FabSwingers.com forum: How many guys happy to Bareback

By *penallhours100 OP Couple
over a year ago

Taunton

So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

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By *esire in SheffieldMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Bareback with who I know

Safe sex with others

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

Naughty but obviously depends who it's with

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Too fucking many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No std is worth the better sensation bareback gives you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judgement call. I test in between meets if I ever bareback.

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By *olkiMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Bareback if you know the person

Otherwise wrap it up

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Lots of guys (and gals) like it

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By *edDevil5Man
over a year ago

NN4

Wife yes

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I’ll have bareback in a special relationship where all Are tested.

At a club.. no chance.

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By *ath_ladMan
over a year ago

Bath

Only if it felt right and was up to date with tests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bare back if i know the person other wise i always wrap up

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By *pen to offers!Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Should be up to the individuals involved. Also it important to get tested regularly regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex."

This is a question that comes up time and time again it's personal preference. If both parties are std tested I see no issue. People who want to play safe also it's their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe always unless they are known.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex."

I only saw your current 'status update' as a result of noticing this thread and then viewing your profile...

....and I'm gobsmacked that your preferred age range effectively precludes me from sending you message No.151...

....I've been seeking two women who'd love to play that way for even longer than bareback being the only way I've played - and that's been for many years...

....though I suspect from your use of the term "experiment", you're not actually seeking what the update says...

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

No and if they advertise bb on their profile I won’t meet.

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By *arlos671Man
over a year ago

leeds

Something still on my fantasy list! Need to make it a reality

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"No and if they advertise bb on their profile I won’t meet. "

Exactly this.

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By *eojontyMan
over a year ago

bedford , milton Keynes, St neots

Always safe sex

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Most are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always safe

Lost out on more than 9 meets because if it

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No thanks. I don't need an STI.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Partner yes, everyone else no.

This thread just reinforces why everyone else is a no.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

[Removed by poster at 17/01/24 13:28:07]

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Only BB with trusted regulars

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Always protected, possible if we have a very close relationship with another couple and we all get tested we could open this up.

But it would need to come with a ridiculous caveat of trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% safe unless with established and trusted playmates.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

It is a judgement call. But from experience observed in clubs, the draw to bare play is compelling

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By *adgerMan
over a year ago

york

Always protected… “unless you know them” lol I do that’s why!

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Bareback with partner and safe soft swing with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those you say no to bareback sex what do you use when you perform oral on someone. STI's can be caught by oral sex not just from fucking.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex."

There are home test kits for STIs including aids. So if yiu want to do this be prepared to insist on them. As for the pregnancy issue is up to the woman there is contraception from the pill to caps.

In my case its a non issue I can't have kids anyway.

What interests me is that there is a widespread condemnation of men who saybtheybwould but little said against women that like bareback it's a two way street.

As for the risks well you have As the same risk giving bareback oral sex. So I don't get the moral outrage. Would I the answer is yes under certain conditions and I think that's true for most whatever sex you are.

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By *ucktastic33Couple
over a year ago

North Wales &

Sara only wants bearback!! The deeper planted the better she's actively looking to get pregnant.

We still do STI test regularly

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

The last house on the left…

It’s the reason I’m on Fab looking for a Primary.

But in the past, I’ve caught STDs even when protected.

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

Only with an exclusive, fully-tested, fully-trusted partner who is happy to retain this exclusivity. I soooo miss it but it's just not worth the risk of contracting an STI or, even worse, passing it on to friends and playmates.

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

"Those you say no to bareback sex what do you use when you perform oral on someone. STI's can be caught by oral sex not just from fucking."

The percentages are minimal compared to penetration (though, not zero) I was told by the doctor in my local sex health clinic. I perform a lot of oral sex and get a full STI check every three months or as required.

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By *oodtimesnorwichMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Never bareback on the first meet. Afterwards, if agreed and planned out then yes

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Could not think of anything worse than may get pregnant sex with a stranger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me personally ....yes feels 10x better bare but the amount of risk just isn't worth it std or pregnancy I just wish there was a more flattering way to look whilst getting the Johnny on

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Why is this question aimed at guys?

It takes two to tango.

How many women go bareback?

As many as the men I'd suspect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judgement call. I test in between meets if I ever bareback."

Testing doesn’t stop you catching things

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Not for me personally ....yes feels 10x better bare but the amount of risk just isn't worth it std or pregnancy I just wish there was a more flattering way to look whilst getting the Johnny on

Get them to put it on for you, very erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always safe sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrap up all the time unless with wife

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

I always wonder how these guys will feel when they get the child support bill, or when a teenager turns up on their doorstep.

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By *emptme1993Man
over a year ago

manchester

I wrap up all the time, could be tempted with an older lady who I trust

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not for me.

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By *unlovin72Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I know and there is mutual trust, then yes. Otherwise its a no.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Why is this question aimed at guys?

It takes two to tango.

How many women go bareback?

As many as the men I'd suspect!"

Because its easier to negatively judge a man than a woman on his site

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I always wonder how these guys will feel when they get the child support bill, or when a teenager turns up on their doorstep."

Oh after two women swore blind tgT they were on protection and I was stupid enough to take their word for it. Turned out I wasn't the father after I insisted on paternity tests from one and the other terminated because they realised I wasn't going to play their game I got a vasectomy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

I only saw your current 'status update' as a result of noticing this thread and then viewing your profile...

....and I'm gobsmacked that your preferred age range effectively precludes me from sending you message No.151...

....I've been seeking two women who'd love to play that way for even longer than bareback being the only way I've played - and that's been for many years...

....though I suspect from your use of the term "experiment", you're not actually seeking what the update says...

May I ask why you’re “gobsmacked” by people having a preferred age range?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always play safe unless in long term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars, the lot of ya

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"I always wonder how these guys will feel when they get the child support bill, or when a teenager turns up on their doorstep.

You are aware that all contraception, including surgical options, has a chance of failure?

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

"Liars, the lot of ya

i agree with that statement, 90% of the guys that come with me want to fuck me bare (no risk of pregnancy with me though) and most are straight-ish married men

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

OP I've just checked your status.

You offered a married man the chance to bareback 2 ladies at the same time

That is like going to the gym with out of date protein shakes and being amazed big barry is necking them for fun. In between his arm curls

You set them up to fail, experiment void.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks. I don't need an STI."

You can get one sucking cock. Also you don't list safe sex on interests.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We love bareback and it would always be our preferred option but reality is safety takes priority for full penetration. And can be crap because Mr struggles with condoms!!

That’s we are happy with soft swap, works great for us although appreciate there’s still elements of risk (before everyone points it out!!!)

We are lucky enough to have a couple we have seen regularly for years and enjoy bareback play with so it’s also misplacing their trust too....

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By *mie subCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

Safe allways but do like the sound of it but to risky x

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I always wonder how these guys will feel when they get the child support bill, or when a teenager turns up on their doorstep.

You are aware that all contraception, including surgical options, has a chance of failure?"

Yes which I'd why I regularly make sure that it's still working.

And while I admit there are som failures not as many as you think women are extremely devious if they want to something a d will use any method to achieve it as I have found to great cost.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Yes which I'd why I regularly make sure that it's still working.

And while I admit there are som failures not as many as you think women are extremely devious if they want to something a d will use any method to achieve it as I have found to great cost."

You can't check that contraception is working. It has a chance of failure at any point.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Yes which I'd why I regularly make sure that it's still working.

And while I admit there are som failures not as many as you think women are extremely devious if they want to something a d will use any method to achieve it as I have found to great cost.

You can't check that contraception is working. It has a chance of failure at any point."

I make regular tests that my vasectomy is still effective. So in my case yes I can

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"May I ask why you’re “gobsmacked” by people having a preferred age range?"

It was a tongue-in-cheek comment...

....not about them having a preferred age range, but my being outside of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex."

At least you know who to put on your block list!!

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By *are6a9funMan
over a year ago

Fun Town

Even though it restricts me massively, I’m seeking bare. I’m not looking for loads of meets, and I’m testing too, even with months of non playing time. I’m a one arrangement at a time person, but the search currently is like a needle in a haystack.

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By *anny34500Man
over a year ago

Luton

Love bare back

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

The Ex and I always did BB.

The only STD was Chlamydia when we went to sex club. The lady who the wife played with contacted us to say she found out from her results that she had it and the wife should get tested.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We only play bare. We don’t meet often. Yes there’s risk but it’s what we enjoy

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By *obbob1351Man
over a year ago

walton

most women do in my experience!! I don’t think I’ve ever been asked to wear a condom whether on a fab meet or a normal date!! Regularly tested tho and never caught anything!

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Would love to. But no. Too much risk.

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By *_new_memberMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Not for me. I even turned down the rare chance of a meet because of it

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By *inoc2185Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Bareback with who I know

Safe sex with others "

Exactly what I do

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Not surprised at all. Obviously lots of desperate horny men out there but noticed more and more bareback at parties in the last year or so between couples. I've even been asked at a party mid-way through by a lady if I'd like to take off the condom and cum in her and only met her an hour before.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

This is a question that comes up time and time again it's personal preference. If both parties are std tested I see no issue. People who want to play safe also it's their choice "

Precisely this.

This ignorance of so many of these comments here is staggering.

If people ard regularly tested and know their status and if they are taking PrEP then there is no more risk than otherwise.

Oral sex and very close contact can still spread infections just the same.

A condom will not protect you unless it is used all of the time for every contact.

Dental dams the same thing for women.

I can't believe the 'if I know the person comments either.

Do some research and get educated.

So far out of date it's embarrassing.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Obviously , pregnancy is a different matter and you should take whatever precautions you want or need then.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

This is a question that comes up time and time again it's personal preference. If both parties are std tested I see no issue. People who want to play safe also it's their choice

Precisely this.

This ignorance of so many of these comments here is staggering.

If people ard regularly tested and know their status and if they are taking PrEP then there is no more risk than otherwise.

Oral sex and very close contact can still spread infections just the same.

A condom will not protect you unless it is used all of the time for every contact.

Dental dams the same thing for women.

I can't believe the 'if I know the person comments either.

Do some research and get educated.

So far out of date it's embarrassing.

The problem with just getting tested is that you need to be waiting a long time between each partner. So if you have sex with someone bareback you should ideally be waiting just over a month before you get tested (without having sex with anyone, including that person), and then waiting your week for results, before having sex with a different person and repeating the procedure.

STIs have incubation periods, and in that way testing just isn’t foolproof.

PReP is also quite hard to get if you’re not a MSM or a sex worker. When I was dating a sex worker I wasn’t even considered an eligible candidate despite him sleeping with both other male and female sex workers three or four days a week.

So before suggesting people are ignorant for their comments, perhaps look at your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like bareback filling up a pussy with cum is a turn on

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By *endalshaggersCouple
over a year ago

Lake District

With people we know and with each other, sure no problem.

Everyone has bareback sex at some point in their lives, if it wasn't for bareback sex between our parents none of us would be here lol. Makes us chuckle every profile we see "bareback sex is disgusting" yet there is pictures of them doing it!

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By *ertcamembertMan
over a year ago

Reading area

"With people we know and with each other, sure no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we have known them a while and everyone is uo to date with tests then the wife loves a creampie

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

This regular testing thing can be a red herring. It really depends how often is regular and how many people they have sex with in the meantime. I know a couple who test regularly but they are also meeting 2-3 times a week at clubs and parties and both having bareback sex with several people each time. Even if they test every month that is a lot of interactions between tests and I bet many of the people they are having bareback sex with aren't testing that regularly.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"With people we know and with each other, sure no problem.

lol usually such pictures are of partners having sex which is a totally different thing.

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

As a rule no not when swinging and love bareback.

Rules however are made to be broken and have on 2 occasions with couples here on 3rd or 4th meet. Got tested after both times.

If someone is "experienced" / had many meets then it's a definate no.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's amazing how many profiles show Safe Sex as a preference, yet display BB pics.

It's a no from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Liars, the lot of ya

i agree with that statement, 90% of the guys that come with me want to fuck me bare (no risk of pregnancy with me though) and most are straight-ish married men"

But that’s just the guys who want to meet you. You might attract those who want risk and excitement

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By *issNstingMan
over a year ago

Bungay

Suicidal, irresponsible and very bad for the health of you and your sexual partners...

Safe sex only here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with Mrs B , I wrap up with everyone else xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's amazing how many profiles show Safe Sex as a preference, yet display BB pics.

It's a no from us.

We show BB pics now and then , it’s only as a married couple though and we’ve been together for 30 years , everyone else is wrapped up .

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By *syoulikeit69Man
over a year ago

London

I'd have to know someone very well and be exclusive to risk BB. Shame it has to be that way, but health and wealth come first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever go BB with wife and she is same!!!

When we started this lifestyle, we made our own rules that got changed alot in the first year and still get changed now but the one rule we will never ever change is safe sex!!

It's a great life this lifestyle until it isn't x

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By *andydan69Man
over a year ago

south west nr you mmm

Bareback if u know them or proof

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Bareback if u know them or proof "

What counts as proof? What do you mean by know? I know lots of people I wouldn’t touch with a barge pole

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Had the snip so no worries about pregnancy sex but that doesn't detract from the need for cleanliness or protection if insisted by the other party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be having bareback sex with strangers. Only doing that with someone casual

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Some guys who otherwise are hard as a rock go soft with condoms, I guess we will never know how good they are. Bag up.

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

This is a question that comes up time and time again it's personal preference. If both parties are std tested I see no issue. People who want to play safe also it's their choice "

You see no issue with someone getting pregnant in this way?

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

This is a question that comes up time and time again it's personal preference. If both parties are std tested I see no issue. People who want to play safe also it's their choice

You see no issue with someone getting pregnant in this way?

HW"

It is done ones choice if they gave sex, get pregnant and then choose to keep the baby.

It's not for anyone else to have an issue.

It's not our business what they do.

I don't see how it's any different to having a few drink in a pub, getting chatted up and conceiving that way.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"Suicidal, irresponsible and very bad for the health of you and your sexual partners...

Safe sex only here."

No it is not suicidal at all.

You do not due of STI's if you are under the care of your local clinic.

Getting tested is better than safer sex.

It is not 'safe sex' to use a condom, it is safer.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"This regular testing thing can be a red herring. It really depends how often is regular and how many people they have sex with in the meantime. I know a couple who test regularly but they are also meeting 2-3 times a week at clubs and parties and both having bareback sex with several people each time. Even if they test every month that is a lot of interactions between tests and I bet many of the people they are having bareback sex with aren't testing that regularly. "

You are testing for your own sexual health not for other peoples .

It's no red herring to protect yourself and know what is happening with your own body.

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By *addy bareMan
over a year ago

lakeside

Always up for bareback.

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By *urge72Man
over a year ago

oxfordshire & Hull

Always wrapped up

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

This is a question that comes up time and time again it's personal preference. If both parties are std tested I see no issue. People who want to play safe also it's their choice

Precisely this.

This ignorance of so many of these comments here is staggering.

If people ard regularly tested and know their status and if they are taking PrEP then there is no more risk than otherwise.

Oral sex and very close contact can still spread infections just the same.

A condom will not protect you unless it is used all of the time for every contact.

Dental dams the same thing for women.

I can't believe the 'if I know the person comments either.

Do some research and get educated.

So far out of date it's embarrassing.

STIs have incubation periods, and in that way testing just isn’t foolproof.

So before suggesting people are ignorant for their comments, perhaps look at your own."

It us not ignorant at all to suggest being tested regularly and knowing your own sexual health status for your own protection.

Yes , STI's have an incubation period (usually approximately 14 days after contact)and you often do not know until symptoms show.

I'd hope that people are sensible enough to get treatment then and not leave it.

Other infections can be hidden and require testing to know so testing is important to know what is there unless you want complications later such as sterility etc.

PrEP is administered very differently now to how it was years ago and is much more freely available at sexual health clinics.

To be on a PrEP prescription programme you must be tested at minimum every three months so you will have peace of mind that any infections will be identified.

People need to take responsibility and control of their own bodies and health.

Simple really.

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By *otty BikerMan
over a year ago

Warrington

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex."

How is this just a guy thing, equally there must be 150 women out there willing to fuck on them bareback, or 1 woman taking 150 men ? Lol

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

How is this just a guy thing, equally there must be 150 women out there willing to fuck on them bareback, or 1 woman taking 150 men ? Lol

I've been to a few busy gangbangs but nothing on that scale!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand why people are so blasé about it , don’t they care about sexual health , so many are yep if I know them…..,

you think if you met a person you know what they do when you are not about , if they will go bare with you don’t assume they are not bare with others !

I find this fucking mindblowingly scary

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Definate no!

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

I never use protection with my old regular fb. We had the conversation if you sleep with anyone else make sure you use a condom.

Needless to say he had a d*unken encounter unprotected, didn't tell me, so a visit to the clinic for me

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"I never use protection with my old regular fb. We had the conversation if you sleep with anyone else make sure you use a condom.

Needless to say he had a d*unken encounter unprotected, didn't tell me, so a visit to the clinic for me

I think fairly regular clinic visits are a good thing whether there's any signs of a problem or not.

Obviously not as regular as others should if it's just the one partner that you trust.

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By *damjamie00Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

Always prefer protection unless tested

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex."

Claire & Sarah

Would Love to meet up with you Both, unable to message but will when I can again..

Love an FFM 3some with You..

Andy xx

Kik...

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

"No std is worth the better sensation bareback gives you. "

Yep totally agree

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

You are testing for your own sexual health not for other peoples .

It's no red herring to protect yourself and know what is happening with your own body."

I thought have thought that obvious and it was not the context of my comment! It was in relation to people saying happy to go bareback because they test regularly (and therefore can’t give anything to others) or the people they fuck test regularly (and hence can’t give them anything). Read my comment again in that context and you might spot the red herring.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex.

How is this just a guy thing, equally there must be 150 women out there willing to fuck on them bareback, or 1 woman taking 150 men ? Lol

Yep lots of bareback ladies out there and not just gangbangs. Lots at parties. As I said above one asked me about removing condom a couple of months ago.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

"So after our little experiment, gob smacked to get 150 messages saying happy to bareback and have risky may get pregnant sex."

That’s level of desperation to get the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy bareback if Amy women want to contact me!

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By *dventurouscouple4343Couple
over a year ago

KENT / SOUTH EAST

I can see Ancestry getting lots of Paternal DNA matches in future years

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By *unlovin72Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

"I can see Ancestry getting lots of Paternal DNA matches in future years

And maybe a visit to the gu clinic for a unwanted present (sti)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judgement call. I test in between meets if I ever bareback.

Testing doesn’t stop you catching things"

Neither do condoms if you perform oral

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