FabSwingers.com forum: Couples first Solo play for husband, Southampton

By *layfulpair223 OP Couple
49 weeks ago

Southampton

Hello to all

We have been in the lifestyle for about 7 years now and always played together but over the last year we have been pushing the boundaries and started playing separately whilst we are in the same building.

From this my wife has recently told me that her latest fantasy is for me to go on a solo meet. The only rule is that she gets sent some videos for her to enjoy.

We are now finding out this is harder to do than first thought and has not happened. I have messaged single females and some couples that play separately but not managed to arrange anything yet.

So I have come to the forums for some help and advice for this situation. Also there may be someone from Southampton that will read this and would be happy to help with this fantasy of my wife's.

Thanks for and advice

Playfulpair

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By *irDandSubCouple
49 weeks ago

southampton

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By *irtyKittenCouple
49 weeks ago

Southampton

Playing separately unfortunately is very difficult, as most woman don't believe you have permission.

Best way to go about is to both meet them for a social that is if you can find someone is attracted to you and wants what you want.

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By *layfulpair223 OP Couple
49 weeks ago

Southampton

"Playing separately unfortunately is very difficult, as most woman don't believe you have permission.

Best way to go about is to both meet them for a social that is if you can find someone is attracted to you and wants what you want."

The people I have messaged I have said they can talk to my wife to make sure its all ok. With us having loads of verifications people should be able to see we are a real couple and that we both can see whats going on on fab. Thanks for you advice

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By *layfulpair223 OP Couple
49 weeks ago

Southampton

Is this a thumbs up because this is something you may be interested in. It doesn't say on your profile you play separately.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Playing separately unfortunately is very difficult, as most woman don't believe you have permission……."

More than that it’s a case of what does the single female get out of it? For you it’s playing away with your partners permission but for me if your partner isn’t there or isn’t involved the it’s just meeting another single male.

I’m not saying that you haven’t thought about your prospective play partner and what’s in it for them but on the other hand there’s no evidence that you have either. You may find better luck if you tailor you search and include any thoughts you have to allay those doubts. Good luck

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By *ottodot123Couple
49 weeks ago

Gillingham

I think it's just a case of without your partner. You just become another male in a sea of singles males. So you have to stand out probably as much or possibly even more than a single male would. The photos or videos aspect could be off putting to some too. Not that I am saying change your desire just offering an explanation as to why it's hard.

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By *oxy jWoman
49 weeks ago

taunton somerset

any male half of a couple will be seen as a single guy and for some worse than a single guy ...

i wont meet guys who are part of a swinging couple i stopped doing this years ago and i know its not all but there is a increase of hassle that i could write about in a whole new subject but wont but every couple i know will at the very least treat them as a normal single guy and that puts them in that group that find meets extremely hard theres no bonus for being part of a couple when it comes to guys playing alone...

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