FabSwingers.com forum: Looking... Not finding!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see posts by couples complaining of not finding other couples or single fems, posts by guys not getting meets, people not finding friends with benefits or fuck buddies, ladies being stood up.

And I can't help wondering why! Is there an easy solution that they're all missing? I suppose clubs are one answer but what else?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Personally I don't think there's a solution easy or otherwise. I reckon it's simply a matter of unrealistic expectations and imbalance of numbers.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sadly I don't think there's a solution.

If there's no attraction, people aren't going to meet.

I'm half a couple and the 4 way attraction is a big thing and so hard to find.

Also so many couples want a Bi fem for ffm, so the ladies can afford to be choosy and pick the ones they want.Others are left behind.

With regards to single males there's so many of them, so again women can be choosy, plus a lot of men don't put the effort in with their profile or pics and get frustrated when nobody meets or replies.

I do agree with Mrs nice too, some join up with unrealistic expectations and are then disappointed.

Even at clubs, I've been with my partner and we've just played together as we haven't found a couple we wanted to play with. On another occasion we did and had a great time.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

For me, it mainly comes down to attraction. I can't just fuck anyone.

It's gets harder when it's ffm or ffmm get involved.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We tend not to look for other couples now as even trying to get a conversation started with 4 people is difficult - then the attraction - do they have pics of them both - are the both wanting to meet. Too many variables.

Finding and chatting to singles is much easier.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Attraction especially 3/4 way can be extremely difficult & I ain't meeting someone I've no attraction to.

It's harder on here given the anonymous side of the site, I can't tell by a pair of tits or a body if I'm attracted to someone, yes someone can have a nice body but attraction for me comes with a face and personality.

Mrs

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