FabSwingers.com forum: Leaving a hotel

By *obness OP Man
over a year ago

york

I am sure this has been covered many times, but I am very very new to this. I have twice used travelodges for meets. Once in an afternoon and once at night. They are cheapish, no bar or anything so you arent going to meet anybody you know, and they are all over. The first one was easy to leave. Plastic key card and i just kept it and we walked out as though we were going somewhere. Second one was a proper key. 11 at night we were leaving. i was hoping the desk person wouldnt be there and i could just drop the key in the slot and disappear. But he was there. I just dropped the key and said "Sorry, got to go". I guess I could have said "Just had a shag, now going to our respective homes". I am sure he knew why we were leaving. What is the normal practice? What do others do when there is a key to be given back?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Believe me, hotels really don't care!

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Leave it on the counter and run, very red faced. Sure they must get a lot of us in for just a few hours. I hate it when they spot you straightaway (nervous, no luggage, address only ten mins away) and become overhelpful, giving you lists of tourist attractions etc. just to embarrass you even more lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Believe me, hotels really don't care!"

This! Once you accept this, it all becomes much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to feel like the op and now I don't care, just smile like the cat that got the cream and walk out with ur head held high and look as if u own the place babe. It's just sex and most of us do it, just not as much or as naughty as some of us on here! Lol

As long as u enjoy it stuff what others think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always best to be brazen, the staff don't care but it can be fun to say on the way out that you're sorry the desk is broken and the telly needs a wipe as the condom pinged off and slid down the screen. Ps travelodge are called shagalodge locally x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've always had an overnight bag with me anyway and stay the whole night. So, not a problem. I'm quite happy to have breakfast too - it's paid for, after all.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've never done a hotel meet . How do you book .or do you just turn up. I would rather pay cash . I am used to walking into strange offices as I'm a salesman. I always tell myself I own the place and stride around purposefully even if I only want to use the loo

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

hand the keys in and say thank you! lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Make sure you chuck the tv out of the window, trash the room, nick the towels & soap then do a runner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m an hotel manager and believe me no-one is really bothered why most people are there ,really do enjoy spotting swingers though ,just remember if your at the beaufort in chepstow say i you never know what perks my be on offer .

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Booking in and leaving a hotel afterwards is of no concern to the staff at any of the hotel chains operating in the UK.

I stopped at a hotel in York quite frequently last year I was carrying my laptop and a briefcase, when I checked in and I am there 2-5 days, no one ever wondered where my luggage was or why I was coming and going at odd hours they just ignored what was going on and made sure I got what I wanted.

At the end I just handed over my credit card and key signed the paperwork and left. Its a business arrangement and as long as the bill is paid they are happy to ignore what's going on.

You can ask to pay in advance and disappear when you want if you feel awkward and want to go unnoticed, they are only interested in your money not your personal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I,m an hotel manager and believe me no-one is really bothered why most people are there ,really do enjoy spotting swingers though ,just remember if your at the beaufort in chepstow say i you never know what perks my be on offer .

And what r the rates for a day room then? Perfect for meeting my friend from Bristol

and maybe u could join us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in a hotel now. Just had a great meet and club visit with a couple who booked the same hotel as me. Luckily checkout isn't til noon so might even get some morning fun too. And i really don't care what the staff think ive paid my money same as everyone else

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Well done you . Hope you get more fun tomorrow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im in a hotel now. Just had a great meet and club visit with a couple who booked the same hotel as me. Luckily checkout isn't til noon so might even get some morning fun too. And i really don't care what the staff think ive paid my money same as everyone else

exactly!!! its up to you how and what you use your room for!!

hope you had/have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the Etap in Southampton with a guy last month. We went in together and while he was paying etc, I did feel a bit nervous and strange but was ok with him. Was fine until the receptionist gave me a funny look and as we were walking to the lift asked if he saw the look she gave me, which he said he did. he was quite annoyed and so was I - made me feel bit like a prostitute. anyway I was hoping she would be there when I left later that evening I would have said something if she gave me another look,unfortunately she wasnt there. bloody cheek though, seeing how its used by a lot of swingers the guy told me. she prob isnt getting any herself

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By *obness OP Man
over a year ago

york

Booking tl is easy. Do it online. I would hate to have a meet turn up and find the hotel full. The system is used to people booking for others - like businesses. The only thing they ask is the bookers address. "I" am somebody else but the real me has booked on behalf of the other me, so i know my address. Yes, the tl i used is 15 mins from home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those who have little life experience due to their age would bet an eyelid.

That's my experience with Travelodge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a strange question!!!!!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Just walk up as normal, drop off the key/card, look whoever is on desk in the eye, smile and say "Thanks, bye now!" and walk out with your bag.

Easy as that - they usually are more concerned if you either haven't checked out on time for the room to be re-done, or if you haven't left the key/card at all!

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

When I go to Chams I always use the same travelodge,as do many others when it is a social so I am sure they already have an inkling as to why I am there. I have never let it bother me. Killing.g forward to my next stay for my ling birthday weekend,march 22 until 26th

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I just leave the card or key in the room with the clean me sign on the door. The cleaners then open the room and I have no need to check out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ... I had a meet in a hotel Friday in a travel lodge .. checked in at 7, had fun well 11 knock at the door asking us to be quiet ha ha very rude as mid flow too !.. so plays again then at 2 another knock at the door the lady was very nice and politely said can u keep the noise down I sheepishly said it must be the music ha ha, so we gets dressed as had to leave he left and I went to the counter the lady was there I gave the key in and she said "did you have fun??" then WINKED at me lmao!! I didn't know where to look so I just said yes thanks sorry about the noise and scuttled off to my car ha ha this was 4am lmao

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

i have used travel lodge near home just booked on line then left key in room and walked out

premier inn always asks for ladies name as well as mine

so now just book in alone then she joins me few mins later

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By *obness OP Man
over a year ago

york

"What a strange question!!!!!"
If i dont know the answer it cant be a strange question.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have paid for the room, I will leave the room in good condition and hold my head high as I drop off the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the OP is really shy about it all and lets be honest lots of us are ! Lol we would recommend a little research in the clubs section. Most clubs have arrangements with a local hotel so all above board. Or if you are lucky like us Tease2 is a hotel open all week even play rooms can be booked for meets either way have fun ..praps fab should do a section for swinger friendly hotels..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just leave the keycard in the room and walk out. With a big smile on my face and my toy bag in my hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you had much fun in your hotel with strangers ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ive been on tripadvisor.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used the ibis in Sheffield so many times now they've stopped asking me if I would like breakfast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just walk out with your head held high, or you could do what we did one time and all 3 of us hand the key back with a very dishevelled female just grinning at the confused lad at reception.

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By *illynmintCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

The Premier Inn next to Xtasia have an agreed room rate if you are going to the club. So are they bothered.

All the staff know what's what and love it lol

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

They may have a laugh after we've left but we'll never know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Premier Inn next to Xtasia have an agreed room rate if you are going to the club. So are they bothered.

All the staff know what's what and love it lol"

Was just going to mention that place. On a Friday abd Saturday ut can be full, and nearly every room is booked out to swingers.

Used to attend the monthly party organised by another site. Arrive to check in mid Saturday afternoon and the bar would be full of couples off the site. Quite often have fun before even ggetting ready for the club! Frequently be waiting for lift, or in it, and you'd bump into flushing couples nipping back to their room!

The after club parties could be incredible also. Then you'd chat about it over coffee in the morning.

Did the staff there care what you were up to? Did theyhell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always leave the key in the room. An older guy I used to meet taught me this was an easy way of saving embarassment, as I was shy at the time.

There is no reason not to leave with your head held high, however. You pay, you play, you leave.

The staff don't get to judge your lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have the thought of 'I wonder if they know' but I don't show that I feel a bit self conscious at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just keep my head down and concentrate on smuggling as many towels, coat hangers and remote batteries out as I can...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used the same hotel in my town so many times they gave me a loyalty card

Its just a bit akward if you bump into one of the staff when youre out and about...

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By *he VA VixensCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Tempsford

We are the single ladies who work at The Vanilla Alternative....We have hotel rooms above the club which are used for fun and frolics 7 days a week.

No need for embarrassment at all....life is far too short to feel that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check in alone, leave key card in room. Some allow U to prepay online, the non refundable rooms...

No probs. Never embarrassed, but then again its been ages since I booked..

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