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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need advice..again

Man asks me to meet, I say yes. I message to confirm meet to be now told if he can get time off work?

Why arrange when you don't even know your free or be upfront about it.

Feel like telling him I'm washing my hair. What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he may be genuine, see how eager he is to get back to you with news thats hes got the day/evening off...

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Tell him to jog on Hun xx

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Tell him it is off, and when he can make firm plans (pun intended), then he can get in touch.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

When that happens I say 'I'll leave it with you then' and then do that. You're time is just as important as his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wants to meet you, he will make time for you...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I had a number of these. Bloody annoying. Like putting you on stand by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a number of these. Bloody annoying. Like putting you on stand by."

That's exactly how I feel. As far as I'm concerned plenty more on my list

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By *imimeeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree. Plenty more guys who want to and are available to meet. x

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

People do this in regular social life too: make plans and then find they may or may not be free. It's behaviour though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty more blokes on here, so just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a bit non committal, but people do have lives and you have to understand that.

What if it were roles reversed, and someone got irritated with you when you were genuinely trying to find time for them?

I'd see what he does next, it will become obvious if he does want to meet, even if he can't this time around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is a bit non committal, but people do have lives and you have to understand that.

What if it were roles reversed, and someone got irritated with you when you were genuinely trying to find time for them?

I'd see what he does next, it will become obvious if he does want to meet, even if he can't this time around."

I totally agree if he would of just said I may be able to meet. But he never so if he can't make it I'd just be cancelled last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty more blokes on here, so just move on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be a rule for time wasters maybe 3 hits and your out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need advice..again

Man asks me to meet, I say yes. I message to confirm meet to be now told if he can get time off work?

Why arrange when you don't even know your free or be upfront about it.

Feel like telling him I'm washing my hair. What would you do? "

say you are washing your hair.

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