FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel bar pick up hints

By *randMrsB2703 OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Hull/Cottingham

Just wondering if anyone as ideas/hints for a couple to pick up a female/male or another couple in a hotel bar to then play with...this is a new idea for us and would love any kind of advice or clues etc

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By *burns7Man
51 weeks ago

walsall

9 times out of ten the female has to start the flirting with the male or female who’s alone

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51 weeks ago

"Just wondering if anyone as ideas/hints for a couple to pick up a female/male or another couple in a hotel bar to then play with...this is a new idea for us and would love any kind of advice or clues etc "
ask the Mrs to go an put her smalls In there pocket an say keep them safe till your finished

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By *randMrsB2703 OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Hull/Cottingham

9 times out of ten the female has to start the flirting with the male or female who’s alone "

That was the thoughts we had, usually the case

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By *randMrsB2703 OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Hull/Cottingham

"ask the Mrs to go an put her smalls In there pocket an say keep them safe till your finished "

Naughty idea, like it

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By *evergiveupMan
51 weeks ago

derbyshire

If you have Mrs wearing an overt anklet and flashing stocking tops it lets people know you are " looking "

If they show any signs of interest then that is your intro

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By *uckwife69Woman
51 weeks ago

swansea

Better these days to arrange a meet at a venue rather than ‘take chances’ with a cold pick up.

Have done both and by far better to plan ahead...

Just my thoughts.... take care and enjoy....??

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By *ananas57Couple
51 weeks ago

lake ariel

A woman sitting at a bar alone, isn’t alone long. Just my experiences. So if you want to bring your partner in after the intro that might work for you

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By *rpeggioCouple
51 weeks ago

Baughurst

9 times out of ten the female has to start the flirting with the male or female who’s alone "

Agreed. If the male starts with overt flirting to a woman, the woman will assume he's a disrespectful ass flirting openly in front of his missus. If flirting with a man, he will assume the other man is taking the piss or it's a practical joke the couple are playing at his expense.

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By *UMMYCOUPLE321Couple
21 weeks ago

BALLYMENA/ BELFAST

Its definitely a very naughty and exciting idea if it works out for the couple. We find it hot.

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By *orizontal AnticsCouple
21 weeks ago

up north

This is a fantasy of ours!

Me, the Mrs chatting and flirting with someone at a bar but I've never had the confidence or know how 😅 not years ago when I was single and not even now when we've been swinging years!

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By *stonfun78Man
21 weeks ago

stockport

Same, fantasy I want to realise.. come say hi 😉🤣

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By *ark n kimCouple
21 weeks ago

Durham

"This is a fantasy of ours!

Me, the Mrs chatting and flirting with someone at a bar but I've never had the confidence or know how 😅 not years ago when I was single and not even now when we've been swinging years!"

Same a big fantasy for us too.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Aurelia is brilliant at this. Someone usually starts chatting to her and if I think something is on I squeeze her hand under the table. If she squeezes back once it's on but twice it's a no.

She'll then develop a conversation and then will say something like 'we can continue this up in our room if you like?'

Happened twice on our last cruise.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
21 weeks ago

moved to cuckold land

Would love to have someone chat up & flirt my wife in a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Any hints for a single woman in a bar being able to spot when she’s being hit on ? I’m notoriously bad at it and just think people are being nice/wanting to chat 🤣

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By *odrigoRomeroMan
21 weeks ago

Twixt Purgatory & Palookaville

OP I sometimes get up your way and if you ever see me in a bar either of you just bowl straight on over and ask me straight! My pint would be necked in a flash. I'm probably not your type but I'd be surprised if the vast majority of blokes would be offended by an offer like that.

That said I can imagine what a buzz it would be sitting back and watching the trouble and strife work her flirty magic on a guy!!

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
21 weeks ago

Leicester

"Any hints for a single woman in a bar being able to spot when she’s being hit on ? I’m notoriously bad at it and just think people are being nice/wanting to chat 🤣"

Better to think every time you are being chatted to as a single woman in a bar you are being hit upon. You'll be correct 99% of the time.

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By *eyeYCouple
21 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Definitely a fantasy of mine to pick up/corrupt a 'vanilla' only it'd have to be D who does the flirting.. He's much better than me and honestly he has the nickname "Sexy Breeze block" for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"Any hints for a single woman in a bar being able to spot when she’s being hit on ? I’m notoriously bad at it and just think people are being nice/wanting to chat 🤣

Better to think every time you are being chatted to as a single woman in a bar you are being hit upon. You'll be correct 99% of the time."

I really need to try and train my brain to think that way 😉

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By *inkerbell_and_dadbodCouple
21 weeks ago

London

Come and compliment Kinkerbell on her anklet, and we'll know you saw the signs

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By *yeSureMan
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

Would love this for me n wife

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