FabSwingers.com forum: Bad experiences

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the worst experience you’ve had on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really had any tbh,it’s constant entertainment and a fair bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake profiles

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By *dswingersCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

men who non stop cock bomb …. even when asked not to got to love the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being spiked at a private party.

wanting to leave due to being seriously catfished, and not being allowed.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Catfished twice, one hid that she had a baby in another room also a brother stormed in luckily after we'd got dressed.

Some dick at an organised social felt it ok to slip his had up my skirt for a grope

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really had any tbh,it’s constant entertainment and a fair bit of fun

That’s good to hear

I wish I could say the same!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"being spiked at a private party.

wanting to leave due to being seriously catfished, and not being allowed.

Wow there’s some sickos out there! I bet you’re extra careful now when going to a party!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Catfished twice, one hid that she had a baby in another room also a brother stormed in luckily after we'd got dressed.

Some dick at an organised social felt it ok to slip his had up my skirt for a grope

Mrs "

The things people do is crazy , people just need to be honest on here otherwise it won’t work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"men who non stop cock bomb …. even when asked not to got to love the block button

Hahahah the block button is the best thing on here!!!

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

A guy who turned up late, had obviously needed some Dutch courage before arriving and then couldn’t achieve an erection.

Fab is a learning experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a cornishman land me in hospital after beating me. He said he was an experienced dom but he was just in to degradation and violence. I had 2 broken ribs, multiple huge bruises. Another tried to get me sacked after he followed me after a meet. Found out where i worked and then lived. Made a lot of trouble with my family, my children and my gran who he showed photos he had taken of us in rope play. She is 90 years old and horrified. This is why i dont meet in my home county.

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By *ecker30Man
over a year ago

Northwich

Being stood up 4 seperate times after hotel booked and paid for! Then no further contact or explanation, why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite mine, I think I may have contributed though

A gay friend of mine came to a munch at a pub with me for moral support.

It was a two room pub, one had the munch and the other had the bar in with a vanilla couple. The couple weren't aware.

So I went out for a constitutional and the husband was there, we got talking. He asked me what the munch was. I gave two answers for mischief...it was a swingers social and it was a meeting of train model enthusiasts.

The fella mulled this over and disappeared back in the bar to his wife. I went back in and forgot.

Me and friend went to play pool in the bar, the couple were still there. The bloke challenged my friend to a game of pool.

They were playing and it will haunt me to my dying day...the very tipsy female half of the couple staring at my mate, sliding off her chair and walking right up to him whilst fingering her blouse, asking in a husky voice if he liked stroking his model trains.

The look of horror on his face as he was having a woman flirt with him thinking he got off on model trains was enough to send me outside crying ??

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By *limeyoMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

The usual stood up.

More recently meeting someone and it just didn’t feel right although I can’t put my finger on it I think she was playing out hubby fantasy not her own

Once met a lady no mention of medical situation. Were just starting to have fun, and it turns out she had had a Mastectomy the week before and was under chemo.

Why can’t people just be honest ?

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

On a different site

3-sum. Guy got post-orgasm guilt and rage and did not like the image of me inside his girlfriend, and pulled me off her by my arm and screamed at me to leave. Was quite shaken by that.

Woman who rung her husband (who she didn’t tell me about) on her mobile, while riding me, to let him know she was having sex with someone else… I scarpered quick!

With a twink guy and his dad let himself in through the front door of the house and yelled a “hello! Just passing” - I hid in the wardrobe, lol.

Oh, and the blasted oral infections I picked up and needed shots for. I was a bit naïve about oral infections, having always played safe for actual sex. I blame poor sex ed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged a meet with a verified couple after lengthy chat ,got there on time ,went in and was met by the husband and a 90 odd year old disgusting geriatric man stinking of fags , ffs. Couldn't get out fast enough.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

We've had a couple of guys attempt to "stealth" the wife, but I caught them carefully trying to slip the condom off, and they were sent packing. Mentioning the words "Statutory r*p*" has them out the door like their arses are on fire.

Another was a weird hippie/surfer-type guy with a curved cock, and as he was changing positions, he announced that the condom had split. A new one was put on, and he got back to business. Changing positions, the condom had broken again. I was already on alert, but now really suspicious. These things were Durex Extra-Safe, and a pretty bloody decent.

More sex, and at the point where the wife was changing position, I saw him very discretely tear the teat of the condom with his nail.

"These things keep ripping because of the shape of my cock," he moaned. "Can't we just forego the condom?"

He barely got his clothes on before he made it out the door for the next ferry. Funnily enough, all of those mentioned above deleted their profiles not long after, with one excelling themselves by removing all traces about 10 minutes later!

The incidents listed above are exactly why I operate as both voyeur and bodyguard when we have people over.

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"We've had a couple of guys attempt to "stealth" the wife, but I caught them carefully trying to slip the condom off, and they were sent packing. Mentioning the words "Statutory r*p*" has them out the door like their arses are on fire.

More sex, and at the point where the wife was changing position, I saw him very discretely tear the teat of the condom with his nail.

"These things keep ripping because of the shape of my cock," he moaned. "Can't we just forego the condom?"

The incidents listed above are exactly why I operate as both voyeur and bodyguard when we have people over."

Well handled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the worst experience you’ve had on here! "

When married we drove 25 miles to meet a couple in a pub that was closed for refurbishing. Obvs they didn't answer phones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf am I reading

I’m completely shocked at some of things that have happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a cornishman land me in hospital after beating me. He said he was an experienced dom but he was just in to degradation and violence. I had 2 broken ribs, multiple huge bruises. Another tried to get me sacked after he followed me after a meet. Found out where i worked and then lived. Made a lot of trouble with my family, my children and my gran who he showed photos he had taken of us in rope play. She is 90 years old and horrified. This is why i dont meet in my home county. "

Read 'em all so far, and yours is the worst...I'm actually surprised you're still on fab

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By *erry2020888Man
over a year ago

stockport

been catfished got to hers and she was not same woman as her pictures

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

stalker ... involved police had to claim for damage to house and car too ..he lost everythin his dream job his wife and yeat hes still on here with at least 4 different accounts ...

over the years ive heard some real horror stories one of my good friends beaten in bristol on a social again plolice involved and dhe was in hospital....

ive seen women been forced on in clubs ive seen guys take of their condoms ive seen d*unk women groping guys without consent and by far the worse group is guys on fab who are in swinging relationships beinf very entitled and pushy and not wanting there partners to know nothing ...that why we never look for couples via fab so lots can go wrong but when you break it down the serious stuff is rare the rest in very avoidable its why im pretty blunt in my ways with swinging cause otherwise you'll just get walked all over....

generally a safe scene as long as you stay tought n thick skinned

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By *jc65Man
over a year ago

gillingham

getting ignored all time lol

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

oh and you learn after the stalker we had cameras put up covering every angle of the house and drive / gardens so if anyone want to be a idiot then well have it on recordings from outside you cant see the cameras very clever

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By *allBBWWoman
over a year ago

North Ayrshire

God, some of these are horrific. I'm fairly new, and so far have had only good experiences, but this makes me wary.

To be fair, it's probably only real saints who'll survive my excessive 'talking stage' anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged to meet a person outside for a public meet. Arranged to get blown and a play around, time and car coloured and makes swapped so I knew when they were arriving. Got out my car, stood waiting once they pulled in front of me. They opened the door then closed it and promptly drove off. No answer on messages at all.

Am I seriously that scary looking?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Wow some of these are horrendous, then people wonder why people are cautious.

Mine looks nothing, just being stood up for a social, when he'd being messaging all day and saying he was on his way even 15 mins before hand.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Sammi likes to be blindfolded… and we play safe.

A guy pulled her blindfold down after being told not to and attempted to fuck her without a condom. The guy was booted out unceremoniously.

Some people are just complete fucking assholes and he blew his chance to fuck her because of his arrogant and selfish ways.

I reported his account but no idea if anything occurred from that. Can’t remember his username now but hopefully no one else has allowed him a meet. Complete dickhead.

Other than that, the guys we have met have been great. There’s been many couples and singles we have met and played with in this lifestyle who have been fantastic and good people.

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By *limeyoMan
47 weeks ago

Oswestry

Most recently men pretending to be women. Why ?

I’m not going to turn gay/bi when I see you ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

we arranged a dogging meet with 1 guy, got set up with several guys turning up, 1 trying to block us in and being followed.

luckily only happened once by 1 idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Meeting a guy who looked 0 like his profile pic whatsoever with my ex and him crying like a baby cos she wouldn't fuck him.

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By *eartShapedBoxxxWoman
47 weeks ago

This is horrific. Did you take a while to meet anyone again after that?

Had someone I met on here post my photo, name, home address, and place of work on his profile after we broke up.

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By *xmcdTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Wrexham

Arranged to meet a dresser. He said door would be unlocked knock and come in which I did, I found him on his back on the sofa after just having had a shower wearing a dirty vest top and mini skirt and on the floor was a towel which he’d used to dry himself after his shower I presumed only there was a massive skid mark on it and I looked at him and he had one eye in Leicester and the other in Chester.

I just said “nah” and turned and left

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By *ean counterMan
47 weeks ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

The "lady" I met many many years ago in Milton Keynes! Her house was absolutely filthy, she made me a cup of tea and it had yellow labrador hairs in it, the dog hairs were everywhere and I don't think she'd washed her hair in weeks! I made the excuse that work was calling and got out of there very very quickly !!

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By *ositiveVibesJBxMan
47 weeks ago

Birmingham/Wigan

Absolutely horrified reading some of these

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By *anted by NightMan
47 weeks ago

Shangri-La

"What’s the worst experience you’ve had on here! "

Arranged to meet a couple with my lady friend. When we turned up at their place there was no female. When we tried to leave he got aggressive and tried to touch my friend. We told him to back off and left. Unfortunately there are some very sick people here.

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By *needabrewMan
47 weeks ago

the hills

Not me but this is a real cunts trick.I met someone and they were telling me they gave their addy out to someone. Then that person gave it out to 4 or 5 other people telling them that it was his address.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Being stood up. Once again

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By *hroatitboyMan
47 weeks ago

GLA

From another site unsure what with but the bloke put something in my drink started to feel something wasn’t right almost instantly. Legged it straight away and got a cab and was almost out for it by the time I got home. But I got a great sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I've had a few bad experiences online.... & A few with the one 'man' by meeting in person....

But it could be a book tbf.... there's so much detail & incidents....

A snippet....On our 2nd meet in a very quiet bar ....He tried to forcefully drag me into the loos....That's nothing to the other stuff that happened on subsequent meets....(silly me for continuing to see him....I ended up being stalked by him in the end).

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By *ickinNottsMan
47 weeks ago

Hucknall

Met a guy a few years ago for outside fun. After he had finished he started demanding money, saying he would find me and tell everybody about me. Bearing in mind that I was dressed in short skirt, stockings and very high heels. It frightened me at first and I felt physically threatened, until I realised that I was really a six foot bloke in high heels, towering over him. Picked him up and took him to his car and told him to f*** off.

I have a great deal of empathy with women put in similar situations nowadays. Always try to treat everyone with respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I met a couple - they both looked very attractive and we’d spoke for a while.

When we met - they turned out to be junkies. I had to end the meet within 2 minutes of saying hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"From another site unsure what with but the bloke put something in my drink started to feel something wasn’t right almost instantly. Legged it straight away and got a cab and was almost out for it by the time I got home. But I got a great sleep! "

Terrifying. I hope you reported it

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Met a guy a few years ago for outside fun. After he had finished he started demanding money, saying he would find me and tell everybody about me. Bearing in mind that I was dressed in short skirt, stockings and very high heels. It frightened me at first and I felt physically threatened, until I realised that I was really a six foot bloke in high heels, towering over him. Picked him up and took him to his car and told him to f*** off.

I have a great deal of empathy with women put in similar situations nowadays. Always try to treat everyone with respect. "

Good on ya....lucky you had the strength to pick him up & dump him in his car while telling him to f*** off. The physically weaker are more vulnerable be it by sex....& aren't able to stand their ground as strongly.... Unfortunately

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By *ealitybitesMan
47 weeks ago

Belfast

My very first meet through fab 8 years ago.

Meet her twice socially before we agreed to meet at an hotel a few weeks later.

Shortly after getting undressed she punched me full on in the face and drove her knee into my balls.

It was a completely out of the blue wtaf moment.

I asked what she was doing and why and her response was that her kink was too have me retaliate.

I told her she had picked the wrong guy and asked why she had never mentioned this before because if I had known I wouldn't have agreed to meet her again.

She said she knew that but hoped I might react in the heat of the moment and that was a big turn on for her.

I got dressed and left her in the room I had paid for and left the site a few days later thinking everyone here was a complete loon.

I was much bigger than her and didn't feel physically threatened but just thinking of the possible consequences left me in a cold sweat.

I had no idea what she was capable of even though I hadn't laid a finger on her.

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