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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So everyone after so many cringe,copy and pasted and boring messages I receive from single guys let's help them out (fingers crossed) by giving them some advice on how to message someone.

I understand everyone is different so pointers from numerous people should help them!

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Please don't send a cock pic first. If we want to see it we will ask.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

1. Fab is treating everyone fine.

2. No, most people don't "wanna fuck"... they want abit of substance first. What happened to flirting?

3. "You OK?" is probably not the first message you think it is.

4. We don't need you to link every pic in your public photos into the message.

5. We also don't need 20 dick pics, not really even 1 unless you're asked.

Above all, read people's profiles. Why complain people don't reply if you've ignored key information available to you which gives an indication on whether you're compatible or not?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

All of the above,

Plus don't call me hun/baby when we've never spoken before.

I don't wanna hear cringe graphic descriptions of what you'd do if we met.

Speak to the person as another human, not a hole when you're bored or horny.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Most people are not "free now" because you are in the area or need draining etc.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There's some good tips above. They should apply to everyone though not just single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please guys for the love of god learn the difference between a femboy and a sissy, we are not the same. Thats it, my only advice.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

im not going to tell guys where they are going wrong as thats a massive part of my filter ... why would anyone do that ?? leave them to be themselves that way the right ones stand out and the rubbish sorts its self out

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"So everyone after so many cringe,copy and pasted and boring messages I receive from single guys let's help them out (fingers crossed) by giving them some advice on how to message someone.

I understand everyone is different so pointers from numerous people should help them! "

Please don't. Its a great filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's some good tips above. They should apply to everyone though not just single guys."

I agree but I've never had a problem with the way a single women or couple have messaged me. They tend to read profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So everyone after so many cringe,copy and pasted and boring messages I receive from single guys let's help them out (fingers crossed) by giving them some advice on how to message someone.

I understand everyone is different so pointers from numerous people should help them!

Please don't. Its a great filter "

I'm sick of using my block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some good tips above. They should apply to everyone though not just single guys."

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By *endalshaggersCouple
over a year ago

Kendal

Unfortunately there seems to be 10 single guys to every girl/couple. While initially we were open to possibly meeting another guy, the amount of messages were insane and its easier just to block them all. Some are nice but the majority just want sex, now, and don't care about when and how they get it. Also for us, we couldn't give a fuck if you've got a big cock or a six pack, we don't want loads of pictures of either.

Unfortunately the majority ruin it for the minority of genuine nice guys.

It is quite amusing the amount of guys fabbing our content though, even though they can never message and we'll never meet them!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"There's some good tips above. They should apply to everyone though not just single guys.

I agree but I've never had a problem with the way a single women or couple have messaged me. They tend to read profiles "

The messages we get off couples are shocking. So many people seem to have poor social skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some good tips above. They should apply to everyone though not just single guys.

I agree but I've never had a problem with the way a single women or couple have messaged me. They tend to read profiles

The messages we get off couples are shocking. So many people seem to have poor social skills. "

Same.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"So everyone after so many cringe,copy and pasted and boring messages I receive from single guys let's help them out (fingers crossed) by giving them some advice on how to message someone.

I understand everyone is different so pointers from numerous people should help them! "

Mine are never copy and pasted, but all pretty similar. Something like this to couples.... good evening guys, seen your profile and pics and wandered if you may fancy chatting with a view to possibly meeting sometime. I notice you like.......as do i. Im genujne and respectful as my veris show, so if you like what you see feel free to get back to me sometime. Even being polite with something of that nature bmvery rarely gets a reply. I put a coupke of face pics, and one full

Length naked pic

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