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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a plagerised thread from another thread.

But me being a single fella doesn't get much attention...

So am I right in thinking that women just get the pick of the bunch and arranging meets is a piece of piss?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Oh I get hundreds of offers that I would never accept in a thousand years of celibacy.

Finding actually compatible people is a chore

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not easier, it's just different.

A lot of nonsense - including entitlement, horrifying messages, and stuff that honestly just looks like spam. The pick of the bunch might be in there (or we look for them ourselves) but it's hard to find amongst all the noise.

Not all attention is good attention.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd say more that each group has their own problems but those problems are radically different from each other - which can lead to misunderstanding and tension now and again.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I don't think Fab is easy for anyone, no matter what they are looking for or who they are the site is full of fakes, fantasists and wannabes.

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

I meet mostly as a single lady and receiving lots of offers is probably easier but you would be surprised how many cry off just before a meet. Quite a few just seem to want to talk dirty via messages. Also when you find someone you like they are often so far away its so hard to arrange. I know a few single guys from here and judging by their experiences, they do have it worse but mostly just different

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I'm a single woman and first I've got to get rid of all the boring 'hi how are you" "what u up 2" and one word "morning" "afternoon" "evening" messages.

Ditched all the ones with no pics and nothing in their profile, the ones who have clearly not bothered to even take a look at my bio, the crude and/or abusive messages about me being overweight and the ones from over 100 miles away there is usually not many left to choose from.

So all that admin for no reward, so no I wouldn't say it was easier but we do possibly have a higher chance than single men of finding someone but it's still a chore.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No. Who needs all of that admin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah okay.. i just thought it was just a case of selecting.. quick tipity tap on the keyboard and off you go.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ah okay.. i just thought it was just a case of selecting.. quick tipity tap on the keyboard and off you go. "

I wish

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Yeh. Impaled in cock in every possible orifice 24/7/365

Pure heaven.

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By *lossomTreeWoman
over a year ago

Ipswich

I may have it easier as a bi woman than a single man, but I'm still dealing with the same pool of timewasting users.

I can go surprisingly long between meets with couples! I even had a whole month where I didn't get so much as a social.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think anyone had it particularly easy, single women as well as everyone else have to find attraction, consider safety, they probably have more messages to shift through purely on numbers of single men looking for women but I don't see that as making it easier.

Mrs

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

No we don't. I think the reasons have been explained numerous times.

I don't think anyone has it easy on any sort of sites, nowadays. And there's lots of different reasons.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Yes and no. Yes, it's probably easier for us to get sex if we have no preferences or expectations of the other person, but finding someone you WANT to fuck can be a chore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo not easy.. we might get more messages but the quality of these is few and far between.. theres only so much u look hot fancy a meet messages from blank or cock pic profiles you can take

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

they get bombarded with messages and abuse along with it so no it cant be easy for them,, i know all men arent like that before any guys have a go at me

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By *lossomTreeWoman
over a year ago

Ipswich

I have messages turned off for single men. When I want to find one I'll usually look for advertised meets, who has Fabbed my photos or local users on the forum.

Every time I search no matter what filters I use it's 300+ results.

I choose to spend most of my Fabmin time talking with couples.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I'd hazard a guess that it's hard for both single males and single females on here. Just for different reasons/in different ways.

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36


"Just a plagerised thread from another thread.

But me being a single fella doesn't get much attention...

So am I right in thinking that women just get the pick of the bunch and arranging meets is a piece of piss?

"

To a certain extent but it’s the same in real life too so get over it I guess.

T

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By *irenityCouple
over a year ago

Southport

We did a little "experiment" Mrs S put up a single profile, so did Mr S, Mrs got over 100 messages before a photo went up which continued for several weeks, Mr S......still waiting for one. But agree with other posters that it's just different, Mrs S got some good messages and some bad, and had to sort through a lot of ones that simply were not what she was looking for.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

It is just a perception -

In someways I think it harder for us to find someone who is ticking our boxes.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if you think one good message in 300 is having it easy the yeah i guess

the only reason you have it hard op is because your one of many.. many many ... think of the sea full of men looking at a swimming pool full of women and couples..

oh and half of those women and couples are actually men pretending....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah okay.. i just thought it was just a case of selecting.. quick tipity tap on the keyboard and off you go. "

Have you seen the men on here?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah okay.. i just thought it was just a case of selecting.. quick tipity tap on the keyboard and off you go.

Have you seen the men on here?!?!?! "

Just the one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No we don't. I think the reasons have been explained numerous times.

"

Was just asking

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Unbelievably not every man on here wants to meet me!

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By *ichelinstar1Man
over a year ago

Peterborough & North West

All I know is men heavily outnumber women on here so catching someone’s attention is key. The ratio must be 100:1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some excellent reading and opinions...

We find that too many guys just think women are eagerly waiting for strangers to turn up and fuck... or asking if they can pop over for a blowjob...

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Some excellent reading and opinions...

We find that too many guys just think women are eagerly waiting for strangers to turn up and fuck... or asking if they can pop over for a blowjob... "

this they dont even look for attraction most just a hole to fuck and they wonder why they get nowhere

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