FabSwingers.com forum: Sexless love

By *omeotango121 OP Man
over a year ago

sussex

Who’s in sexless relationships and looking for some attention?

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By *enuineguy42Man
over a year ago

worcester

Me, i was lay awake last night wondering how my marriage became so shit in every respect. My mrs doesnt evwn kiss me anymore, we may as well just be mates. I got more sex as a single guy.... hows that work

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

My husband is asexual, and we no longer have sex.

That doesn't stop me being insanely in love with him. We have a great marriage with lots of intimacy, we've made lots of fantastic memories together and I'm very happy with him.

We just don't have sex. He knows that I have a very high libido and I have needs. These are met by various people and he's ok with that as long as he doesn't have to see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband is asexual, and we no longer have sex.

That doesn't stop me being insanely in love with him. We have a great marriage with lots of intimacy, we've made lots of fantastic memories together and I'm very happy with him.

We just don't have sex. He knows that I have a very high libido and I have needs. These are met by various people and he's ok with that as long as he doesn't have to see it. "

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

My wife suffered a lot of nerve damage in her spine during childbirth and as such our marriage is virtually sexless and she is for all intents and purposes asexual.

We love each other and have a close intimate relationship. And she is my best friend. But at the end of the day a person has certain physical needs. She tried servicing me out of love and loyalty in the beginning, but you have no idea how awful it is to fuck or get sucked by someone who isn't recieving any pleasure, has no desire and isn't turned on at all, and who is just going through the motions to try please you.

She isn't into sharing and doesn't want to know anything about what I do. She said to me years ago, that if I ever do meet with anyone than she doesn't want to find out or know anything about it..... Rightly or wrongly, I chose to take that as a kind of understanding and operate on a don't ask, don't tell basis

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

how did you approach your partner on this? My wife always said she could live without having sex but we still done it a couple times a month until recently she's been ill and doesn't want it full stop. I have a very high sex drive. I worship the ground she walks on and don't want to leave her but I have needs

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Same here really. I actually love my wife more than I've ever loved anyone she went through the "change" very early and has zero interest in the intimate side of our marriage now. She said she is happy for me to meet away from our home but I feel a Terrible guilt even though she's said she's fine with it aslong as she doesn't know about it .

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Same here really. I actually love my wife more than I've ever loved anyone she went through the "change" very early and has zero interest in the intimate side of our marriage now. She said she is happy for me to meet away from our home but I feel a Terrible guilt even though she's said she's fine with it aslong as she doesn't know about it .

Huge respect to your wife for allowing that! It’s exactly what I need but not sure how to approach the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Me and my wife hide the fact we have sex from our teenage kids by not having sex.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
42 weeks ago

St Austell

It's why I'm on here, and elsewhere...

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By *arry monk40Man
42 weeks ago

Telford

In same boat lads

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"It's why I'm on here, and elsewhere..."

Is your wife happy for you to play with others? If so how did you approach it?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

chichester

I would just leave if I was in a sexless relationship ,, wouldn't waste my precious life force time with someone that isn't fulfilling your needs . life is too short for wasting it .

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By *utdoors584Man
42 weeks ago

Houghton-le-Spring

"Who’s in sexless relationships and looking for some attention? "

Not exactly sexless. At the moment. I set up my profile here when my good lady started a fab thing with a bi lad at work. In return I have a free leash to do as I please just as long as nothing goes on in our home. Her health took a knock some months ago and her drive diminished. She also ended things with her fwb.. We are only intimate about twice a month. She has said our arrangement stands and I am free to play..However I feel a little apprehensive doing so and when I have tried to get some intersest on here I seem to be hitting a brick wall.. Seems to be little interst in married men playing solo with their wife's blessings. I'm sure as a couple we would.get plenty action as would my good lady I'd she was playing solo. I have had an offer of sorts from a female work mate whonis in the lifestyle but not sure weather to pursue this.

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