To wink or not to wink?? That is my question?

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By *eordie JoJo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Does anyone else have the same dilemma or am I just too nice?

Someone winks at you but they are not your type. I hate to be rude or ignorant so do i wink back to acknowledge that I got the wink. But I don't want to lead them on thinking I'm interested, when I'm not but don't want to ignore them and appear as rude! But then I always have to send a message anyway explaining I'm not interested and justifying the wink! (kept up?)

JoJo x x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't acknowledge winks so wouldn't let it bother me. Now if they'd messaged you that would be different.

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

no, don't wink back or message them from a wink. If they send a message a thanks but no thanks is best

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By *eordie JoJo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thanks for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no, don't wink back or message them from a wink. If they send a message a thanks but no thanks is best"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they are Hot then they get a wink back! Or a message to say thanks for the wink!

Ignoring a wink does not make you rude in our book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

JoJo, if someone winks you and you're not interested in them, just ignore the wink!

It happens all the time (I ignore 10 or more winks per day.)

Site FAQs explain that it's NOT rude to ignore/delete a message, so it's deffo not rude to ignore/delete a wink!

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