FabSwingers.com forum: hi are you free

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so random ''hi are you free'' message from people you've never met /spoken to before no hi or this is me just hi are you free ..

so question is guys (as thats who these messages are from) do you honestly think it works ? why do you think women will drop the knickers just for sex with random guys no attraction no nothing so do you really think it will work and do you think its swinging ??? try and be honest guys

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

This is a sex site and all women should be available at the shortest notice? And jump to the chance of meeting?

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

North Wilts

Having been here for some time now (god did I really say that) I know it takes more than a 'are you free now message' maybe add i'll bring a mcdonalds coffee too to it for gods sake...

Joking apart this pace takes time if you serious and you need to work to get a meet in most cases so lads should be putting both the effort and leg work in...

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By *xploring girlWoman
over a year ago

mids

Yeah think that’s a lot of my messages too don’t know how much success people get by it but personally I don’t even answer them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having been here for some time now (god did I really say that) I know it takes more than a 'are you free now message' maybe add i'll bring a mcdonalds coffee too to it for gods sake...

Joking apart this pace takes time if you serious and you need to work to get a meet in most cases so lads should be putting both the effort and leg work in...

Maybe it's different for men but a are you free with the offer of bringing maccies would certainly entice me to say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, I guess if you throw enough shit and all that then it'll work eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't tried it. It sounds like of those "just so crazy it might work" kinda lines now though

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I've had two couples send me messages effectively asking if I was free that day. In both cases I was and went to visit them.

However, I'll only send a message of this type if someone is on the "meet today" list or has an organised meet posted. Even then it is (I like to think) a polite message offering myself to them rather then requesting them for me, so to speak. I've had no takers on the day, but it has started a conversation which has led further in some cases.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"so random ''hi are you free'' message from people you've never met /spoken to before no hi or this is me just hi are you free ..

I have had messages from couples doing just that to me.

Due to me being a sad single guy, I reply back something like "Hi, depends on when you are talking about?"

they dont tend to send a second message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just received a message, similar to many I get on a daily basis.

It’s from someone who describes themselves on their profile as “respectful and polite”

“Fone fuck NOW!”

Who could resist?

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"I have just received a message, similar to many I get on a daily basis.

It’s from someone who describes themselves on their profile as “respectful and polite”

“Fone fuck NOW!”

Who could resist?

Seriously? Wow, some people are real charmers!

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

"so random ''hi are you free'' message from people you've never met /spoken to before no hi or this is me just hi are you free ..

I have had messages from couples doing just that to me.

Due to me being a sad single guy, I reply back something like "Hi, depends on when you are talking about?"

they dont tend to send a second message"

I find it a bit irritating feel like replying no I am very expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so random ''hi are you free'' message from people you've never met /spoken to before no hi or this is me just hi are you free ..

So when you meeting him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DM me if anyone is free.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a total stranger of a man messaging me late evening a ‘how far can you travel’.

Literally. That was it. No hi, this is me… the sense of entitlement is baffling: like I spend my evening car keys in hand waiting for a horny man to give me an address and wait comfortably in his home for me to arrive and pleasure him.

Just what planet do these men live on? And then they post to complain nobody replies to their messages…

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We just ignore messages like that, if they can't put the effort in then why should we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im free reminds me of are you being served

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By *ornyguy666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I am straight guy clearly stated on my profile but get many daily messages from gay guys offering their cocks so annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The honest truth is that nothing works most of the time and some guys just fire short messages on the off chance they'll attract attention. Most women ignore or delete messages without reading them, no matter how long or short. If you think that a short message doesn't work, well... I had a friend who would buy two shots of vodka, give one to the lady and ask her "do you like to be fucked in the ass?" He had a 50% success rate. When I tried it I got slapped 100% of the time. It's not about the message, it's about attraction to the guy.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Over the years I've had numerous "are you free" or just "meet now?" messages from couples.

Some when I was in their area and had my location turned on and some when they were passing my location.

I've never accepted any of them but some have become nasty and told me it was my loss.

Some get annoyed when I tell them I don't live anywhere near Belfast.

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

"so random ''hi are you free'' message from people you've never met /spoken to before no hi or this is me just hi are you free ..

Hi Foxy are you free?

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By *ristolboy1005Man
over a year ago

bristol

I try to be as polite as possible

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By *enis ColadaMan
over a year ago

Totnes

Hi Foxy want a quick shag

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I am straight guy clearly stated on my profile but get many daily messages from gay guys offering their cocks so annoying "

Use your filters and block men, that will stop them.

It's not just men, on my couple profile we've had a couple ask to meet at midnight, with no prior chat, because one of us was online.

The ones I laugh at, are when they're in a hotel 30+ miles away & ask you free to come over.

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