FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies, do you get embarrassed

By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

if you cum quickly during a meet? Like within a couple of minutes of him going down on you? I've been in this situation recently and didn't understand why she would be embarrassed about it. I mean it's not like with guys, where the fun has to stop once he's cum, we could literally just carry on (and we did).

Maybe she was worried I'd get a big head about it? My head's pretty big already

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd be bloody ecstatic if it happened at all on a meet. However once is my limit for hours so the guy might be a bit fed up when I put my fluffy slippers on and made us all a nice cup of tea

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs "

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Thought it us men who're failures if we cum quick! Yes it does still happen if I get too much excitement!

LOL

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging"

I find that bizarre

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging"

Same, great sex comes connection with knowing your body & that's rare on a 1st meet.

Mrs

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By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago

Back in Malice

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging

I find that bizarre

I don’t. Mrs has never cum while swinging, for the reasons stated above. She’s got very close on occasion. Some women need more than just a physical attraction to be able to cum; after all, it’s a very intimate thing. Hands up, I get a bit embarrassed coming with a stranger.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging

I find that bizarre

Why? It's very common.

Mrs

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I'd be bloody ecstatic if it happened at all on a meet. However once is my limit for hours so the guy might be a bit fed up when I put my fluffy slippers on and made us all a nice cup of tea

I don't know, that sounds pretty nice too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging

I find that bizarre

Do you? Why?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'd be bloody ecstatic if it happened at all on a meet. However once is my limit for hours so the guy might be a bit fed up when I put my fluffy slippers on and made us all a nice cup of tea

I don't know, that sounds pretty nice too

my fluffy slippers are a sight to behold.

All joking aside, if I was comfortable enough with a guy to sit in bed drinking tea it's possible we'd be on the right track for the earth moving moment .

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging

Same, great sex comes connection with knowing your body & that's rare on a 1st meet.

Mrs "

100% only my current partner and one other guy has been able to ever make me cum, so 9/10 I'm either getting myself off during sex with someone else or I don't cum at all.

Can't speak for the other women, but I don't always HAVE to cum to enjoy the experience.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A bit yes.

Not during oral but if I'm being touched or fucked, yes it's happened before. And then I come quite quickly after. And again, and again.

I think part of it is because I get really rather wet each time I come and I worry about it being less enjoyable for the other person. I've never squirted but sometimes I gush.

It's also because the more I cum, the more I want to so I end up being insatiable and like... 4-100 very quickly.

The more I like someone, the faster, more intense and more frequent the orgasms for me. I don't do one night stands, NSA etc. I like friendship with the sex. A part of me can sometimes think, oh fuck, are they going to see me the same way?

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I'd be bloody ecstatic if it happened at all on a meet. However once is my limit for hours so the guy might be a bit fed up when I put my fluffy slippers on and made us all a nice cup of tea

I don't know, that sounds pretty nice too

my fluffy slippers are a sight to behold.

All joking aside, if I was comfortable enough with a guy to sit in bed drinking tea it's possible we'd be on the right track for the earth moving moment .

I get that, a connection definitely helps. I think I've been lucky with a few meets where we've built up the desire for a while before meeting, and by the time we've met we've been like horned up wildebeest, which makes orgasm easier to achieve.

But everyone's different, it definitely hasn't been the case every time. I find the fun is in finding what works

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I do get a little embarrassed, more because at the moment of climaxing I'm completely out of control.

My body reacts differently each time, sometimes tensing hard, sometimes shaking, sometimes I can't control the noises I make and I always worry that I've got an ugly 'cum face' haha.

Suppose it's a feeling of being out of control and vulnerability as at that moment he completely has all the power and control over me - if that makes sense?

S xxx

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Why would they

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

I can cum from just looking at a guy while we still having coffee before fun. Never embarrassed by it, just love it

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I just have to walk in the room and the ladies scream with pleasure

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

Sometimes it’s too intense to continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you I can Cum as quickly as 1 minute

But I will go all night if given the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum very quickly and easily and not once have I felt embarrassed about it, and more to the point, no one I've met have ever made me feel that it's anything to feel embarrassed about.

I don't get why it would be an issue for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it’s too intense to continue

Yes sensitive post climax nether regions come into play........don’t they?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

No, I’m known to cum super quick.

Some men only have to look in my direction for an orgasm.

The guys I club regular with always joke about me being a great ego fuck

No complaints from me, the more fun the better ha

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

I must be very lucky coz I can orgasm quickly - and do. I orgasm from having my nipples sucked, recieving oral, being fingered, from penetration and when a guy goes deep as he cums - I don’t get embarrassed other than being worried abt making too much noise so I try to keep it down or bite the pillow lol My partner takes it away if he sees me doing this coz he tells me men love to see and hear women orgasm ! I am also blessed in that I multi orgasm once I have my first which is why I love having multiple men lol

Em x

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

Sam never seems to last long. With her regular guy, but still likes more.

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By *obertjMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

What a fascinating topic! Ihave met women who get really excited yet can’t cum. I don’t think it spoils their enjoyment. Most women I met who have cum seem ready to cum again pretty soon after. Maybe they are just good actresses? Who knows? Does it matter? I like a woman who can keep me on the edge, and I will try to reciprocate

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

To those who want to know why i think it is bizarre. You go on meets with people you find attractive yes ? So, to get to that point, you have to have built up a good friendship/trust/attraction to the extent you want to meet. So you have attraction and chemistry. You should not have a problem unless what I have stated above was not met. When I have gone on meets we have built up such a chemistry beforehand its not long after we have met i have her cumming. When meeting either a single woman or meeting with couples I have always been able to make her cum before penetration.

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By *obertjMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I once met a woman off here in Bath. We enjoyed penetration and we both came. Very nice. Whilst recovering, I licked her, which she clearly enjoyed, but she told me she couldn’t/wouldn’t cum again. I thought I knew better and worked on her for nearly 2 hours…but she was right. Didn’t spoil the meet, though we never met again. As my Grandma use to say “it takes all sorts to make a world”. By the way she was really very dirty…. was a fab meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely wouldn't be embarrassed, I'd be amazed as I never have on a meet

Miss S x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"To those who want to know why i think it is bizarre. You go on meets with people you find attractive yes ? So, to get to that point, you have to have built up a good friendship/trust/attraction to the extent you want to meet. So you have attraction and chemistry. You should not have a problem unless what I have stated above was not met. When I have gone on meets we have built up such a chemistry beforehand its not long after we have met i have her cumming. When meeting either a single woman or meeting with couples I have always been able to make her cum before penetration. "

That's great for you and the women you meet.

However I know myself and my body and I know that it won't happen unless I know someone very well. If a guy puts pressure on me in the firm of expectation or insistence then it's even less likely.

It doesn't mean I don't find a guy attractive or don't feel a connection (as far as it's possible) and it's no reflection on the man. It's literally how I am and I am not bizarre or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's great for you and the women you meet.

However I know myself and my body and I know that it won't happen unless I know someone very well. If a guy puts pressure on me in the firm of expectation or insistence then it's even less likely.

It doesn't mean I don't find a guy attractive or don't feel a connection (as far as it's possible) and it's no reflection on the man. It's literally how I am and I am not bizarre or wrong. "

I cannot imagine you in fluffy slippers making tea!

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging

I find that bizarre

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why would you find it bizarre... it's extremely common. I can have a nice experience... but a full on orgasm is rare on a swing meet.. yet Mr can have me orgasming very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it would be a miracle, I don't cum on meets, it's very very rare unless the Mr makes me.

Mrs

I'm the same I need to know someone very well and they me, that rarely happens in swinging

I find that bizarre

why would you find it bizarre... it's extremely common. I can have a nice experience... but a full on orgasm is rare on a swing meet.. yet Mr can have me orgasming very quickly. "

100% this, I'm the exact same.

Not bizarre at all.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once met a woman off here in Bath. We enjoyed penetration and we both came. Very nice. Whilst recovering, I licked her, which she clearly enjoyed, but she told me she couldn’t/wouldn’t cum again. I thought I knew better and worked on her for nearly 2 hours…but she was right. Didn’t spoil the meet, though we never met again. As my Grandma use to say “it takes all sorts to make a world”. By the way she was really very dirty…. was a fab meet"

Robert

You once met a woman from Bath

Who was up for a jolly good laugh

One orgasm was enough

Despite for two hours you Strutted your stuff

Perhaps you were on the wrong path

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Robert

You once met a woman from Bath

Who was up for a jolly good laugh

One orgasm was enough

Despite for two hours you Strutted your stuff

Perhaps you were on the wrong path "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off topic but I like to share that… after dinner, wine and chatting for several hours on a ONS I and the lady both came at the same time first time and it only took us both about 10-15 minutes. It was 02:30 so we both rolled over and went night night

Nobody embarrassed. All good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly off topic but I like to share that… after dinner, wine and chatting for several hours on a ONS I and the lady both came at the same time first time and it only took us both about 10-15 minutes. It was 02:30 so we both rolled over and went night night

Nobody embarrassed. All good

Xavier

You met a lady for a one night stand

An assignation that was not planned

Both arrived at pleasure gate at the same time

Which can only be described as sublime

Then off to sleep in never never land

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Wait, so your Grandma was a "really dirty fab meet"? Good for her!

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Thanks for all the replies by the way, it's great to see such a diverse range of responses! To clarify in my original post, I don't think she was genuinely embarrassed, but more surprised, and was jokingly "embarrassed" about how I'd got one over on her by making her cum first so quickly. Almost like letting herself go revealed a level of sexual attraction she didn't want me to see yet.

And that's a lot of overanalysis for one day

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everything is fine, we're not robots

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We were with one couple where the wife came during oral.

She was totally embarrassed over the fact that it should not have happened as only her husband should be able to make her cum.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That's great for you and the women you meet.

However I know myself and my body and I know that it won't happen unless I know someone very well. If a guy puts pressure on me in the firm of expectation or insistence then it's even less likely.

It doesn't mean I don't find a guy attractive or don't feel a connection (as far as it's possible) and it's no reflection on the man. It's literally how I am and I am not bizarre or wrong.

I cannot imagine you in fluffy slippers making tea!"

. I don't own fluffy slippers but I have been known to make tea

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By *obertjMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A lusty fellow called Bob

Set himself an impossible job

Thought ‘twould be nice

To make her cum twice

But he failed and it withered his nob

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"We were with one couple where the wife came during oral.

She was totally embarrassed over the fact that it should not have happened as only her husband should be able to make her cum.

Haha ooops

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I very rarely cum during meets and I get kinda put off if the guy is really trying to make me.

I'd rather focus on all the fun and if it happens it happens but boasting about how quickly you're going to make me cum would put me off I'm afraid.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I very rarely cum during meets and I get kinda put off if the guy is really trying to make me.

I'd rather focus on all the fun and if it happens it happens but boasting about how quickly you're going to make me cum would put me off I'm afraid."

I agree it would be cringey if a potential partner boasted about how fast they'd make you cum, before you'd even met

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"if you cum quickly during a meet? Like within a couple of minutes of him going down on you? I've been in this situation recently and didn't understand why she would be embarrassed about it. I mean it's not like with guys, where the fun has to stop once he's cum, we could literally just carry on (and we did).

Maybe she was worried I'd get a big head about it? My head's pretty big already

I wouldn't be embarrassed at all- I'd wait till he'd given me another 2 or 3, then arrange another meet (after he's finished, of course)...

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Maybe she was worried I'd get a big head about it? My head's pretty big already

I wouldn't be embarrassed at all- I'd wait till he'd given me another 2 or 3, then arrange another meet (after he's finished, of course)..."

This is the correct answer!

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Maybe she was worried I'd get a big head about it? My head's pretty big already

I wouldn't be embarrassed at all- I'd wait till he'd given me another 2 or 3, then arrange another meet (after he's finished, of course)...

This is the correct answer!

Good good!! I'm usually terrible at quizes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very hard not to cum sometimes in the first few minutes. Never been embarrassed by it, might have to take a moment to recover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerd facts incoming. Clinical studies involving brain scans when a woman is masturbating show that a large amount of women still don’t know what an orgasm is. They can see this from the brain activity against the true orgasms. I mean it doesn’t mean what they are feeling doesn’t feel good but a bit O is a big O and women are missing out.

A couple of minutes of head with a stranger who hasn’t made the wrong move just at the right time. Sounds like she’s either faking it cause she wants you to feel good ( yep, that why we fake) or she doesn’t know what an orgasm is.

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Penclawdd

Some women never, ever cum, it’s not unusual.

Some cum from touch only and never from penetration, regardless of how well connected they are.

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

You obviously don't know ow women very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I've orgasmed too quickly is with women. I'm lucky if I get anywhere near an orgasm with a man unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should be lucky. Though if the build up has been for a while before hand it can happen but no I’m not embarrassed about it, at least I can keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit yes.

Not during oral but if I'm being touched or fucked, yes it's happened before. And then I come quite quickly after. And again, and again.

I think part of it is because I get really rather wet each time I come and I worry about it being less enjoyable for the other person. I've never squirted but sometimes I gush.

It's also because the more I cum, the more I want to so I end up being insatiable and like... 4-100 very quickly.

That sound amazing to me ,getting wetter would be a massive turn on for me and an ego boost

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I tend to start cummin very early and I really don’t care, I know most guys want that to happen So I’m not going to hold back.

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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I do but I can cum in seconds at times I mean it's good fun just a bit like down girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit yes.

Not during oral but if I'm being touched or fucked, yes it's happened before. And then I come quite quickly after. And again, and again.

I think part of it is because I get really rather wet each time I come and I worry about it being less enjoyable for the other person. I've never squirted but sometimes I gush.

It's also because the more I cum, the more I want to so I end up being insatiable and like... 4-100 very quickly.

I personally love it when a girl comes quick! The more the better! It shouldn’t be about how long you can hold it or performance times, should be more about being in that absolute zone of orgasms

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I suspect this is not true.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I never knew where the responses in this thread were going to go. It started with the expected barrage of "no one could make me cum that quickly" posts but eventually led to the flood (hee hee) of "I will climax if I look at a guy I like". And of course the odd few not understanding what's going on

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

"I very rarely cum during meets and I get kinda put off if the guy is really trying to make me.

I'd rather focus on all the fun and if it happens it happens but boasting about how quickly you're going to make me cum would put me off I'm afraid."
this for me too. In fact I once purposely didn't even though the gent had skills and I could have done so numerous times....

Cali

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By *eeper ThanMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"I very rarely cum during meets and I get kinda put off if the guy is really trying to make me.

I'd rather focus on all the fun and if it happens it happens but boasting about how quickly you're going to make me cum would put me off I'm afraid. this for me too. In fact I once purposely didn't even though the gent had skills and I could have done so numerous times....

Cali "

You can hold them back even if you get that close to ?

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