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By *ensualtouch15 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

One word answers , at very start of contact , are inexcusable ? Busy is the usual reason given however the fact of the matter is just lack of interest or lazy arrogance expecting the silly male to keep making the conversation ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

oh you are good

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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oh you are good"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


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oh you are good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

oh you are good

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K

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"One word answers , at very start of contact , are inexcusable ? Busy is the usual reason given however the fact of the matter is just lack of interest or lazy arrogance expecting the silly male to keep making the conversation ?"

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would see no reason to carry on further conversation if that was the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One word answers , at very start of contact , are inexcusable ? Busy is the usual reason given however the fact of the matter is just lack of interest or lazy arrogance expecting the silly male to keep making the conversation ?"

I'd say lack of interest and too polite to say no thanks...or maybe waiting to be impressed and disappointed?

Perhaps they're not particularly articulate-we've sometimes found that...

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By *ensualtouch15 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Hmm

you know you write a few lines send a pic , and receive hi ,maybe nice pic

so few more lines bit about oneself a question or two

and you receive yes no a smiley

so you send another few lines replying to what i don't know ,digging from profile maybe and you receive ok babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm

you know you write a few lines send a pic , and receive hi ,maybe nice pic

so few more lines bit about oneself a question or two

and you receive yes no a smiley

so you send another few lines replying to what i don't know ,digging from profile maybe and you receive ok babe

"

I know at that point I would just give up on them, if they couldn't be bothered why should I

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Hmm

you know you write a few lines send a pic , and receive hi ,maybe nice pic

so few more lines bit about oneself a question or two

and you receive yes no a smiley

so you send another few lines replying to what i don't know ,digging from profile maybe and you receive ok babe

I know at that point I would just give up on them, if they couldn't be bothered why should I "

Lucky I did not give up on him...4 x 1 word messages. He WAS busy..

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Depending on whether the first message caught my eye (and the person had read my profile) would make the difference as to my response. After a few messages, occasionally a one word response can be fine as I often like to have the last word in a conversatioon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not happy with the reply. Just move on.. It ain't rocket science lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why waste your time then?

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By *ot30scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Oxford, London

'Inexcusable'?! Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to entertain them when I signed up now I don't and answers that come days after the moments passed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really though, who gives a shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its relative.

if a 10 out of 10 stunner (male or female) came back with "lets fuck" would anyone moan? i thiiiiink not. lol. stay happy everyone. its a game. x

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

I sometimes send short replies, it might be that I don't fancy the person and am too polite to say. It could also be ambivalence or the busy/interested ratio is not in their favour.

I would say that if you don't get a very encouraging response do your best to describe yourself, if that doesn't work then move on.

Also, I can't bear text speak

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Meh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm

you know you write a few lines send a pic , and receive hi ,maybe nice pic

so few more lines bit about oneself a question or two

and you receive yes no a smiley

so you send another few lines replying to what i don't know ,digging from profile maybe and you receive ok babe "

You're right, it is very frustrating when you're trying to get a conversation and they make such a half hearted effort, especially if it was because they had a well written profile that encouraged you to message them in the first place.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Hmm

you know you write a few lines send a pic , and receive hi ,maybe nice pic

so few more lines bit about oneself a question or two

and you receive yes no a smiley

so you send another few lines replying to what i don't know ,digging from profile maybe and you receive ok babe

You're right, it is very frustrating when you're trying to get a conversation and they make such a half hearted effort, especially if it was because they had a well written profile that encouraged you to message them in the first place."

Cut and Paste is the easiest and oldest trick! I look for profiles that are personal, well written and original. I am fussy and selective but I have not been disappointed so far. Game on? Want a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, we're not only unhappy with our messages being deleted without a reply, we're also unhappy with them being ANSWERED???

Not being funny, but at least we have a SLIGHT chance of building a rapport with even one word answers. We have NO chance whatsoever if they get deleted!

Just be glad your gettin a reply.

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By *ensualtouch15 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If your not happy with the reply. Just move on.. It ain't rocket science lol"

Move on ! Lol im a man not a woman , amazing if a reply comes

it genuinely possibly is more complex a calculation than rocket science which i do understand x

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"So, we're not only unhappy with our messages being deleted without a reply, we're also unhappy with them being ANSWERED???

Not being funny, but at least we have a SLIGHT chance of building a rapport with even one word answers. We have NO chance whatsoever if they get deleted!

Just be glad your gettin a reply. "

Normally would agree, but have recently been on the receiving end of what the OP is describing, and it is totally off putting to say the least.

It makes it all the harder to gauge interest levels of the other party, and makes conversation tedious and incredibly difficult.

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By *ensualtouch15 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"So, we're not only unhappy with our messages being deleted without a reply, we're also unhappy with them being ANSWERED???

Not being funny, but at least we have a SLIGHT chance of building a rapport with even one word answers. We have NO chance whatsoever if they get deleted!

Just be glad your gettin a reply. "

point illustrated , the question is ,ok a rare bite how much time does one waste ? Is she genuine ?is she a he ? Is it at work on phone busy . How many shite answers does one tolerate ? I realise some nice normal ladies think this is acceptable because they are busy but how many articulate genuine men do they miss ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, we're not only unhappy with our messages being deleted without a reply, we're also unhappy with them being ANSWERED???

Not being funny, but at least we have a SLIGHT chance of building a rapport with even one word answers. We have NO chance whatsoever if they get deleted!

Just be glad your gettin a reply.

Normally would agree, but have recently been on the receiving end of what the OP is describing, and it is totally off putting to say the least.

It makes it all the harder to gauge interest levels of the other party, and makes conversation tedious and incredibly difficult."

Well, as i said mate, a SLIGHT chance for a rapport! If it isn't working, then just tell them that and move on! Why waste time pursueing a conversation with a lass if shes not interested/making the effort? I know its hard to get even a reply on here, but i wouldn't belittle myself by doing all the talking/chasing.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hmm

you know you write a few lines send a pic , and receive hi ,maybe nice pic

so few more lines bit about oneself a question or two

and you receive yes no a smiley

so you send another few lines replying to what i don't know ,digging from profile maybe and you receive ok babe

You're right, it is very frustrating when you're trying to get a conversation and they make such a half hearted effort, especially if it was because they had a well written profile that encouraged you to message them in the first place."

Almost as frustrating as putting a post on here and getting smart arse answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good and skilled lovers are not always good wordsmiths but having said that there is no excuse for not giving some sort of a reply that is more than "no"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm

you know you write a few lines send a pic , and receive hi ,maybe nice pic

so few more lines bit about oneself a question or two

and you receive yes no a smiley

so you send another few lines replying to what i don't know ,digging from profile maybe and you receive ok babe

You're right, it is very frustrating when you're trying to get a conversation and they make such a half hearted effort, especially if it was because they had a well written profile that encouraged you to message them in the first place.

Cut and Paste is the easiest and oldest trick! I look for profiles that are personal, well written and original. I am fussy and selective but I have not been disappointed so far. Game on? Want a wink? "

I had thought that actually, copy and pasted profiles - I've heard of picture theft before but rarely theft of a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the OP posted this with his tongue FIRMLY in his cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a question that can be answered in my opinion, as one answer will my apply to all, maybe some women do get a little above their stations on here and expect guys to make all the effort but not all of them, maybe some are replying to half a dozen guys at once so just sending on quick reply's to all to get thro them so as not to be called ignorant for not replying at all, there could be lots of reasons and not all will be bad ones

Even talking for myself I cant give one answer, sometimes I have given shit answers and that's not always for the same reason, sometimes it could be because im loosing interest, sometimes it could be because im at work on my phone so just send something to show im reply and interested with the intention of sending a better reply later when I get home only to find by then ive been blocked lol or it could be I genuinely am struggling to keep a conversation going, not everyone is easy to talk to on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One word answers , at very start of contact , are inexcusable ? Busy is the usual reason given however the fact of the matter is just lack of interest or lazy arrogance expecting the silly male to keep making the conversation ?"

Maybe they are not into you and maybe they are too polite to let you down?

Or maybe they are a couple, and decide together who they want to meet so wait for other half of partner to get home from work so they can BOTH decide who they meet??

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