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By *rT30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Munster

Hi all,

While recently doing a bit of browsing on here and also elsewhere I have noticed a sexual theme that seems to be fairly constant.

It relates to women looking for Big Black Cock (bbc) now everyone has there own kinks. God knows I have my own!

However I am interested in this topic because I am wondering what attracts a woman to BBC compared to say a white cock of the same size?

For all I know it could be an agreement between a husband and wife but a lot of single women look for the same thing in my opinion.

Basically I am wondering does anyone have ideas why this is such an attractive option?

I just can't figure out why it's so popular lol!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

skin tones and the merging of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess in the same way some people put no blacks/asians on their profile?

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By *rT30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Munster


"i guess in the same way some people put no blacks/asians on their profile?"

Haven't seen that myself but its a valid point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just preferences, like any other.

:/

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By *rT30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Munster


"Just preferences, like any other.

:/"

Bloody popular preference lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't seen it, myself.

Lol.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

These threads usually come up, so will chime in before it descends into the usual.

A lot of the interest comes from trying something never experienced before. Some people (men, women and couples) have never had sexual experiences outside of their own race. The excitement comes from trying something new.

I'm sure someone will eventually give you the history of mandingo and western porn and the increase in the big black man stereotype/ myth. At the same time, there are many who just prefer having fun with black guys. As stated before, all comes down to personal preference.

I personally see lots of profiles that make no colour distinction, simply seeking VWE males. There are guys from all walks of life with small cocks as well as huge members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads usually come up, so will chime in before it descends into the usual.

A lot of the interest comes from trying something never experienced before. Some people (men, women and couples) have never had sexual experiences outside of their own race. The excitement comes from trying something new.

I'm sure someone will eventually give you the history of mandingo and western porn and the increase in the big black man stereotype/ myth. At the same time, there are many who just prefer having fun with black guys. As stated before, all comes down to personal preference.

I personally see lots of profiles that make no colour distinction, simply seeking VWE males. There are guys from all walks of life with small cocks as well as huge members."

very well written response

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Same as people want/don't want bbws.

Personally don't see the point in questioning people's preferences as to who they invite into their bodies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads usually come up, so will chime in before it descends into the usual.

A lot of the interest comes from trying something never experienced before. Some people (men, women and couples) have never had sexual experiences outside of their own race. The excitement comes from trying something new.

I'm sure someone will eventually give you the history of mandingo and western porn and the increase in the big black man stereotype/ myth. At the same time, there are many who just prefer having fun with black guys. As stated before, all comes down to personal preference.

I personally see lots of profiles that make no colour distinction, simply seeking VWE males. There are guys from all walks of life with small cocks as well as huge members."

There was another thread here recently, that I can't find, that did indeed go into all of that.

I think folks all come here looking for something. They have ideas of what they want and prefer certain things. It's what a sex life is about, isn't it? Being aroused by something personal to you, just you... And hopefully finding someone who fulfils that need and feels the same way back, for a healthy mutual encounter.

I am puzzled though. I haven't seen tonnes of women's or couples profiles looking just for BBC?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"These threads usually come up, so will chime in before it descends into the usual.

A lot of the interest comes from trying something never experienced before. Some people (men, women and couples) have never had sexual experiences outside of their own race. The excitement comes from trying something new.

I'm sure someone will eventually give you the history of mandingo and western porn and the increase in the big black man stereotype/ myth. At the same time, there are many who just prefer having fun with black guys. As stated before, all comes down to personal preference.

I personally see lots of profiles that make no colour distinction, simply seeking VWE males. There are guys from all walks of life with small cocks as well as huge members."

Very well put as usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as people want/don't want bbws.

Personally don't see the point in questioning people's preferences as to who they invite into their bodies! "

Totally.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"These threads usually come up, so will chime in before it descends into the usual.

A lot of the interest comes from trying something never experienced before. Some people (men, women and couples) have never had sexual experiences outside of their own race. The excitement comes from trying something new.

I'm sure someone will eventually give you the history of mandingo and western porn and the increase in the big black man stereotype/ myth. At the same time, there are many who just prefer having fun with black guys. As stated before, all comes down to personal preference.

I personally see lots of profiles that make no colour distinction, simply seeking VWE males. There are guys from all walks of life with small cocks as well as huge members.

There was another thread here recently, that I can't find, that did indeed go into all of that.

I think folks all come here looking for something. They have ideas of what they want and prefer certain things. It's what a sex life is about, isn't it? Being aroused by something personal to you, just you... And hopefully finding someone who fulfils that need and feels the same way back, for a healthy mutual encounter.

I am puzzled though. I haven't seen tonnes of women's or couples profiles looking just for BBC?

"

I don't know if there are that many. What you'll find is someone will see a couple/female they wish to contact only to see the profile says BBC only and get peeved then start threads because they're bitter at being excluded.*

*Disclaimer: general comment not meant to imply the op is bitter.

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By *rT30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Munster

Thanks for the replies it has opened my mind a bit as to people's personal preferences and desires.

As I did state at the start I am not trying to judge because I have no right to do that.

I just wanted to ask the question.

Also to make it perfectly clear. I am not peeved or pissed off or anything! Just so there is no confusion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big black cock? It's just a fantasy, like many many fantasies of people on here. It's just about what stimulates a person's brain at a certain time.

Black cocks are just as nice as white cocks/white cocks are just as nice as black cocks. Some people fantasize about 9"+, some people fantasize about other things.

It's all in their head, and I hope they find what the are looking for, and that it lives up to their expectations.

But it ain't something that the rest of us should worry about

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Im surprised black guys actually respond to people looking for BBC.

I wonder if women would respond to guys looking for big tits etc. Wouldnt the cry be 'we are more than just a pair of tits'?

Maybe its just me, but surely its a bit narrow minded just to want a BBC.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My profile doesnt make any race/colour distinction. If i like someone i like them and dont give their race/colour a second thought

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

it may be the same as guys who want bbw . they not interest in having one outside side the bedroom . how many women who put wanting bbc would want one as a full time boyfriend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised black guys actually respond to people looking for BBC.

I wonder if women would respond to guys looking for big tits etc. Wouldnt the cry be 'we are more than just a pair of tits'?

Maybe its just me, but surely its a bit narrow minded just to want a BBC.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised black guys actually respond to people looking for BBC.

I wonder if women would respond to guys looking for big tits etc. Wouldnt the cry be 'we are more than just a pair of tits'?

Maybe its just me, but surely its a bit narrow minded just to want a BBC.

"

I agree with you here. I'm not a BBC obviously so I can't say, but I would imagine if someone only wanted you for your colour and cock combo it might, just might, be a bit tiresome, if that was all they were bothered about.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"it may be the same as guys who want bbw . they not interest in having one outside side the bedroom . how many women who put wanting bbc would want one as a full time boyfriend ?"

Plenty I would guess.

Assuming that they were looking for a full-time boyfriend.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"it may be the same as guys who want bbw . they not interest in having one outside side the bedroom . how many women who put wanting bbc would want one as a full time boyfriend ?

Plenty I would guess.

Assuming that they were looking for a full-time boyfriend."

Should have added of course that most would want a man attached to the BBC. It gets a bit freaky to walk down the street with just a cock on your arm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use at as a screening tool tells you a lot about someone if they message you looking for that.

Tall dark and handsome is the way forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

While recently doing a bit of browsing on here and also elsewhere I have noticed a sexual theme that seems to be fairly constant.

It relates to women looking for Big Black Cock (bbc) now everyone has there own kinks. God knows I have my own!

However I am interested in this topic because I am wondering what attracts a woman to BBC compared to say a white cock of the same size?

For all I know it could be an agreement between a husband and wife but a lot of single women look for the same thing in my opinion.

Basically I am wondering does anyone have ideas why this is such an attractive option?

I just can't figure out why it's so popular lol!"

Im not attracted to black men any more than I am white men, if I fancy someone I fancy them, I don't go out looking for one colour over another and I deffo don't look for BBC's as I don't even like men with big cocks so it holds no attraction to me at all

Mr Average for me, regardless of colour

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Im surprised black guys actually respond to people looking for BBC.

I wonder if women would respond to guys looking for big tits etc. Wouldnt the cry be 'we are more than just a pair of tits'?

Maybe its just me, but surely its a bit narrow minded just to want a BBC.

"

I'll be honest, it is all about the approach.

Swingers get put into so many different categories these days, and when you have the disproportionate number of single men (like on this site), sometimes categories help a few stand out that little bit more.

Requests that i have responded to have been mostly classy. At least i've made a connection with those who sought me out, and feel a lot more than just a "big black cock".

Hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a BWC myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it may be the same as guys who want bbw . they not interest in having one outside side the bedroom . how many women who put wanting bbc would want one as a full time boyfriend ?

Plenty I would guess.

Assuming that they were looking for a full-time boyfriend.

Should have added of course that most would want a man attached to the BBC. It gets a bit freaky to walk down the street with just a cock on your arm... "

In theory that's what I was doing when I walked down the street with my ex

And it was nothing to do with cock size

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