always welcome, especially solo married ones. So , about 10 days ago, I had a -message from a guy not too far away telling me he and his older woman friend wanted a mmf session and would like me to be the guy. Lots of messages to and fro with specific details of what might go on.......he supposed to be bi or bi/cu.she wanting to watch/ join in etc including use of strap ons. Moblile no given but when I texted it, the no was wrong..........he apologised for that, gave me the "Right" one. He was supposed to take a call from me today to fix a meet but now he is "No longer on site"..surprise.

I was suspicious pretty well from the off as he was not verified and the "woman" was not on the profile with him, plus no pics, yet he wanted a face pic of me............as if I would.

Back to the drawing board but as they say, no experience is wasted.

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If you were suspicious of the profile in the first place why give him your personal number ? doesnt make sence to just throw out personal details maybe lesson learnt not to disclose andy personal details till your 100% sure about someone ...good luck next time .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were suspicious of the profile doesnt make sence to just throw out personal details maybe lesson learnt not to disclose andy personal details till your 100% sure about someone ...good luck next time ."

Yes, smacked wrist

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

i had that sort of thing happen to me , , had message from this guy saying his g/f was up for 3sum and has seen my profile and liked it ,so wud i like to join then in the evening at hers ,few message later i had the address , got ready i drove 8 mile ,knocked on the door this woman open it , i said hello im paul , she said and , i said you and b/f invited me over , she said no i dont think so you must av wrong address and shut the door on me lol thought fuck iv been had ,so came home went to send a message to say thanks for the wind up only to find he had left the site , so now unless the a couple as in a couple i dont bother , took for a mug there hey ho live and learn a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was his name Roland?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

It didn't sound too good to be true and you were right to still be suspicious.

I would suggest maybe getting a cheap pay as you go phone to use as a swinging phone.

Better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had that sort of thing happen to me , , had message from this guy saying his g/f was up for 3sum and has seen my profile and liked it ,so wud i like to join then in the evening at hers ,few message later i had the address , got ready i drove 8 mile ,knocked on the door this woman open it , i said hello im paul , she said and , i said you and b/f invited me over , she said no i dont think so you must av wrong address and shut the door on me lol thought fuck iv been had ,so came home went to send a message to say thanks for the wind up only to find he had left the site , so now unless the a couple as in a couple i dont bother , took for a mug there hey ho live and learn a

This is exactly the reason you will see on many couples profiles a line something like... "early fem to fem phone call essential". As a single guy, I wouldn't go near a couple for a private meet unless I had spoken to both of them - during the SAME call - beforehand.

Lesson learned me thinks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a couple asking for a meet , (yes i know its strange a guy getting chased)

so we arranged a hotel , then i asked to speak to her just say hello , all i got was sorry shes getting ready for you , i left it then later got a shitty txt from him ,

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Good advise from a fellow forumite(a single guy like you):a cpl with a 'healthy mix' of veris(3sums,clubs,partys)are more likely to be a:a cpl and b:will show up........just like us

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early calls are a must for us along with a dressed cam quickie to make sure everyone has seen each other. Some may say no thanks but genuine people have nothnig to loose as we see it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the helpful comments/sympathy/suggestions...........and I don't know if his name was Roland.

But he did come from west Essex..........he said.

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