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By *endalshaggers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lake District

So you've seen a profile you like, had a browse of the pictures, decide to message.

What's a good icebreaker to break the ice?

Personally we find the same "hey how are you" mantra boring and probably copied and pasted numerous times.

Do you find something in the profile to chat about? Try a corny one liner? Make a joke?

We love getting messages from people who don't use the same old same old and try something new. We're much more likely to have a conversation with someone who thinks outside the box

(If this is you BTW and you like what you see, pop us a message....just don't use "hey How are you!")

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um, usually whatever prompted me to contact them

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By *uncouple153Couple
over a year ago

Abergavenny

The status if they have one. If not something written in the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them if you were me what message woukd you write

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford

My preference is to say something that has been triggered by something in their profile. Of course this assumes that they've written an interesting profile that has something to hook onto.

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Do not send the same information I can read on your profile.

Comment on what you like.

Be yourself.

Be positive.

Comment on status or something we've written for sure, lets us know you've actually read the profile.

Take a chance.

And finally... Do not send a dick pic on first mail. I get way too many badly taken dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My VERY FIRST chat-up line was..

“So tell me, do you like bread?”

I still use it today!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I maybe send a couple of opening messages a month. As someone said above, the thing that prompted me to message them would be the topic.

Could be a status update, a forum post, photo or bio etc. If I'm messaging it's because something caught my eye and I'll lead with that.

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