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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes perhaps.

Sometimes women can think for themselves.

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By *odders88Man
over a year ago

Northampton

3rd world problems hey OP!!

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Personally I wouldn’t worry about husbands being scared of your cock because from your pictures it’s really not something for husbands to stress about but maybe it’s your personal approach.

Any ho best of luck.

T

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Personally I wouldn’t worry about husbands being scared of your cock because from your pictures it’s really not something for husbands to stress about but maybe it’s your personal approach.

Any ho best of luck.

T"

pretty much yes

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

I don't know of it being a thing. It would make me more keen for tha missus to meet them. Yet, in these enlightened times, she gets a vote too!

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Most husbands won’t be worried about that.

Have another think.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

(Mr)

As the man in our couple, I would actively seek a more well endowed person, or a huge cummer, so Miss gets to experience the pleasure. She still goes home with me, maybe with belly full of your cum, but certainly no feelings of jealousy.

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By *andalustCouple
over a year ago

Guildford


"Sometimes perhaps.

Sometimes women can think for themselves. "

Great answer

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Guarantee it’s never that!

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Why do I get messages from couples (mostly men) when I'm not looking for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be that you’re just not their type! It is as much about mental connection as it is physical.

I haven’t looked at your profile or seen what you have sent but, if they’re not detailed enough then that might be enough for them to pull the pin.

Either way, best of luck and happy connections!

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm sur that if worried you, you'd have changed all you cock pics ...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Whatever you need to tell yourself to make it easier to deal with rejection OP.

Sometimes people just aren't interested

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why do I get messages from couples (mostly men) when I'm not looking for couples"

Because you hijack other people's forum threads. It's karma.

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

have a friend off here he is a little larger than me but we enjoy his company twice a year doesn't worry me seeing him fuck the wife but not met any others off here

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

is this a “couples come check out my penis” thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" is this a “couples come check out my penis” thread "
Nice one))

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do I get messages from couples (mostly men) when I'm not looking for couples"

Because you haven't set your mail filters to exclude couples

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

It could be in some cases but loads of men actively encourage their partners to seek out well endowed men.

It is fairly difficult for single men on here though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. Maybe I need to get back to the drawing board.

Catch 22 isn’t it. Struggle to get a meet. Don’t get the veris don’t get the meets.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

Why would it be an issue with the husband?

Personally I'm not a fan of a huge cock I don't think the Mr gives two shits.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just to note I'd not reply purely on the pic selection - can't see if there's an attraction and a guy who relies solely on his cock ain't for me.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for the replies. Maybe I need to get back to the drawing board.

Catch 22 isn’t it. Struggle to get a meet. Don’t get the veris don’t get the meets. "

You could get a cam verification. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the replies. Maybe I need to get back to the drawing board.

Catch 22 isn’t it. Struggle to get a meet. Don’t get the veris don’t get the meets.

You could get a cam verification. . "

I’ve got veris from meets cam ain’t my thing. It’s just a huge tease

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for the replies. Maybe I need to get back to the drawing board.

Catch 22 isn’t it. Struggle to get a meet. Don’t get the veris don’t get the meets.

You could get a cam verification. .

I’ve got veris from meets cam ain’t my thing. It’s just a huge tease"

Oh sorry I thought you meant you had no verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone, and it happens a lot , msgs with "what you into", we delete straight away. If you can't be arsed reading the profile then see you later

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I dont want certain guys in here telling me his got a hotwife when clearly she's nowhere near hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s post our wives

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

Depends on the first message. If its meet now, what you into, i wanna do your wife its normally a read and ignore.

Opening message says a lot. Read profiles and make references.

The wife always decides on meets, if shes happy so am i.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Length isn’t usually anyone worries over. No matter what there’s only so see you can go. I can’t see a husband being jealous of another man’s length to the point of stopping them from fancying a meet.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lol nice try. It's hilarious how men on her try to stand out.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Profiles or messages that seem to be centred around the blokes dick, or give off the impression that they think they shouldn't have to make any effort because they are 'hung' get nowhere with us.

I don't have an issue with the size of any guy Mrs wants to play with, though she doesn't actually seek out anyone too endowed as it's not her preference.

Too many on here think a big dick is some kind of magic key to get what they want. Alot better if it comes attached to a nice guy with an engaging personality, so guys should look to showcase that in their profile and messages.

Even then, some will not be interested

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By *ormalcouple1974Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

No it doesn’t bother my better half

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By *ormalcouple1974Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

No it doesn’t bother my better half, only bothers insecure men.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

Not at all. I am the one who does not want big dicks in me.

Mrs

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
52 weeks ago

South West London

I block when a couple messages me when I know its a man behind the profile

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By *ayxWoman
52 weeks ago

brentwood


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

I'd say this statement alone would put people off more than your cock.

If this is your mindset going into conversations etc then I'd say that is why couples or people would walk away.

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By *ickylouCouple
52 weeks ago

Bi


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

We would not reply as you say you are straight. But would meet tv/ts.

Honestly with yourself and us is a big part of who we message back x

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing?

I'd say this statement alone would put people off more than your cock.

If this is your mindset going into conversations etc then I'd say that is why couples or people would walk away."

^^^^^THIS^^^^^

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
52 weeks ago

Birmingham

Probably not asmuch as you think, I mean, I've had a look at your profile and can't see anything that I think would be intimidating for any other men.

I think more couples, when it comes to dick size, it's the fem that's giving the green light or not. Ya know, since it's her body it's going into and we're lucky enough now to get a say in our marriages and body autonomy

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
52 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I dont want certain guys in here telling me his got a hotwife when clearly she's nowhere near hot"

OK but

1. As stated above, if you aren't looking for couples, why haven't you changed your message filter to stop them messaging?

2. Do you even know what hotwife means? Not sure you do.

3. Why do you always try to derail people's posts with questions that aren't related at all? Just curious...

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By *heekyDemandCouple
52 weeks ago

Leicester


"

3. Why do you always try to derail people's posts with questions that aren't related at all? Just curious... "

Either didn't get the reaction desired, or is just a troll

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
52 weeks ago

Birmingham


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3. Why do you always try to derail people's posts with questions that aren't related at all? Just curious...

Either didn't get the reaction desired, or is just a troll

"

I think he's probably a troll tbh.

He's spent months moaning in the forums that he doesn't get meets or attention because he's ugly and now is a self proclaimed alpha male lol!

Makes a good filter for everyone else I guess

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By *sj75Couple
52 weeks ago

castleford

You’re hardly that big mate, sorry to burst your ego. Any woman, no matter how tight, would take that in a heartbeat.

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By *sj75Couple
52 weeks ago

castleford

You’d be ok with him x

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By *bflirtyCouple
52 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Couple of reasons people don’t get replies from us:

Our profile requests a face pic if messaging for the first time. I’d say 90% of messages from single males don’t have a face pic and neither does their profile so “Fancy some fun?” with no pic isn’t going to get far

We get literally 100s a week. We cannot answer them all.

I cannot speak for Alicia, if I’m online browsing and Alicia is out I rarely respond as I can’t answer the inevitable “do you this the missus would be up for it?”

We probably miss out on loads of potential great meets but that’s just how it is. Fabs is time consuming. Nothing personal.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
52 weeks ago

oxford


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

No

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By *urious curvy wifeCouple
52 weeks ago

mansfield

The bigger cock she gets if better for me, love watching wife stretched

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By *ootyfruityCouple
52 weeks ago

andover

When we open our messages to single guys we don’t reply to a profile with just dick pics. There’s so many on here it just really doesn’t stand out.

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By *ee1967Man
52 weeks ago

watford

Not all women like actual sex with a huge cock.

When me and ex wife swung we met a couple of huge guys and although it'd great on the eye, she found it too painful as she liked to be fuxked really hard , it wasn't possible.

Must be frustrating though for really big guys.

A guy I've known years is a genuine 10 inches and he constantly says its so frustrating he has rarely found a partner he can pound.

1st world problems eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Is this the most ‘look at my cock pics’ post ever?!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Northampton


"Is this the most ‘look at my cock pics’ post ever?! "

Yep!

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By *restonCouple555Couple
52 weeks ago

preston


"Do you think sometimes I don’t get a reply when I message some couples because I’m well endowed and the husband isn’t keen. Is that a thing? "

I'd say it's less likely to be the size of your cock than that your profile contains only four pictures, all of your cock.

I'd suggest many couples would prefer to see something else, and those couples who do want to get a look at it may still prefer you don't lead with it.

Just my two cents, take it as you like.

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