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Are you a Dominant or a hedonist?

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By *ensual OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Sutton

Slightly tongue in cheek!

Your play bag is full of sex toys, and a few impact toys;

You primarily play with other people's partners;

the purpose of the play is to end in PIV or your orgasm;

facefucking and edging are a big part of your repertoire;

being buff is more important than being empathic;

consent is rarely discussed;

you don't interact with the kink community apart from at swinging kink events;

training is sex or genital based;

service is mainly sex based; and

if all future play would be sexless you would quit BDSM.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Do you mean is someone who does all that a dominant or a hedonist?

I'd just chuck them in the asshole category to be honest if so

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By *ensual OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Sutton


"Do you mean is someone who does all that a dominant or a hedonist?

I'd just chuck them in the asshole category to be honest if so "

Because this is a swinging site, "Dominance" and "submission" seems to be interpreted as a purely sexual and rather than sex being a part of BDSM, it is for them the purpose of BDSM. I think if people want to play that way, (and a lot of people do) that's there choice. In my view it may be kinky but it's not my view of BDSM.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Do you mean is someone who does all that a dominant or a hedonist?

I'd just chuck them in the asshole category to be honest if so

Because this is a swinging site, "Dominance" and "submission" seems to be interpreted as a purely sexual and rather than sex being a part of BDSM, it is for them the purpose of BDSM. I think if people want to play that way, (and a lot of people do) that's there choice. In my view it may be kinky but it's not my view of BDSM."

I don't deal with Ds in my personal life anyway.

Lots of people like sex and Ds together, lots of people prefer to keep them apart. The latter group are more likely to not mention on fab that they're into it because of the mature of the site. But there's still plenty of them

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By *ensual OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Sutton


"Do you mean is someone who does all that a dominant or a hedonist?

I'd just chuck them in the asshole category to be honest if so

Because this is a swinging site, "Dominance" and "submission" seems to be interpreted as a purely sexual and rather than sex being a part of BDSM, it is for them the purpose of BDSM. I think if people want to play that way, (and a lot of people do) that's there choice. In my view it may be kinky but it's not my view of BDSM.

I don't deal with Ds in my personal life anyway.

Lots of people like sex and Ds together, lots of people prefer to keep them apart. The latter group are more likely to not mention on fab that they're into it because of the mature of the site. But there's still plenty of t

hem "

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By *icentiousCouple
50 weeks ago

Up on them there hills


"Slightly tongue in cheek!

Your play bag is full of sex toys, and a few impact toys;

You primarily play with other people's partners;

the purpose of the play is to end in PIV or your orgasm;

facefucking and edging are a big part of your repertoire

being buff is more important than being empathic;

consent is rarely discussed;

you don't interact with the kink community apart from at swinging kink events;

training is sex or genital based;

service is mainly sex based; and

if all future play would be sexless you would quit BDSM.

"

Yes

However to me BDSM isn’t a single act it’s an holistic relationship crudely put you fuck their mind and the body follows.

In reality you engage a mutual understanding on many levels and the body follows.

Subspace and sub drop is not something you enter into lightly.

I suspect porn hasn’t helped the fet society well.

However wisdom doesn’t come from a single perspective

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By *inkycreamCouple
50 weeks ago

manchester

Every individual has a separate perspective of bdsm, sexual or otherwise, surely no experts just a bunch of folks having fun, to over think the whole thing is kinda dumb or egoistic but that’s only one opinion. Maybe even read it wrong it’s late.

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