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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for the ladies. Would you rather spank or be spanked. And why?

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Spank. Because being spanked does nothing for me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Be spanked. Because spanking does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

switch it up depending on who i’m with. default is to be spanked but lately i’ve just got that domme energy to unleash. definitely depends on the other person’s energy and vibe for me. it’s not a one fits all situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spank, being spanked make me just giggle, no matter how hard it goes

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
over a year ago

Hinckley

Any local ladies want to spank me

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve started to Domme the guy I’m seeing but encouraging him to Dom me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I d like to spank and Dom older women

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By *elshcamMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I like to do the spanking usually but have been in the reverse position with a very special lady

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Be spanked luckily he has very strong hands

Evie

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
over a year ago

Inverness

Love being spanked..hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see some answers but "why" from the last few, and men or women.

Why do you like to be the spanker? Why do you like to be spanked? What's going on in your head at that moment, before or after?

I have spanked but I didn't really get anything out of it. I did it because they wanted to be spanked by me. I was neutral about it so didn't see why I shouldn't. Next time we met, I spanked away but I get the sense that I didn't spank hard enough. I just didn't want to hurt someone and I don't "get it". No buzz. But I'd do it again if asked.

I definitely wouldn't want to be spanked because it would remind me of aspects of childhood that are firmly in the past. It's a firm no.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Don’t ever rule anything out. Being spanked in a BDSM setting is not the same as being punished. You would need to speak it though with a Dom(me). Even if you were spanking someone else it may still trigger a memory.

Personally I’m switch and I get pleasure from spanking my sub as I can see how he reacts and how he feels afterwards. I enjoy being spanked as it takes you to a different headspace. Usually I combine it with sensual pain so it’s pleasure and pain.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Both... in the right scenario

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Here for research (with bendy ruler in hand)

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Definitely a spankee

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I'd rather be flogged

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Delighted to have my ass slapped during doggy but otherwise I can't get my head around spanking. We aren't naughty school kids circ 1973

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Here for research (with bendy ruler in hand) "

There's far better spanking implements than a bendy ruler lol

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By *ileyandOhCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Firm spanking works for me

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Here for research (with bendy ruler in hand)

There's far better spanking implements than a bendy ruler lol"

Like a tin of shortbread?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I see some answers but "why" from the last few, and men or women.

Why do you like to be the spanker? Why do you like to be spanked? What's going on in your head at that moment, before or after?

I have spanked but I didn't really get anything out of it. I did it because they wanted to be spanked by me. I was neutral about it so didn't see why I shouldn't. Next time we met, I spanked away but I get the sense that I didn't spank hard enough. I just didn't want to hurt someone and I don't "get it". No buzz. But I'd do it again if asked.

I definitely wouldn't want to be spanked because it would remind me of aspects of childhood that are firmly in the past. It's a firm no."

I like it because I'm a masochist.

If it's not for you it's not for you. That's okay

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Here for research (with bendy ruler in hand)

There's far better spanking implements than a bendy ruler lol

Like a tin of shortbread? "

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

My wife loves it when I Dom her, I use different items and the harder I do the more turned on she gets.x

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

of im with someone i know and trust great no way id let any strangers do it cant think of a bigger turn off

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I do have to say I am always in complete control and know exactly how far to go with it, I love her dearly and would never hurt her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delighted to have my ass slapped during doggy but otherwise I can't get my head around spanking. We aren't naughty school kids circ 1973"

And what is it about during doggy that's different? Submissive feeling?

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Spank me

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By *rsMxCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Love to be spanked.

Spanking is not my thing

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By *allBBWWoman
over a year ago

North Ayrshire

I would rather be spanked. I've no interest in spanking someone else, it's me who needs / wants kept in line

In all honestly, I just find it insanely hot and fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking by hand or cane paddle or whip count ? Just asking

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.


"A question for the ladies. Would you rather spank or be spanked. And why?"
depends on who is doing or being spanked. I don't want another woman to spank me but would happily spank another lady. I do like Mr Djs hand across my bottom.. mmm

Cali

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