FabSwingers.com forum: Is DVP Bi?

By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.

But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..

Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.

Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?

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By *yndrwg5Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Why does this bother you? If you play with a couple you will be touching the man as well as the woman, doesn't make you bi it's like saying if you have anal sex you are gay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it matters but gotta be ok around another cock

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

Im not asking to find out what i think it makes me.. lol im comfortable with my sexuality im asking how does the swingers community view it?

So i know who to approach

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

I think trying to label it is difficult as everyone in the community is rightly allowed their own opinion.

We see it as lots of fun.

Yes, cocks will inevitably touch, that’s the main consideration.

If you’re happy with it and the couple you’re meeting are happy with it, go for it.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.

But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..

Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.

Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"

During DVP you're both primarily having sex with the woman, so I would think that most would consider it as straight sex.

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

I neither know nor care, all i do know is it feels amazing

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Absolutely not, yes a lot of touching and rubbing goes on but it's more to give pleasure to the lucky lady.

Cock touching is just a result of the fun. Don't get hung up on it and enjoy the moment.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I don't really think so, "bi" implies that you're attracted to men and women, not that you saw/came into contact with another man's skin. Accidental or incidental contact with another male body during sex with a woman doesn't make you bi.

BUT it might be relevant if for example you weren't using condoms and were both inside her together - in that sense it would be worth stating that you've had 'sexual contact' with a male if you were having a regular STI check - STIs don't care whether you were attracted to him or her, and it's important to be mature about it.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

People are bi or gay or straight. Play is play, not bi nor straight. Same with toys.

Your cock will be hard and you'll be aroused and maybe cum because A) you are fucking a woman or B) you are rubbing your penis against other man's or C) a combination.

Just fantasise about it for now, consider what turns you on in a DVP play scenario and you'll get your answer.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

It's only gay if you enjoy it when the balls collide

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Simple answer is, No DVP doesn't make you or the other male Bi.

But then on here we've seen posts from other males saying being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you Bi

So to answer the other part of your question on here is hard.(no pun intended)

Maybe easier to message Bi couples and explain what you want.

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

does it really matter a pigs ear one way or the other, as long as your enjoying the pleasure who cares a fig

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By *ngelLordCouple
over a year ago

Newport

All we care is we love it and want it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it is bi for a moment. I love dvp but I am straight generally.

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By *hloe_TTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

No i dont think so. I think it is interesting though. Like can you suck a dick and still be straight if you didn't enjoy it? What about if you've never sucked dick but really crave it. Maybe only you can know, and if you aren't sure then maybe you should try and find out. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No need for labels adjustment. People assume you are bi if you are attracted to the same gender. It's not about having sex in proximity to others.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

It's the woman who is the centre of attention so no. However you do have to be open minded about close intimacy with another male whilst doing it and whilst many men (including me) would have no problems with it, others might.

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By *astcoast2000Man
over a year ago

Newcastle County Down

So we are of again a straight person that's not sure what a straight person is

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"No i dont think so. I think it is interesting though. Like can you suck a dick and still be straight if you didn't enjoy it? What about if you've never sucked dick but really crave it. Maybe only you can know, and if you aren't sure then maybe you should try and find out. X "

Totally this.

It's about what you crave and enjoy not what you touch or what touches you. It's not a contagious disease that you get by touching something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All we care is we love it and want it lol"

Mrs othello tried it and loved it. I am comfortable being naked around other men but in no way am I bi.

It was an amazing feeling seeing my wife pleasured and feeling her orgasming over mine and the other man’s cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All we care is we love it and want it lol

Mrs othello tried it and loved it. I am comfortable being naked around other men but in no way am I bi.

It was an amazing feeling seeing my wife pleasured and feeling her orgasming over mine and the other man’s cock."

My thoughts entirely, love hearing my wife as we both simultaneously please her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fucking amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's established as a bi mmf from the start, then I bet it feels fantastic having the other guy's dick rubbing against mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's no bi by itself.

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By *ememberMan
over a year ago

St Neots

couples bi and straight like DVP...however the two men clearly need to be very comfortable with thier dicks rubbing together .

I'm love that feeling

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

For many it isn’t about the physical act of being inside your partner with another guy, but what it does to her. That is the turn on. Honestly, it can be a toy or another guy’s cock. I just like seeing and hearing the resulting ecstasy in her responses… being stretched that extra and having all that motion occurring inside her body makes her cum huge amounts and 90% of what gets me off in our swinging life is seeing Sammi enjoy the strongest and best orgasms she can experience.

I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For many it isn’t about the physical act of being inside your partner with another guy, but what it does to her. That is the turn on. Honestly, it can be a toy or another guy’s cock. I just like seeing and hearing the resulting ecstasy in her responses… being stretched that extra and having all that motion occurring inside her body makes her cum huge amounts and 90% of what gets me off in our swinging life is seeing Sammi enjoy the strongest and best orgasms she can experience.

I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol."

Wow! A dvp with Sammi would be quite something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol."

100% with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Dvp, the act itself I wouldn’t consider bi as it’s all about 2 guys pleasuring the lady it does feel so erotic and when all 3 are in that moment it feels fuking lush.

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By *otfun999Man
over a year ago

"Love Dvp, the act itself I wouldn’t consider bi as it’s all about 2 guys pleasuring the lady it does feel so erotic and when all 3 are in that moment it feels fuking lush.

Agree with this

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By *arrie69Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I am straight and hard for the lady not another guys cock. I am comfortable around other men and DVP is my favourite thing for a woman's pleasure if that what she likes. No issue crossing swords for this reason

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By *adie Slut and CharlieCouple
over a year ago

Bucks

Why does it need a label? If it feels good, do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you touch another penis you are gay. My advise is to get it out the way first! Get a nice thick one and take it in every hole! That way when you come to meet for DVP you won't be so nervous;)

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It isn't bi.

You would literally be inside a vagina.

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By *inkycouple692023Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

It’s what you want it to be

Depends on what part blows your mind

I don’t think you’d even consider it if your 100% straight

People are aloud to be curious and find out what makes you tick by trying out things

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I think as long as you're careful not to touch balls then it's straight. I'm pretty sure that's how it works.

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By *restonCouple555Couple
over a year ago

preston

Labels are only useful to give other people a broad notion of what interests you. You don't need to label yourself because you have a much more granular understanding of your own sexual complexity than a label could ever cover.

FWIW though, I identify as a straight man, and I would not be against putting my cock in a vagina that already had a cock in it. I might even like it, who knows. However I have no desire to do sexual stuff to or have sexual stuff done to me by another man for its own sake. In my book, that means I'm not bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never even considered it to be bi, end of the day it’s two men inside me having sex with me

Preference is DP anyway

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By *asher11Man
over a year ago

market harborough

i'm a happily single straight but not hung up guy who's been lucky to do DVP a few times with couples i've gotten to know at thier request always feels amazing

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

"Labels are only useful to give other people a broad notion of what interests you. You don't need to label yourself because you have a much more granular understanding of your own sexual complexity than a label could ever cover.

Perfectly put, hit the nail on the head (for the why does your profile say straight brigade!) .

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Don't see why dvp alone would be considered a bisexual act

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By *inkyJamesMan
50 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield

It should all be about the woman's orgasmic gratification

So loving caring sharing her both cocks tightly packed inside her at once is not necessarily bi

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By *inkyJamesMan
50 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield

For me it's C

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
50 weeks ago

Nuneaton

It depends if your more interested in the pleasure of the lady or getting excited about crossing swords with another guy, L likes dvp and I’m definitely straight

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
50 weeks ago

Worcester

As long as you put a sheet of paper between your balls its not gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Im not asking to find out what i think it makes me.. lol im comfortable with my sexuality im asking how does the swingers community view it?

So i know who to approach "

I’ve just asked my partner who is a straight male.

He said whilst he understood the lady would gain pleasure from this and it is a good fantasy to have, he personally feels he would lose his erection with his penis touching another man’s penis.

So I suppose it’s how you would feel in the moment. If your mind set is that you are doing it fully to pleasure the woman then if you are looking at labels and ways to explain yourself to couples I’d describe yourself as straight.

Everyone will have their own take on it I suppose.

Good luck with fulfilling that fantasy if you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

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So i know who to approach "

And at what angle??..

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By *aughtydante OP Man
50 weeks ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"It isn't bi.

You would literally be inside a vagina.

What an answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Is it bi if u enjoy the feeling of other fellas cock pulsating and then bursting with cum cos that's part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

No, not at all. Being bi is being attracted to other men. DVP could just being a partner fulfilling the fems fantasy? They need to be comfortable with their cock against another guys though.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
50 weeks ago

oxford

I consider myself straight (mr) but have had a few DVP’s with Mrs M. All the time all I could think about was her enjoyment.

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By *im4play4uMan
50 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

Why is there a need to label and categorise a particular thing ?

All I can say is that when you do find out how uniquely mind blowing all of the sensations are , you arent going to go away questioning your sexuality, you are going to be thinking about it everyday untill you do it again though

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By *ancelot1633Man
50 weeks ago

weybridge

Who cares, its amazing fun

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
50 weeks ago

Plymouth

Not bothered it just felt great when I've done it and the woman was really enjoying it.

But there again does one sexual act define you as that genre ?

I think the op is asking who he should contact, well I would say contact both if they have an worry about it one I'm sure they will say.

If offended they should be on a dating site not a swinging site.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
50 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

If you greedily lick the other guy’s cock clean after the DVP then you might be a little bit bi. It would be a hint.

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By *aomilatteCouple
50 weeks ago

Midlands

"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.

But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..

Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.

Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"

We would think cocks touching together is bi, but it doesn't matter what other's think. If it's something you want to do just do it.

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By *entonMan
50 weeks ago

Wakefield

If you enjoy the feeling of another man's penis next to yours more, or at least an equal amount, as the feeling of being in her vagina than - yes - you may well be bi

But so what? If you enjoy it then do it and if not avoid. Simple.

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By *race_cpl6665Couple
50 weeks ago

Solihull

"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.

But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..

Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.

Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"

I don’t really care if it is or it isn’t I would love to try it!

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By *wistedTooCouple
49 weeks ago

Frimley

I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol.

100% with you on this "

It’s one of the sexiest things we’ve ever done

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By *arrySwindonMan
49 weeks ago

Swindon

It’s on my “to do” list and I certainly wouldn’t consider it bi.

If you’ve ever enjoyed a threesome where the lady enjoys sucking two cocks at the same time you’ll realise cocks touching doesn’t make you bisexual.

If you’re frightened of being near another stiff cock I’d avoid a threesome

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By *ornyguy666Man
49 weeks ago

Nottingham

I am straight but it's something I would try I guess technically I am not having sex with the guy

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By *lexV16Man
49 weeks ago

Welling

"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.

Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"

It’s is more likely to happen with a couple who stated they are into DVP in their profile no matter of male half sexuality.

And yeah, it’s not bi act. Sexuality isn’t STI and isn’t transmitted with cock touches.

However I was told by one straight couple from here they are looking specifically for bi guys for dvp to be sure he can perform and stay hard. But it’s just one couple say, not Sydney University research.

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By *ancelot1633Man
49 weeks ago

weybridge

I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol.

100% with you on this

It’s one of the sexiest things we’ve ever done

agreed

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By *rightonsteveMan
49 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.

But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..

Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.

Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"

I don’t think it’s bi and I certainly don’t care what other people think!

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By *HICKCHOCMan
37 weeks ago

Blackpool

"Simple answer is, No DVP doesn't make you or the other male Bi.

But then on here we've seen posts from other males saying being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you Bi

So to answer the other part of your question on here is hard.(no pun intended)

Maybe easier to message Bi couples and explain what you want.

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100%

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By *ickD80Man
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If you’re attracted to both sexes you’re bi, you don’t suddenly become bi when your cock touches another man’s cock. Sexuality isn’t determined by your actions it’s determined by your natural desires and attractions. I’m shocked and slightly worried that anyone would think that someone’s actions can determine their sexuality. Sitting in a pram and sucking a dummy doesn’t make you a baby, getting on your hands and knees and barking doesn’t make you a dog…

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By *iddle ManMan
37 weeks ago

Walsall

I love this one.

I 100% does not mean anything. It's just a position and sometimes people touch, in fact most people touch and rub during most sexual encounters, why should it matter that dp means cocks touch.

I still can't believe some people get hung up on this still.

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By *r_40Man
37 weeks ago

Reading

No, it doesn't. Absolutely NOT! Been there & done that. DVP, DP, two in her mouth etc. Our actions didn't make me bi in any shape or form....

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By *ickD80Man
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Simple answer is, No DVP doesn't make you or the other male Bi.

But then on here we've seen posts from other males saying being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you Bi

So to answer the other part of your question on here is hard.(no pun intended)

Maybe easier to message Bi couples and explain what you want.

100%"

Just because people on here say that being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you bi it doesn’t mean that they’re right to say that…they’re actually very wrong to say that. Do you think that men are gay or bi just because they like having things inserted in their ass? Do you think that a man can’t be straight if he enjoys having his prostate massaged? What about if a man fucks a woman in the ass? Does that mean he’s bi as well? What about if a woman gives a man a blow job? Does that make the man bi because bi and gay men give each other blow jobs.

If you say that a man is bi if he is pegged by a woman you’re basically implying that men are gay because they like having things inserted into their ass, and i’m sure you know as well as i do that that’s not the case. Do you realise that some gay men don’t even like anal sex? If a man who has something inserted in his ass is bi then surely it would mean that if a man puts his dick in an ass then he’s bi? If the sex of the person inserting something into his ass is irrelevant then surely the sex of the person who’s ass he puts his dick in is irrelevant.

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