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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all

Before it's said. No, it's not a 'bragging' post etc.

So, looking for some advice from anyone to be honest. I'm only 23, not actively looking for a partner, although the whole single for near 2 years now sort of sucks. It's down to my size (not going into how big or any of that stuff btw) Looking for serious replies as to how I can try and alleviate the pressure on them or me, advice, anything! I feel alot is pressure...

Appreciate it in advance.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pressure of what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well they usually know what they are getting into lol n the above happens. Then I worry about the above too lol

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Well they usually know what they are getting into lol n the above happens. Then I worry about the above too lol"

puzzled!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol...usually the meet on the premise of getting to play with a big cock. Then they see it.

Then they attempt to (add in fantasy here) doesn't work.

I'm used to that reaction, I worry that's what's gonna happen every time...see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused... are you on about the pressure to perform. And the effect it has on you manhood??

Confused and clarity required

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

What the hell are you on about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how big are you so we no what sort off advise we give u lol x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol...usually the meet on the premise of getting to play with a big cock. Then they see it.

Then they attempt to (add in fantasy here) doesn't work.

I'm used to that reaction, I worry that's what's gonna happen every time...see?"

Are you saying you've got a nice big cock but he doesn't always rise to perform????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh when I first read the thread I looked at the OP profile and there was 2 public pics and both his cock.. They have now gone :/

But the cock wasnt gigantic.. I'd say about 8" by the pics.. I've certainly had bigger..

That's why I was really confused if the pressure was from being single or being fat (big)?? Haha

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By *rnstar9inMan
over a year ago

central

how big are you??

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By *rnstar9inMan
over a year ago

central

bigger than mine brenda???? lol x

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Very odd guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok Pal, i'm a very odd guy for asking for advice.

Bluntly, women in my opinion meet me on the premise that they are going to play with a big nob..got that?

Right, after arranging a meet, they then come face to face with said nob...got that?

When they attempt to take it, they can't.

That better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To Brenda, it's bigger than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok Pal, i'm a very odd guy for asking for advice.

Bluntly, women in my opinion meet me on the premise that they are going to play with a big nob..got that?

Right, after arranging a meet, they then come face to face with said nob...got that?

When they attempt to take it, they can't.

That better?"

It didn't look that big tbh..

Maybe ur not doing enough foreplay? Maybe the woman is nervous and can't relax and her muscles are tense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok Pal, i'm a very odd guy for asking for advice.

Bluntly, women in my opinion meet me on the premise that they are going to play with a big nob..got that?

Right, after arranging a meet, they then come face to face with said nob...got that?

When they attempt to take it, they can't.

That better?"
maybe use some lube with them or try foreplay to make the female relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/03/13 06:55:31]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bigger than mine brenda???? lol x"

About the same I'd say..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok Pal, i'm a very odd guy for asking for advice.

Bluntly, women in my opinion meet me on the premise that they are going to play with a big nob..got that?

Right, after arranging a meet, they then come face to face with said nob...got that?

When they attempt to take it, they can't.

That better?"

If your opening post was made clearer in the 1st place then you would have had a better response from people...it was a tad confusing

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh right, sorry.

9.

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By *rnstar9inMan
over a year ago

central

messaged me saying 9inches, about same as myself, i dont have any problems as love lots of foreplay, need lube if doing anal tho and no rushing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great, now it feels like a mistake for asking...

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By *rnstar9inMan
over a year ago

central

thought so if about 9, more foreplays whats needed x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Take your time

Lube

Don't ram it in

Change positions

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great, now it feels like a mistake for asking..."

Your opening post was very confusing so it was difficult for people to give constructive advice.

I've played with some very big guys in terms of length and girth and I'm very small down below. My advice would be to take your time, lots of foreplay or lube if you need it and be aware that some positions are more uncomfortable than others. Ms

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've had an mmf with a guy who had a 10inch cock. Actually, I think he still has it. Anyway, lots of foreplay and attention and both of our cocks slipped in very nicely. Tightly, granted....but in. Make sure penetration is not the first thing you try. Sex is not just about cock size. There's another thread from a guy at the other end of the scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great, now it feels like a mistake for asking..."

I can understand why your initial post was a bit unclear in that you were trying not to come over as bragging,you have probably seen the roasting some people get on here and was trying to avoid the same thing happening to you ... It's never a mistake to ask a question just take from the responses what you find useful and ignore what you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would play with it willingly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Great, now it feels like a mistake for asking..."

Don't think that, if you're going to.post on here you need to accept that not everyone will respond quite how you want them to.

From what you say I reckon you need to take a bit more time with foreplay to make sure that your partner is really wet and relaxed, experiment with positions where she is in control of depth etc and always have a decent live handy. Remember that women give birth to 10 lb babies a nine inch cock should be no problem given the right prep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not got a clue what you are going on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're finding that ladies are having trouble accommodating a large penis, then you're doing it wrong.

As others have said, plenty of foreplay, lube, etc. Then suggest to the lady that SHE takes control of the speed of penetration.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

no dick too thick or schlong too long lol ! womens bodies are wonderfully adaptive if given the right attention,time and teasing . let their body dictate the pace and spend as long as your partner needs to be aroused and muscles relaxed enough to start taking you . continue taking it real slow when penertrating and lube is both your friends lol ! position is key too,a woman may like to be in control of how far and fast they take the cock .

big cock ,small cock, what ever situation in sex it all comes down to just being a considerate and giving lover .

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If you're finding that ladies are having trouble accommodating a large penis, then you're doing it wrong.

As others have said, plenty of foreplay, lube, etc. Then suggest to the lady that SHE takes control of the speed of penetration. "

The more relaxed and horny the woman, the easier it will be. And let the lady find the easier position as missionary or doggy aren't the best ways to accommodate the larger gent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're finding that ladies are having trouble accommodating a large penis, then you're doing it wrong.

"

This. From what those that saw your pictures have posted, and even if your claims are to be believed it isn't in the scale of ridiculously massive. The fact that all these women struggle as opposed to just some is sadly almost certainly down to you rather than down to your cock size.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Great, now it feels like a mistake for asking...

Don't think that, if you're going to.post on here you need to accept that not everyone will respond quite how you want them to.

From what you say I reckon you need to take a bit more time with foreplay to make sure that your partner is really wet and relaxed, experiment with positions where she is in control of depth etc and always have a decent live handy. Remember that women give birth to 10 lb babies a nine inch cock should be no problem given the right prep "

Just that. Saves me from having to type it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what did you want us to say??

i have taken a 12 inch cock(it was a bit uncomfortable) but ten inch was fine..

in what way cant they cant take it? you try to put it in..or will they not even attempt to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube em up n start off slow....i had an ex with 10" and some positions could be uncomfy but there was ways of getting round them and having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - Nine inches and you're having 'problems'? WTF are you doing with it? True there are percentage of women who will find that difficult due to their own internal anatomy, but most can take nine inches.

What, precisely, is the problem..?? Looking at the thread, you seem to be evading a little...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it a lil odd that he has changed his pics about 3 times since he started this thread that i know of..

odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what i've read of the ops post and his replies on here, it could be one of three things, yet another 'look at me' post, (albeit a slightly confusing one), maybe he keeps trying to put it in the wrong hole, or, (and this is a wild guess), maybe he's into dwarves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an ex with a 10" cock. He was 6'5". I am 5'3". That isn't an unusual scenario; for a girl who is petite to like a big guy.

A few of the responses here have already said this, but.... It really is all about preparation and technique. Having a big shlong alone isn't going to make you King Whazza Dick.

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