FabSwingers.com forum: That's what friends are for?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you use the Friends option for ? I get the impression that some send invites just in the hope that it allows them access to more pics. Personally, I don't see the point in adding someone as a friend unless you plan on meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL I don't even add people if I just HOPE to meet them - to me, friends are people who I have already met, usually through the socials/parties or other mutual friends

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mine are a mixture. Not many, but quality. So thanks to you on my friendship group. They are there for various reasons.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

not sure bout the friend option . private pix is not the privilege being a friend always means . sending an invite and recieving one is a sign of trust and respect as well. i use the hotlist to see if my chat mates are around to talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't see the point in the friends option at all, if I add someone to my friends list what advantage does it give me? I just do see it as people adding you to see your pics, even if I am planning to meet someone I still don't see what I gain by adding them as a friend, I can mail them without that

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Accept friend invite around 2am ....... perv at pics in private gallery, then delete friendship.

So ive heard some people say ....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Most of my friends list have been met, but not all. I must admit I don't use it as a way to stay in touch as I usually have their phone number for that. But its noce to see who's online easily if I fancy a chat.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I only add people to friends if we have chatted for a while and they talk to me like I'm a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely add anyone as a 'friend' until I have actually met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our friends list are people that we have actually met and now class as friends. I guess the good thing about friends list is it saves you from searching for them if you want to send a quick message.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just don't see the point in the friends option at all, if I add someone to my friends list what advantage does it give me? I just do see it as people adding you to see your pics, even if I am planning to meet someone I still don't see what I gain by adding them as a friend, I can mail them without that"

I'm rapidly reaching the same conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my friends list is for regular contact and messaging, some i have met, some i wont as they are happy to chat and wont get involve with a married man. that is their choice and i respect them for their honesty in telling me and having me as a friend to chat with

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

I think friends is the wrong word for it. Friends are people in the "real" world, who you have nos for and can text and meet and stuff. Cyber "friends" on any site arent actual friend. So what's it matter lol

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