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By *ari Seldon OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Liverpool

Well,looking at the age range on the profiles I look at, it looks like I am to old for most people.

It is becoming harder and harder to meet couples or singles who are into my guys of my age

Also doesn't help that I have Bisexual on my profile

Not a rant just my observation,be nice to hear other views

Ta

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By *arpus67Man
52 weeks ago

nottingham burgh le Marsh

Have to agree

Big decline when you hit 50

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By *lik and PaulCouple
52 weeks ago

cahoots

I've never been asked my age in clubs or at socials.

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By *renadier4Man
52 weeks ago

Codsall


"Well,looking at the age range on the profiles I look at, it looks like I am to old for most people.

It is becoming harder and harder to meet couples or singles who are into my guys of my age

Also doesn't help that I have Bisexual on my profile

Not a rant just my observation,be nice to hear other views

Ta"

I wouldn't let age worry you. It's who you are that counts and let's face it nobody is ever going to get younger. Given your user name I thought you might be able to predict your own future! lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex

Far fewer people are interested in 55 and over, it's a fact on fab and off it. Once you hit 65 interest drops off a cliff.

A lot of people of similar age want to meet younger people thereby reducing the pool even further.

I'm quite happy to accept that very few people will be interested in us now, I expected it to happen. I think the old saying 'cut your coat according to your cloth' is quite apt.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The search function allows you to only look for people interested in people your age.

Just think of it as a helpful filter for narrowing down the most compatible options

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By *immy0169Man
52 weeks ago

london


"Far fewer people are interested in 55 and over, it's a fact on fab and off it. Once you hit 65 interest drops off a cliff.

A lot of people of similar age want to meet younger people thereby reducing the pool even further.

I'm quite happy to accept that very few people will be interested in us now, I expected it to happen. I think the old saying 'cut your coat according to your cloth' is quite apt.

"

Im interested in older ages

Most probably older people are not into younger ages

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Far fewer people are interested in 55 and over, it's a fact on fab and off it. Once you hit 65 interest drops off a cliff.

A lot of people of similar age want to meet younger people thereby reducing the pool even further.

I'm quite happy to accept that very few people will be interested in us now, I expected it to happen. I think the old saying 'cut your coat according to your cloth' is quite apt.

Im interested in older ages

Most probably older people are not into younger ages"

It depends on the individual really I suppose.

All any of us can do is look for people who are interested in our age grouy

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By *immy0169Man
52 weeks ago

london

Im interested in your age group if you want you can sent a message cause im not in your age ranges

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By *evonrobMan
52 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

I don’t think you’re too old and I certainly don’t consider myself too old. There are some fantastic older men and women on this site and I think part of its appeal is that it offers something for everybody!

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By *andy CanesWoman
52 weeks ago

candy cane lane

I sometimes think I’m to old for this to so your not the only one

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By *ealitybitesMan
52 weeks ago

Belfast

I was almost 52 when I first joined here.

My age has never once been discussed or been an issue in regards to meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I considered this before rejoining fab at my age..luckily..and perhaps unlucky, I'm really only interested in the age range I've put in my profile

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By *ister_EMan
52 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Oldest couple I've met with on here were 65(her) & 67(him) the sex was amazing! Played with and fucked both on multiple occasions, including a couple of all day marathon sessions. They definitely weren't over the hill!

And wish I could meet more mature couples like them!

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By *ister_EMan
52 weeks ago

Hayling Island


"Far fewer people are interested in 55 and over, it's a fact on fab and off it. Once you hit 65 interest drops off a cliff.

A lot of people of similar age want to meet younger people thereby reducing the pool even further.

I'm quite happy to accept that very few people will be interested in us now, I expected it to happen. I think the old saying 'cut your coat according to your cloth' is quite apt.

Im interested in older ages

Most probably older people are not into younger ages

It depends on the individual really I suppose.

All any of us can do is look for people who are interested in our age grouy "

You're still on my hot list

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By *att71Man
52 weeks ago

Bristol

Age is a mere number if you ask me. I have had more laugh and giggles here since hitting 50 than before i did, just got to work at it more I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Jees man you are still a spring chicken, try getting a meeting at 66 , that being said I not long ago finished a six months regular meeting with a 30 year old black goddess, I would absolutely love a repeat of that , but it's been like counting the grains of sand in the Sahara since.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Too true, the 30 year old black woman I had a six months fling with said I was so much better than her 35 year old boyfriend, sex lasted for hours , I always took her home exhausted. Life in the old dog yet , it's just getting people to take the chance on the older very experienced guys on here .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Too true, the 30 year old black woman I had a six months fling with said I was so much better than her 35 year old boyfriend, sex lasted for hours , I always took her home exhausted. Life in the old dog yet , it's just getting people to take the chance on the older very experienced guys on here ."

I don't want anyone taking a chance on me. . I'm (f) 67 i don't expect younger men to be interested in me or to want to take a chance.

I'm darn sure I wouldn't be better than a 30 year old too .

All power to you though, hope you find another 30 year old lady

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By *aveonMan
52 weeks ago

Dartford

Do tend to agree when you hit 50 it drops and can only think what it gets like as you head to 60

However as I have met similar aged couples they tend to be much more relaxed with no hang ups and actually the fun is quite amazing

I’m open to all ages - as long as they are open minded

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By *att71Man
52 weeks ago

Bristol


"Too true, the 30 year old black woman I had a six months fling with said I was so much better than her 35 year old boyfriend, sex lasted for hours , I always took her home exhausted. Life in the old dog yet , it's just getting people to take the chance on the older very experienced guys on here .

I don't want anyone taking a chance on me. . I'm (f) 67 i don't expect younger men to be interested in me or to want to take a chance.

I'm darn sure I wouldn't be better than a 30 year old too .

All power to you though, hope you find another 30 year old lady "

And why would younger men not be interested in you, you are very sexy and have an amazing figure x

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
52 weeks ago

Colchester

For us being on here isn’t just about the sex and if that was the only thing we had in common with a potential meet it’s unlike we’d go ahead. We’re 100% into social or chat to see if there is more in common than the obvious. So when we look at profiles we ask ourselves if they’d know what it was like to queue up for hours outside a phone box because mrs chattalot was in first and had a pile of 2p pieces a foot high or what a pencil had to do with a cassette tape. Apart from that, these young ones think everything has to be done at 100 mph.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Too true, the 30 year old black woman I had a six months fling with said I was so much better than her 35 year old boyfriend, sex lasted for hours , I always took her home exhausted. Life in the old dog yet , it's just getting people to take the chance on the older very experienced guys on here .

I don't want anyone taking a chance on me. . I'm (f) 67 i don't expect younger men to be interested in me or to want to take a chance.

I'm darn sure I wouldn't be better than a 30 year old too .

All power to you though, hope you find another 30 year old lady

And why would younger men not be interested in you, you are very sexy and have an amazing figure x"

Thank you.

I'm realistic. If a man of any age had a choice between me and a woman of say 35/45 he'd choose the younger woman. Its just how it is, I'm not fishing for compliments or bitter about it but I do accept it.

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By *att71Man
52 weeks ago

Bristol


"Too true, the 30 year old black woman I had a six months fling with said I was so much better than her 35 year old boyfriend, sex lasted for hours , I always took her home exhausted. Life in the old dog yet , it's just getting people to take the chance on the older very experienced guys on here .

I don't want anyone taking a chance on me. . I'm (f) 67 i don't expect younger men to be interested in me or to want to take a chance.

I'm darn sure I wouldn't be better than a 30 year old too .

All power to you though, hope you find another 30 year old lady

And why would younger men not be interested in you, you are very sexy and have an amazing figure x

Thank you.

I'm realistic. If a man of any age had a choice between me and a woman of say 35/45 he'd choose the younger woman. Its just how it is, I'm not fishing for compliments or bitter about it but I do accept it. "

not every one would, remember that, some of us look at the person and not the number next to them, and you I like loking at

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Too true, the 30 year old black woman I had a six months fling with said I was so much better than her 35 year old boyfriend, sex lasted for hours , I always took her home exhausted. Life in the old dog yet , it's just getting people to take the chance on the older very experienced guys on here .

I don't want anyone taking a chance on me. . I'm (f) 67 i don't expect younger men to be interested in me or to want to take a chance.

I'm darn sure I wouldn't be better than a 30 year old too .

All power to you though, hope you find another 30 year old lady

And why would younger men not be interested in you, you are very sexy and have an amazing figure x

Thank you.

I'm realistic. If a man of any age had a choice between me and a woman of say 35/45 he'd choose the younger woman. Its just how it is, I'm not fishing for compliments or bitter about it but I do accept it.

not every one would, remember that, some of us look at the person and not the number next to them, and you I like loking at "

Edited because autocorrect caught me out .

I'll just say thank you for your compliments

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By *att71Man
52 weeks ago

Bristol


"Too true, the 30 year old black woman I had a six months fling with said I was so much better than her 35 year old boyfriend, sex lasted for hours , I always took her home exhausted. Life in the old dog yet , it's just getting people to take the chance on the older very experienced guys on here .

I don't want anyone taking a chance on me. . I'm (f) 67 i don't expect younger men to be interested in me or to want to take a chance.

I'm darn sure I wouldn't be better than a 30 year old too .

All power to you though, hope you find another 30 year old lady

And why would younger men not be interested in you, you are very sexy and have an amazing figure x

Thank you.

I'm realistic. If a man of any age had a choice between me and a woman of say 35/45 he'd choose the younger woman. Its just how it is, I'm not fishing for compliments or bitter about it but I do accept it.

not every one would, remember that, some of us look at the person and not the number next to them, and you I like loking at

Edited because autocorrect caught me out .

I'll just say thank you for your compliments "

my fat finger always catch me lut lol

no thanks needed just being honest, as are my fabs xxx

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By * and G CoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

London

We prefer people around our own age. We would not be interested in meeting people much younger than we are.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
52 weeks ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"We prefer people around our own age. We would not be interested in meeting people much younger than we are."

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Same here, you can never be too old for here if it's people in the same age range that interest you lol

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By *avexxMan
52 weeks ago

cheshire

we are not knackered yet hang in there..

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I’m just here for the forum and chats lol. So who cares about age

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I'm 37 and have found out that I'm too young for some profiles!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

52 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I’m just here for the forum and chats lol. So who cares about age"

Socially I'm happy to mix with any age group. I think it's great to have friends who can give a different perspective and keep you au courant

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By *erkshire8299Man
52 weeks ago

slough

There are the odd ones that ask for older mature only...but yeah totally not as good as if in your 30s it seems .

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
52 weeks ago

Ashford

We prefer meeting the more mature aged people.

It’s all personal preference and we understand everyone’s is different but for us we have found that we get messed around a lot less, messages are more polite and well written, we can take time to get to know people more, younger ones (in our experience) are just after one thing and more likely to get abusive.

Again we appreciate there are plenty of younger genuine people out there we are just fed up with the ones that are not that.

Long story short we prefer older

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By *r Simon TemplerMan
52 weeks ago

Blackpool, Layton

I once put a status up saying, "I think I'm past it for fab" and some cheeky bigger sent me a message and said "yes you are" lol.

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By *uriousCouple31967Couple
52 weeks ago

West Bromwich


"We prefer meeting the more mature aged people.

It’s all personal preference and we understand everyone’s is different but for us we have found that we get messed around a lot less, messages are more polite and well written, we can take time to get to know people more, younger ones (in our experience) are just after one thing and more likely to get abusive.

Again we appreciate there are plenty of younger genuine people out there we are just fed up with the ones that are not that.

Long story short we prefer older "

Yes totally agree with all of this. In our experience older have been more respectful and understanding.

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By *enbobjimMan
52 weeks ago

Wallasey

Unfortunately I’m with you OP in the same boat especially up by us. We need to make a tag team pact if we find anyone lol

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By *xfordjohnMan
52 weeks ago

Oxford


"Well,looking at the age range on the profiles I look at, it looks like I am to old for most people.

It is becoming harder and harder to meet couples or singles who are into my guys of my age

Also doesn't help that I have Bisexual on my profile

Not a rant just my observation,be nice to hear other views

Ta"

Of course there are fewer older people (and 56 is hardly old - wait til you are 70) on the site, but they are there. You just have to look carefully, have an attractive profile, message nicely and you just might find some younger people interested too.

And being bi is quite mainstream now,so I wouldn't worry about that either.

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