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Common courtesy a thing of the past?

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By *irtybrit27 OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Hi everyone,

Regularly have gone to clubs at home and kestrels over a number of years and today was a bit shocked and disappointed in the guys who went right up to couples mid play with cock in hand with no decency to ask or any sense that they may be "too close".They had to be told a couple of times and they couldn't read the room at all.

We all know about the infamous "wanking dead" in clubs and accept there's going to be a number of people who just want to get their end away. But today the lack of consideration for others shocked me and I found it a massive turn off.

Its a massive shame as I would think that I'm a respectful guy, keep my distance and play when invited to do so. Also the voyeur in me loves watching it all play out and these guys effectively cock blocked and ruined the mood at particular moments.

Sorry if this is a little ranty, I still had fun and chilled out and I believe the couples did too. I just really felt for them and it could have been even more enjoyable for them if they were given the space to really let go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

Regularly have gone to clubs at home and kestrels over a number of years and today was a bit shocked and disappointed in the guys who went right up to couples mid play with cock in hand with no decency to ask or any sense that they may be "too close".They had to be told a couple of times and they couldn't read the room at all.

We all know about the infamous "wanking dead" in clubs and accept there's going to be a number of people who just want to get their end away. But today the lack of consideration for others shocked me and I found it a massive turn off.

Its a massive shame as I would think that I'm a respectful guy, keep my distance and play when invited to do so. Also the voyeur in me loves watching it all play out and these guys effectively cock blocked and ruined the mood at particular moments.

Sorry if this is a little ranty, I still had fun and chilled out and I believe the couples did too. I just really felt for them and it could have been even more enjoyable for them if they were given the space to really let go."

It's a fair and justified rant. The crappy pushy men spoil it for the decent ones as people just assume all men will be crappy and pushy.

The clubs should tell *everyone* the Rules when they enter the club. (Women too.)

Some people are thick and think that swinger porn where everyone just has a big bareback gangbang is how clubs are.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Nothing really seems to have changed in this regard

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By *irtybrit27 OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It's a fair and justified rant. The crappy pushy men spoil it for the decent ones as people just assume all men will be crappy and pushy.

The clubs should tell *everyone* the Rules when they enter the club. (Women too.)

Some people are thick and think that swinger porn where everyone just has a big bareback gangbang is how clubs are. "

Thanks, nice to know I'm not alone in thinking it. I should say its probably not gender specific and I don't even think it is first timer exclusive, I think some people just are wrapped up in themselves and what they want. When really in the situation today the power should all be in the hands of the couple playing and putting on the show.

All it does is make them go into private rooms and then people wonder why no one is out in the open!

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