FabSwingers.com forum: Going to Clubs?

By *pskirtlover OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I often thought about going to a club, mostly due to the fact I enjoy watching my wife display herself, however the way some peaple have described it, it sounds that a load of men just follow you about like sheep. If you decide just to watch (on 1st occasion) you will piss peaple off.

Have any couples got any comments or know the best club for newbies in north west/cheshire area. Would like to try most things once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to our first club in feb and it was a couples evening so we didnt have single guys following everyone about ( shame as i would have loved that

) but they were all happy to allow others to watch or join in as the mood took them,

We would say take a deep breath and jump in its either right for you or it isnt but you won't know until you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The club I go to jaydees has sofas along the side of the open play areas.

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

I agree with Giggles and Paul.

For a first visit to a club look for a couples only evening.

Several in the NW do them I think?

Or pick a club that has a restriction on the number of single males in the club.

For my personally (only because these are the clubs I have been too and like an awful lot, but cannot comment on others as have not been)

But No.3 Club in Chorley have a good control over number of single men (they have to book in advance)

And they also run a Social evening on a Thursday if you just want to try visiting a club for the first time (in a lets check out a club in a no pressure environment)

And Cupids in Swinton runs a Couples & Single Women only night every Wednesday.

Been to both quite a few times (sadly not as much as I would like recently)

But I would recommend either of them.

And picking up slightly on your original comment.

Yes, sometimes men will follow around a little bit(Like to see what / if anything is going on) but if you go into a private room on your own and lock it, they can't disturb you.

And you only have to say no and they should stop if you think they are invading your privacy.

If you went to a club, you go to do what you feel comfortable with. So if your first couple of visits are to watch, check out the club and only play on your own then that is fine.

Couples might come and chat to you but again, explain you are new and just checking out the club first.

A large part of a club visit is also the social aspect.

So relaxed and chatting.

Never any pressure to do anything you don't want to do.

Give it a go, you will have fun.

And a nice opportunity to see L walk around in sexy underwear around the club.

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"I often thought about going to a club, mostly due to the fact I enjoy watching my wife display herself, however the way some peaple have described it, it sounds that a load of men just follow you about like sheep. If you decide just to watch (on 1st occasion) you will piss peaple off.

Have any couples got any comments or know the best club for newbies in north west/cheshire area. Would like to try most things once.

Hi Upskirt, Having read your profile and your OP, although you ask for comments from couples, forgive me for throwing in an answer as a single man, although I have been to clubs before accompanied by ladies too).

The reply that gave a fairly comprehensive view of Cupids & No 3 was good and is worth taking into account.

All the clubs in the North West are essentially towel clubs which means that both you and your lady undress either on arrival or shortly afterwards. For us guys it's down to towels or sometimes shorts, while most ladies opt for lingerie.

I noticed from your profile that you like your wife to "flash" and while that to a level could be incorporated into any of the NW clubs, I'll throw in a couple of alternatives to consider.

They are Xtasia in West Brom, Atlantis Evolution in Stoke and also Adventures in Stoke. All are clothed clubs, I think Xtasia is the biggest, so gents are dressed smart casual and ladies as sexy as they dare. There's lots of seating, for example Xtasia has loads of settees, bar stools and a cinema plus plenty of play rooms where you and your lady could easily flash away to your hearts content and take it further if you so wished.

Both Xtasia and Atlantis are couples only on Saturdays as is Infusions in Blackpool.

To cover your points about watching people, well many many people go to clubs to watch and to be watched, and so long as you don't watch from a distance of 6" I've never seen anyone get annoyed about being watched in a public place. As for the single guys following like sheep, it partly depends on the club you pick and while it does exist, it really isn't at the level thats often suggested in the forums. Every single male knows the rules, No means No and if you report them to management if someone was causing you a problem, then it would be dealt with.

Even at clubs like Adam & Eves, where there is often a dispropotionate amount of single guys to couples/ladies you will find that while the guys (and couples0 move from room to room to see if anything is going on, few will actually follow a specific couple in a sheep type way. However picking a club where lots of couples go, dramatically reduces that effect so a club like Xtasia which on a Friday night can easily have 50 plus couples in, you will notice the single guys less than a club which maybe only has 5 couples in.

Hope this helps

Mark

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Just as another person has stated my partner and i go to Jaydees and there is NEVER any pressure to play and a lot go purely to watch and sometimes only play with their own parter.

If you want to know any more about the club look under the listings and you can see a lot of positive feedback there or send me a PM.

Hope this helps.

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By *pskirtlover OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks for the replies and messages.

I have a better idea and a club in mind to check out. Its as peaple say we need to decide to just give it a go. Its that with teenagers at home, we dont get time to play there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".... If you decide just to watch (on 1st occasion) you will piss peaple off...."

You won't piss people off, if you decide just to watch. If people are playing in a public room, they expect to be watched.

The only 'etiquette' is:-

~ watch from at least 6 feet away

~ watch silently (people who chat, shout encouragement or laugh should be ejected!)

~ respect the dress code of the club - it's more comfortable to be watched by people who themselves are scantily-clad

If people are disappointed that you're only watching, take that as a compliment! It just means that you're an attractive couple who they would have liked to play with. But everyone should respect your wish to take things at the pace that is right for YOU

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

i fancy going to a club once im bk in work full time ,dont no what one to start with thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think u should go to a club as soon as u can its great fun being watched and watchin others , most peeps dont play with others first time at club so u wont piss many peeps off and u dont have to play atall if u dont want too, single guys can be a problem sometimes just be firm and tell them no thanks, we go too eureakas just south of london they have a cples only playroom so no single guys just cples.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

" As for the single guys following like sheep, it partly depends on the club you pick and while it does exist, it really isn't at the level thats often suggested in the forums. Every single male knows the rules, No means No and if you report them to management if someone was causing you a problem, then it would be dealt with.

Hmmmmm whilst not wanting to put the couple asking the question off visiting clubs, I beg to differ with this poster.

One of our favourite 'games' is how many guys will follow you round a club hoping to get a piece of the action.

And while the majority of single guys do follow the rules, only last week we were sat in the sauna of a club and a guy just reached out and groped my boob. Women in a club should be treated with respect and not as a piece of meat. My partner reported the guy in question and he was told to finish his drink and leave the club. Which he did whilst staring at me. This did make me feel uncomfortable and the staff in the club were fantastic and moved him away.

Yes I know that most guys are respectful and there are always exceptions to the rules. But I am sorry you always get the F**ktards who spoil things. The ones who feel they are the expceptions to the rules. Ladies, I do say don't be put off, just learn to toughen up and get your guy to develop the 100 yard stare that says, keep away

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