FabSwingers.com forum: winks

By *rlando OP Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Have they ever worked for anyone ? whats the point ?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Sure they work have you tried sending one to yourself

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

We like the winks ,shows hows intrested but not sure about contacting us .we had a couple that have turned into meets x

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
over a year ago

South East Coast

We always send a wink, so as not to bombard people with messages. If they wink back, we'll then message as they have looked at us and are interested

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Love a wink!!!!

We send them also, means you don’t have to write a message!! If they wink back, great, if not no worries!!!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Rarely, but we have had meets that started with a wink.

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By *orn-in-69Couple
over a year ago

Shipley

Ms sent one yesterday. Leading to some chat which is making us both go weak at the knees!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked a treat for us a couple of times

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"We always send a wink, so as not to bombard people with messages. If they wink back, we'll then message as they have looked at us and are interested "

Exactly this

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Winks do work.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met after a wink. They work just great…

Plus, we’ve had some fun meets after a few winks.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Winks have worked for us... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont wink just anybody!!! ,

but i feel a wink is good way to see if there is any interest back rather then send a long personal message (not a copy n paste job either!!) for it to be overlooked,

I understand that women/ couples get high amounts of messages so saves annoying people with messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy sending winks as an optimistic ice breaker (even if they’re very rarely reciprocated)

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Winks work great!

We send one and, if we receive one back, that tells us it would be worthwhile sending a wee message.

Not everyone uses them but we find them useful

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I delete my friend requests from randoms but go through and check out profile of the winks.

Quite partial to a flutter of eyelashes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love winks, it's a quick way to see if someone is interested, wink away lol

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By *andPextraCouple
over a year ago

North West

Good way of a tentative intro, much better than getting random friend requests.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I have to say they sometimes they work, but it doesn’t hurt to send one

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

nope winks = lazy

i bulk delete them daily those that keep sending just get added to block list can you imagine just how crap they would be in bed if they cant just write a message

as said bulk delete

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By *aturebi-ker62Man
over a year ago

here and there

I use them if I like someones profile, if they wink back I message thanking for the wink and go from there

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

I like a wink.. it's a good way to start a conversation

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By *oshb12469Man
over a year ago

Bury st edmunds

It’s a quick gauge before you start messaging

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By *um4you52Man
over a year ago

Prescot/Huyton

"We like the winks ,shows hows intrested but not sure about contacting us .we had a couple that have turned into meets x "

Stand by to be inundated with winks

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

We quite like winks as a way of initiating conversation - easy to reciprocate if the profile looks promising, easy to ignore if not

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes, many times

I've received and sent them, leading to success. Read the profile. Some say not to bother. Others state they welcome them.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

We do like a wink here

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We like them, if we send one and they look and wink back then we say hello, if someone winks us we say hello, as they obviously were reaching out to see if there's any interest.

Seems simple and sensible enough to us.

But hey....

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I like to send winks. I use them to show my interest with no pressure to reply, as not everyone likes TVs.

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By *hyandcurious2021Man
over a year ago

exeter

I send a wink to show i like what i see/read and to indicate i would like to chat/see more of that person

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By *orny PTMan
52 weeks ago

Peterborough

I just got a notification via email, clicked on it and the wink wasn't there and her name can't be found, despite it being quoted in my inbox.

What's going on?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
52 weeks ago

wonderland.

"I just got a notification via email, clicked on it and the wink wasn't there and her name can't be found, despite it being quoted in my inbox.

What's going on?"
we have had one like that this week

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
52 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

[Removed by poster at 24/01/24 06:06:31]

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
52 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"I just got a notification via email, clicked on it and the wink wasn't there and her name can't be found, despite it being quoted in my inbox.

What's going on? we have had one like that this week "

Literally just had one too - most odd

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By *ngelLordCouple
52 weeks ago

Newport

Like sending and receiving and go from there

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By *amasoporkyCouple
52 weeks ago

midlands

Love a wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Sometimes handy to start a conversation

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
52 weeks ago

Chichester

It breaks the ice and shows interest.

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By *orkshire 123Man
52 weeks ago

Bradford

I wink to try break the ice ,i find it hard to start chatting sometimes struggle with words what to say

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
52 weeks ago

Leeds

We've had some good meets that started with a wink so yes they can work.

Mrs

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By *orny PTMan
52 weeks ago

Peterborough

"I just got a notification via email, clicked on it and the wink wasn't there and her name can't be found, despite it being quoted in my inbox.

What's going on? we have had one like that this week "

Eee! It's like that dating site, that rhymes with hatch.

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By *orny PTMan
52 weeks ago

Peterborough

I hope the mods aren't sending out fake winks. (waits for a better answer) Can I post this persona non grata's FAB name here?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Winks are like marmite, some welcome it, some find it as lazy. Some will wink as part of playing a forum game.

For me I’ve had some success in getting noticed or having a mutual wink. Key is to read profile first. Some will specifically mention if they do or do t respond to winks

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By *hunky GentMan
52 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

They've been known to start the occasional conversation

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By *adCherriesCouple
52 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

We delete them in bulk and don't even look who sent them. Sending a message is a much better way of saying hello.

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By *orny PTMan
52 weeks ago

Peterborough

"They've been known to start the occasional conversation

How, if they user doesn't exist?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"They've been known to start the occasional conversation

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agreed

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
52 weeks ago

Sheffield

Works for us! Started many a chat and made many plans from them. Much better than some forced first corny message or a 'hi what you up to' in our eyes when used properly.

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By *wlmanMan
52 weeks ago

Rugby

Love a wink, don't get many but love em!!

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By *ilyandronCouple
52 weeks ago

Bristol

Winks have worked for us. It simply shows initial interest.

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By *hunky GentMan
52 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"They've been known to start the occasional conversation

How, if they user doesn't exist?"

I don't understand what you mean??

If they've sent a wink, then they exist.

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By *ecky and justCouple
52 weeks ago

Godalming

"They've been known to start the occasional conversation

How, if they user doesn't exist?

I don't understand what you mean??

If they've sent a wink, then they exist.

Oooohh.!! Stealth winking..!

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By *orny PTMan
52 weeks ago

Peterborough

"They've been known to start the occasional conversation

How, if they user doesn't exist?

I don't understand what you mean??

If they've sent a wink, then they exist.

This is what I mean

Message in email

"You have received a new wink on fabswingers.com from lsexywife4fun"

Go to winks tab: no winks from Isexywife4fun

Go to browse tab, enters user name "sexywife4fun"

Sorry, we couldn't find any users with that search

That's what I mean

confuseddotcom!

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By *ecky and justCouple
52 weeks ago

Godalming

They winked you and then either left or blocked you.

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By *hunky GentMan
52 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"They've been known to start the occasional conversation

How, if they user doesn't exist?

I don't understand what you mean??

If they've sent a wink, then they exist.

This is what I mean

Message in email

"You have received a new wink on fabswingers.com from lsexywife4fun"

Go to winks tab: no winks from Isexywife4fun

Go to browse tab, enters user name "sexywife4fun"

Sorry, we couldn't find any users with that search

That's what I mean

confuseddotcom!"

Arrrh. OK.

Then we have to move on.

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By *att71Man
52 weeks ago

Bristol

I have a few winks of late, maybe they are making a comeback on here.........

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By *iftyshadesofbrownMan
52 weeks ago

coventry

They seem to work for me. I like to use winks to show I’m interested but not sure about contacting them.

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By *orny PTMan
52 weeks ago

Peterborough

"They've been known to start the occasional conversation

How, if they user doesn't exist?

I don't understand what you mean??

If they've sent a wink, then they exist.

This is what I mean

Message in email

"You have received a new wink on fabswingers.com from lsexywife4fun"

Go to winks tab: no winks from Isexywife4fun

Go to browse tab, enters user name "sexywife4fun"

Sorry, we couldn't find any users with that search

That's what I mean

confuseddotcom!

Arrrh. OK.

Then we have to move on.

Indeed we do.

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