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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
51 weeks ago

Coventry

So, when someone you know in real life messages you, what do you do? I suspect they don’t know it’s me else they wouldn’t have messaged (I think!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I’d love it , someone knowing what we’re up to

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
51 weeks ago

Coventry

I just find it incredible that he can’t see who I am from my pictures, it’s like he’s sent a standard template message he sends to everyone lol. Not sure whether to say something in person or on here

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By *end1Man
51 weeks ago

southend on sea

I've often wondered if say and older guy or couple got a message and it turned out to be the son or daughter!

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
51 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've often wondered if say and older guy or couple got a message and it turned out to be the son or daughter!"

That’s exactly why it’s important to swap photos early

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By *he ass man 666Man
51 weeks ago

paradise city


"I just find it incredible that he can’t see who I am from my pictures, it’s like he’s sent a standard template message he sends to everyone lol. Not sure whether to say something in person or on here "

Unless he’s already seen you in your undies before he ain’t going to know

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"So, when someone you know in real life messages you, what do you do? I suspect they don’t know it’s me else they wouldn’t have messaged (I think!!)"

I find it very unnerving, as they always seem to name us but never mention who they are.

It's just creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Block them. Unless you’re interested

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By *reenleavesCouple
51 weeks ago

North Wales

We've had it before with people we vaguely know through work. We knew they loved to spread gossip so we blocked them before they worked out it was us.

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By *n Too DeepMan
51 weeks ago

Walsall

You classic "you show me yours and I'll show you mine"

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By *olkiMan
51 weeks ago

somewhere

I know a couple on the site from my town and would know them to talk to.

Would love to join them but I'm afraid to message

Just hoping they'll message me first by some stroke of luck

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
51 weeks ago

Inverness

One of my best friends regularly messages us and sends us dick pics. He has no idea and I don’t know how to tell him

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By *eddfmyd11Man
51 weeks ago

Towcester


"One of my best friends regularly messages us and sends us dick pics. He has no idea and I don’t know how to tell him "

You could just block him, unless you're interested of course

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
51 weeks ago

Inverness

Yeh i could but I’m too nosey

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
51 weeks ago

Colchester

Never happened.

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
51 weeks ago

here and there

Would depend on who it is that has messaged .if it was someone we didn't want knowing it was us then block ,otherwise all good fun x

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By *wolfy000Man
51 weeks ago

hitchin

Have seen a friend on here, and both know it’s each other. Doesn’t bother either of us! Have seen a friend of a friend however and defo haven’t mentioned that one

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By *olkiMan
51 weeks ago

somewhere

I love the nosing too

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
51 weeks ago

Coventry

It’s my daughter’s football coach lol. I don’t know him that well other than he’s single and has 2 kids, he seems really prim and proper. Definitely not seen me in my undies lol. Ah well, I’ll have a little chuckle when I see him tomorrow

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
51 weeks ago

Norwich

I think he’d know…

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By *klondon1Man
51 weeks ago

London

This is amazing.

Think of the fun…

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"One of my best friends regularly messages us and sends us dick pics. He has no idea and I don’t know how to tell him "

This is literally one of my top fantasy. Would love to have someone we know message us and tell us how much they love our pictures but they have no idea it's us.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
51 weeks ago

Cannock

It’s fine as long as they are respectful in their messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"I've often wondered if say and older guy or couple got a message and it turned out to be the son or daughter!

That’s exactly why it’s important to swap photos early "

Imagine if you swapped photos and it was your son or daughter, they would be wasting their eyes in holy water for the rest of their life

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Might work for both of you.

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
51 weeks ago

Leeds

I think I’d quite like it! And if the attractions there, why not find out if it’s a good fit

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
51 weeks ago

Tamworth

It would depend upon the person but in general it would be a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

My daughters on here. Yes I’ve seen her on here and we are a naturist family. It’s no big deal, we all have bodies!

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By *ungi657XXXMan
51 weeks ago

Nottingham

It's not happened to be and not sure if anyone would recognize me, but I'd be terrified and excited in equal measures I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I’d love it lol

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By *Ci LutherMan
51 weeks ago

Cumalot

Tbh I have met two seperate couples that I’ve know outside of fab was a made time exchanging messages only to find out we knew each other

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By *haz46Woman
51 weeks ago

Stockport

yes my hubby messaged me

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By *icouple1990Couple
51 weeks ago

Beccles

Several people have recognised us someone spread it round the kids school with the parents we're on here don't really care then said person joined was funny

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

We’ve had this too, weirdly quite like it


"One of my best friends regularly messages us and sends us dick pics. He has no idea and I don’t know how to tell him "

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

We had this, but his opening of "We have kids in the same class" is possibly one of the worst things he could say as an introduction.

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By *uriousBeastMan
51 weeks ago

London

You be yourself. You are both here, so no need to panic. If you are interested, make use of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"It's not happened to be and not sure if anyone would recognize me, but I'd be terrified and excited in equal measures I think!"

This.. also keep checking nearby matches

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By *xstevenxxMan
51 weeks ago

Ashbourne

I de keep private life private

And have my swinger lifestyle separate that way when you want to walk away it’s easier

Just block and delete

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By *eliciouslyKinky41Man
51 weeks ago

Beccles

This happened to me once I was messaging a women on here and it turned out to be my sons teacher!

.....parents evenings weren't awkward at all lol

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By *andyman4uanddiscreetMan
51 weeks ago

oxford

I anyone knows me please message be good to know i have like minded friends

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I love getting message from people who know me. Means they can’t judge if they’re on here too. It’s a bit of a turn on that they know the ‘real you’ x

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"So, when someone you know in real life messages you, what do you do? I suspect they don’t know it’s me else they wouldn’t have messaged (I think!!)"

Would be fine, it's how I got a gf. I messaged her.

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By *kcouple1973Couple
51 weeks ago

colchester

Twice on here now wife’s best friends friend messaged us and sent a face pic on second message (a big gulp moment) and one of the kids old nursery teachers ( her arse was way better than I had ever imagined) pure filth too

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By *ankman69Man
51 weeks ago

WILLENHALL

I have been spotted a couple of times and got a message from someone at work.

Does not bother me, in fact as i said to them, glad your on the site as well,

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By *ankman69Man
51 weeks ago

WILLENHALL

Not like i hide my face lol

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