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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Is this something that is common on Fab?

I work very long hours and we are taking about my wife meeting guys on her own. Most likely when I’m busy at work.

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

Very common I would say. I have met several married or partnered women with the consent of their other half.

Whether it's down to it being a turn on for the male half knowing his partner is seeing someone else (perhaps sending a pic or video), or a polyamorous relationship, everyone has their reasons.

Good luck

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Mrs likes the attention from other guys, makes us both feel good when other guys want her. She goes out has fun and sends videos to hubby.

The best part is the sex when we're back together, the reclaim is super hot .

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Very common I would say. I have met several married or partnered women with the consent of their other half.

Whether it's down to it being a turn on for the male half knowing his partner is seeing someone else (perhaps sending a pic or video), or a polyamorous relationship, everyone has their reasons.

Good luck "

Thanks. Not sure it’s a turn on for me exactly however my wife is hugely excited by the idea.

We are still talking over the way it will work

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By *obin2020Man
over a year ago

diss

I see a couple he waits downstairs or listens to us from the stairs

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By *mandamark99Couple
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

I meet men or ladies. He waits downstairs or watches after a while.

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Mrs likes the attention from other guys, makes us both feel good when other guys want her. She goes out has fun and sends videos to hubby.

The best part is the sex when we're back together, the reclaim is super hot ."

The video/pic thing is something we have already agreed.

Do you meet or vet the guys first?

Where do they fuck? Back at your home? A hotel? Back of the car? Bus shelter? lol

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I meet men or ladies. He waits downstairs or watches after a while. "

That sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has even been on holiday with a guy and tried to hide it...

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Mine has even been on holiday with a guy and tried to hide it..."

Yea? I would be really pissed at that.

We feel that it’s the lies and deception that cause the most hurt.

That’s why we both are talking over exactly what will be involved.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

I was reluctant at first but it is amazing how quickly many of us guys can learn to accept the situation and enjoy the intense intimacy of the partnership

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"Mrs likes the attention from other guys, makes us both feel good when other guys want her. She goes out has fun and sends videos to hubby.

The best part is the sex when we're back together, the reclaim is super hot .

The video/pic thing is something we have already agreed.

Do you meet or vet the guys first?

Where do they fuck? Back at your home? A hotel? Back of the car? Bus shelter? lol"

Video thing is important part of it for both of us as that's his involvement.

Hubby always aware of who I'm with and where, would always have a social only first with any guy, then fuck meets depending on situation. Either guy accommodate or pays for the hotel, or they come to our house and hubby goes out for couple of hours but those are only daytime when kids are in school.

Won't play in car or outside.

For extra security if I go out we have location sharing on our phone so he knows where I am.

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Mrs likes the attention from other guys, makes us both feel good when other guys want her. She goes out has fun and sends videos to hubby.

The best part is the sex when we're back together, the reclaim is super hot .

The video/pic thing is something we have already agreed.

Do you meet or vet the guys first?

Where do they fuck? Back at your home? A hotel? Back of the car? Bus shelter? lol

Video thing is important part of it for both of us as that's his involvement.

Hubby always aware of who I'm with and where, would always have a social only first with any guy, then fuck meets depending on situation. Either guy accommodate or pays for the hotel, or they come to our house and hubby goes out for couple of hours but those are only daytime when kids are in school.

Won't play in car or outside.

For extra security if I go out we have location sharing on our phone so he knows where I am. "

The location sharing on the phone is a good idea.

Our preference is to find a regular reliable guy ( or two). That would allow for trust and intimacy to develop.

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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch


"Is this something that is common on Fab?

I work very long hours and we are taking about my wife meeting guys on her own. Most likely when I’m busy at work."

I have now got 4 guys I meet at hotels obviously not all at once and not every day I interchange from week to week mr is happy with this and enjoys the pictures sent to him and my pillow talk when we go to bed

Must comment on mrs she has a fantastic body and would make anyone happy should you decide to go ahead one word of advice make sure mr is comfortable with it as he may get worried

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

its not as common as people think with lots of women (the majority)not meeting men alone and for good reason (think incel movement or these anti women blogs from well known bloggers where women do as say) ...safety is paramount ... ive been on this scene now forever and i will never meet a guy alone unless that person has built up trust overtime with not only me but hubs too ...

i have met alone with say hubs sat in the car outside but even that can have its risk ..

there are a ever growing amount of men who just dont know how to be social or lose thier temper very quick when it comes to women this is getting worse as the years roll by its such a problem men thinking they are owed sex no matter what so now in 2024 its even more important that we stay safe ...

but to also be fair ive heard of couples trapping men and women and lets not forget the women who forget its swinging too safety safety safety

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is this something that is common on Fab?

I work very long hours and we are taking about my wife meeting guys on her own. Most likely when I’m busy at work.

I have now got 4 guys I meet at hotels obviously not all at once and not every day I interchange from week to week mr is happy with this and enjoys the pictures sent to him and my pillow talk when we go to bed

Must comment on mrs she has a fantastic body and would make anyone happy should you decide to go ahead one word of advice make sure mr is comfortable with it as he may get worried "

Thanks for the advice. Appreciated.

Obviously the idea is that she can make arrangements when I’m busy. It makes sense to have a couple of regulars in case one is busy.

Yes. Mr is still thinking through all the possible repercussions here. She is so keen that she has made the offer to me that she will do “any scenario “ I wish.

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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch


"Is this something that is common on Fab?

I work very long hours and we are taking about my wife meeting guys on her own. Most likely when I’m busy at work.

I have now got 4 guys I meet at hotels obviously not all at once and not every day I interchange from week to week mr is happy with this and enjoys the pictures sent to him and my pillow talk when we go to bed

Must comment on mrs she has a fantastic body and would make anyone happy should you decide to go ahead one word of advice make sure mr is comfortable with it as he may get worried

Thanks for the advice. Appreciated.

Obviously the idea is that she can make arrangements when I’m busy. It makes sense to have a couple of regulars in case one is busy.

Yes. Mr is still thinking through all the possible repercussions here. She is so keen that she has made the offer to me that she will do “any scenario “ I wish. "

If you do decide to go ahead please keep us updated love to share stories with you

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is this something that is common on Fab?

I work very long hours and we are taking about my wife meeting guys on her own. Most likely when I’m busy at work.

I have now got 4 guys I meet at hotels obviously not all at once and not every day I interchange from week to week mr is happy with this and enjoys the pictures sent to him and my pillow talk when we go to bed

Must comment on mrs she has a fantastic body and would make anyone happy should you decide to go ahead one word of advice make sure mr is comfortable with it as he may get worried

Thanks for the advice. Appreciated.

Obviously the idea is that she can make arrangements when I’m busy. It makes sense to have a couple of regulars in case one is busy.

Yes. Mr is still thinking through all the possible repercussions here. She is so keen that she has made the offer to me that she will do “any scenario “ I wish.

If you do decide to go ahead please keep us updated love to share stories with you "

I think it’s a strong probability. Once we have talked it through exhaustively. Maybe my concern is really about losing control here. Anyway if I can obtain reassurance I’m sure I will be comfortable to give her the go ahead.

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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch


"Is this something that is common on Fab?

I work very long hours and we are taking about my wife meeting guys on her own. Most likely when I’m busy at work.

I have now got 4 guys I meet at hotels obviously not all at once and not every day I interchange from week to week mr is happy with this and enjoys the pictures sent to him and my pillow talk when we go to bed

Must comment on mrs she has a fantastic body and would make anyone happy should you decide to go ahead one word of advice make sure mr is comfortable with it as he may get worried

Thanks for the advice. Appreciated.

Obviously the idea is that she can make arrangements when I’m busy. It makes sense to have a couple of regulars in case one is busy.

Yes. Mr is still thinking through all the possible repercussions here. She is so keen that she has made the offer to me that she will do “any scenario “ I wish.

If you do decide to go ahead please keep us updated love to share stories with you

I think it’s a strong probability. Once we have talked it through exhaustively. Maybe my concern is really about losing control here. Anyway if I can obtain reassurance I’m sure I will be comfortable to give her the go ahead."

I always make sure mr is happy before I go and meet hopefully hear from you soon take care

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