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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there two types of swingers? Those who do it for the physical aspect, and those who do it for the mental stimulation, or is it both? I guess I mean, is it a way of getting a shag, or is the pleasure in the eroticism of swapping and sharing?

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

alot of people do it for different reasons, ive meet the People who do it to shag, the people who do it for mental stimulation as youve put it, as meet people who do it for the social aspect

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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I think i am interested for the mental stimulation more than the physical gratification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it because I like fucking other women and Kate likes fucking other blokes.

Can't say it any clearer than that

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I do it because I like fucking other women and Kate likes fucking other blokes.

Can't say it any clearer than that "
same for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do it because I like fucking other women and Kate likes fucking other blokes.

Can't say it any clearer than that same for us"

That's pretty clear! For us though, it's the erotic stimulation, I guess it's that pushing of boundaries, doing things that turn us on mentally as well as phsically.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I do it because I like fucking other women and Kate likes fucking other blokes.

Can't say it any clearer than that "

Now don't best about the bush, say what you really mean

That's why we do it too but we do like the mental eroticism of building up to a meet with talking and teasing etc.

Everyone has their own agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing because of the pleasure in the eroticism of swapping and sharing. If it was just for shagging and nothing else I can get that on any Friday or Saturday night on the town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swing because of the pleasure in the eroticism of swapping and sharing. If it was just for shagging and nothing else I can get that on any Friday or Saturday night on the town."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it because I LOVE sex and yes I could get it from my local club every Saturday and Friday night but then I would end up with a rep and my children have to go to school in this town lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No Judgement here, or saying one is preferable to the other but, am I right in thinking then that there are those who are here to shag other people, and those who are here to enhance an existing relationship with the mental stimulation of seeing their partners pleasured,

or am I thinking too much and should have a beer instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do it because its horny and fun.

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By *risboy69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I do it as you meet like minded people, with no ego hangs up etc

Make good friends and have nice sexy fun

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I did it (as part of a couple) simply because some of the sensations I wished to feel could not be felt by just having sex with one person.

We had a few mmf encounters and it was amazing.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

Sleeping and having sex with people you don't love can be an empty experience.

But as empty experience's go it's one of the best.

Jenny

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i wish i married a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it because I like fucking other women and Kate likes fucking other blokes.

Can't say it any clearer than that "

Same for a two xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do it because its FUN.

Plain and simple and when it stops being fun we stop swinging.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

and sex is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest, if I ever got into a relationship again I would stop this so I guess for me its just about the sex, that does not mean I don't want to like and get along with who im playing with but im not here to make friends and go for nights out I have real friends for that, im here to fill the gap im missing being a single woman and that's physical

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

For me its about a variety if things.

Good sex and I mean damn goid sex where the person I am with does their utmost to encourage my body to a hard orgasm.

The excitement if a meet new or old.

The connection occasionally found when leadt expected.

The flush if thinking what is going to happen. The planning what to wear. The build up and then after.

The snuggling up in bed or climbing into bed alone to get some needed sleep.

Its really such a wonderful sexual thing to watch, be watched and to join in.

Fruit x

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs


"For me its about a variety if things.

Good sex and I mean damn goid sex where the person I am with does their utmost to encourage my body to a hard orgasm.

The excitement if a meet new or old.

The connection occasionally found when leadt expected.

The flush if thinking what is going to happen. The planning what to wear. The build up and then after.

The snuggling up in bed or climbing into bed alone to get some needed sleep.

Its really such a wonderful sexual thing to watch, be watched and to join in.

Fruit x"

Brilliant words, Fruit.

Jane x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

For me it is sex - pure and simple. And I don't want to do the bar hopping any more. This is simpler and more direct.

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By *estingBoundariesCouple
over a year ago

Nr Louth

We do it because i love seeing my baby get fucked hard, and she loves watching me give a woman what I give her.

Humans are designed to fuck around!

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

The ultimate in people watching

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Swinging or (rarely) partner swapping is a non-monogamous behaviour, in which singles or partners engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity." All credits for this definition to Mr Wikipedia.

All dating sites attract people wanting sex, most are looking for one single partner at the time; Everyone has their reasons for making the leap into the unknown world of 'swinging''; one of them is probably because it is so difficult nowadays to find single/multiple partners in the usual social places; what some would call the Real world. Regardless of what profiles say, in my opinion, everyone on dating sites wants sex, some want a relationship, few will settle for friendship and only the rare ones will want all three.

I joined to savour all that the swinging world has to offer, wanting to experience loosing control, pushing my boundaries, discovering pleasures unknown, giving myself over to the there and now, exploring and discovering with others what MORE means to me. I have no expectations only a desire to be taken on a sensual, enticing and exciting journey of fulfilment of mine and others' fantasies.

Swinging is a preference for me, not a lifestyle and it is very Real.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brilliant answer. I am finding that fabswingers caters for two types. Those who love sex and fab is helping to facilitate that with like minded people (which I think is great) but the other type are those who seek something different, an enhancement to an existing sexual relationship. Maybe it's multiple partners, maybe it's that jealous turn on of seeing your other half being pleasured, maybe, as in our case it's the ability to play out one partners bisexual urges. I guess fab caters for both and everyone can find what they want!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Brilliant answer. I am finding that fabswingers caters for two types. Those who love sex and fab is helping to facilitate that with like minded people (which I think is great) but the other type are those who seek something different, an enhancement to an existing sexual relationship. Maybe it's multiple partners, maybe it's that jealous turn on of seeing your other half being pleasured, maybe, as in our case it's the ability to play out one partners bisexual urges. I guess fab caters for both and everyone can find what they want! "

Well said and true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the excitement of someone new for me, and the enjoying the different way people are when the heats on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can get boring being with the same men, also you are always wondering what it would be like with other different types of people.

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