FabSwingers.com forum: Has your partner ever cheated on you, when they told you it turned you on?

By *erICorknow OP Couple
over a year ago

cork

My partner came home one night and told me she had kissed another guy! It turned me on instead of making me angry and we’re now this married couple! Is that wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it works for the both of you, probably not.

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Never

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By *afa19Man
over a year ago

london

Yes, found it a big turn on

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By *adbod44Man
over a year ago

Leeds

My wife has been cheating on me for the last 3 years. She hasn’t really told me, but I have come home to her cum soaked gaping pussy on more than one occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife masterbates when she comes home from nights out about all the lads flirting with her

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope mine said she got in there first thinking I would've done it

I don't cheat now she has realised that

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

We made an agreement that if either of us is out (mainly clubbing) and anything happens then it's ok as long as we tell.

Nothing happened for an age and then I kissed a women when out. So, I told her.

She said she was surprised how it made her feel both happy and horny and that was not what she was expecting.

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By *erICorknow OP Couple
over a year ago

cork

Savage

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By *erICorknow OP Couple
over a year ago

cork

Class

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By *earded_delight2022Man
over a year ago

telford

My ex had an affair at work. I found out didnt confront her as it turned me on until she fell in love with him. I forgave her. We got back together. Then dabbled in this world until she fell for the guy fucking her again!!! No winning her back then. Happy to chat about it

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By *ickbcMan
over a year ago

failsworth

My girlfriend was cheating with her she didn’t know her phone was linked to the laptop at home I went on the laptop seen all the pics and messages and 1 video they had done it turned me on when I seen this I didn’t say anything for weeks because it turned me on so much I used to get excited waiting for her to go bed so I could see what they had sent to each other that day he had big dick she loved it some of the messages they sent to each other wow she not sent me dirty messages like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for non-monogomy but not cheating .

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

A few of my exs have cheated on me. When iv found out its turned me on like hell. Dont know why but one ex she was cheating all the time yet i couldn’t leave her as it was the biggest sexy jealous horny head fuck ever.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I'm all for non-monogomy but not cheating . "

I agree, cheating is never a positive thing.

You can just tell your partner that they have your blessing to have sex with others if they choose, then there's no need to cheat.

Also, I'm not sure that a kiss is really "cheating".

Cal

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, bring cheated on caused nothing but hurt, upset and a huge confidence blow.

Swinging isn't cheating!

Mrs

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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No not at all for me. Being cheated on (previous marriage) just brought feelings of "aren't I enough?" to be honest. More than happy to have fun but no need to do it behind my back.

J x

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By *ohnbyrneMan
over a year ago

donegal

Mine met an ex while out, not sure exactly what happened but it made me so hard and can’t stop thinking about it

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

"Mine met an ex while out, not sure exactly what happened but it made me so hard and can’t stop thinking about it"

Totally get this

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By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

Mine comes home after nights out and tell me about the attention she’d got. She’s a natural flirt, but to my knowledge she has only gone as far as been fingered

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By *WestCpl73Couple
over a year ago

Prestwich

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

That's how we got into it

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By *WestCpl73Couple
over a year ago

Prestwich

It's not cheating as we swing but mine did this the other week on a Christmas night out, she ended up with a guy and gave him a blow job but didn't tell me for a few days as it was spontaneous...... turned me on massively !

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

"That's how we got into it

Amazing isnt it, just to find a girl now who cant stay loyal. Weird but horny so long as she comes back to me, sometimes tells me sometimes doesnt

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

"It's not cheating as we swing but mine did this the other week on a Christmas night out, she ended up with a guy and gave him a blow job but didn't tell me for a few days as it was spontaneous...... turned me on massively !"

Totally love this

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By *omerset1976Man
over a year ago

Burnham

Cheating and swinging are 2 very different things.

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By *ornagainchristianMan
over a year ago

Preston, Glasgow, Cheltenham, Leeds, Birmingham and Leicester (but travel all over the UK

Not told me but I found out via Facebook being still logged in and stumbling on a group chat for her mates hen party. I’d already had some suspicions something went down but it was nothing like what I’d imagined. Was angry for about 10 seconds the incredibly horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love my wife to come home from a night out and tell me she kissed another guy.

In fact I wouldn’t mind if she told me she fucked someone else. Or if I found out she was having a full on affair with a guy.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, he's on here too so there would be no need to. I'm cool with him meeting alone, as long as I know before hand.

If he cheated on me it would be all over.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

No! Cheating is definitely not a turn on.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Seems as the lady is the one cheating . Shows just how much guys are Primal predators

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Ive kissed and maybe had a little fumble with other women on nights out without hubby but thats as far as its ever gone

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

When Ben done this and I found out I found a guy and FaceTime Ben.

We was so mad but I told him we’ll you cheated on me so it’s payback and this was how we started swinging.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

London

Yes we’ve both done it and still get incredibly horny talking about it. And no it wasn’t “swinging cheating” where we had permission, just full on cheating, oh the memories!!!

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

"Yes we’ve both done it and still get incredibly horny talking about it. And no it wasn’t “swinging cheating” where we had permission, just full on cheating, oh the memories!!!"

This is sexy af love it

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

London

"Yes we’ve both done it and still get incredibly horny talking about it. And no it wasn’t “swinging cheating” where we had permission, just full on cheating, oh the memories!!!

This is sexy af love it"

Aww thanks hun

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm all for non-monogomy but not cheating .

I agree, cheating is never a positive thing.

You can just tell your partner that they have your blessing to have sex with others if they choose, then there's no need to cheat.

Also, I'm not sure that a kiss is really "cheating".

Cal"

"Cheating" is crossing whatever boundary is put in place by each couple. For some, that includes kissing, others it can be watching porn or just messaging others in a flirty way. For others it's just sex.

If you feel you have to hide/lie about it, it's cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheated on me once, so I divorced her! Unless that is the dynamic that you both enjoy in your relationship, there is absolutely no excuse whatsoever!

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"I'm all for non-monogomy but not cheating .

I agree, cheating is never a positive thing.

You can just tell your partner that they have your blessing to have sex with others if they choose, then there's no need to cheat.

Also, I'm not sure that a kiss is really "cheating".

Cal

If you feel you have to hide/lie about it, it's cheating "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm all for non-monogomy but not cheating .

I agree, cheating is never a positive thing.

You can just tell your partner that they have your blessing to have sex with others if they choose, then there's no need to cheat.

Also, I'm not sure that a kiss is really "cheating".

Cal"

It's definitely a subjective thing, what one classes as cheating another wouldnt.

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By *andi19Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

The idea of M fucking someone else is a big turn on, but I prefer if I’m aware. Loyalty is something we value. We agree we can fuck whoever we can as long we are all involved

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

no cheating is cheating and once youve cheated then theirs no trust

when me n hubs started dating we were very very open with each other and was agreed that it would turn us on if either of us had other sexual meet str/bi/gay and we found the swinging scene to help us with meets we have a great marriage very loving very trusting very together everything we do is a turn on for both...

cheats = no trust i cou;d not have a relationship with someone i did not trust as for a turn on then nope wheres the turn on in cheating and those admiting its a turn on id take a guess your going on quite a few block list right now

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