FabSwingers.com forum: All inclusive Bar at a club

By *reasyontheeyes OP Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

Seen a club doing an all inclusive alcohol drinks bar for NYE.

Personally I am avoiding this as likely to see more people who are "d*unk" trying to get their monies worth!

Personally I do not think swinging and being d*unk don't mix

What's the collectives thoughts?

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Sadly, many people can't swing without at least some alcohol, or "Dutch courage". I personally prefer to keep my wits about me and stick to soft drinks only. And avoid anyone who is d*unk.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

My thoughts are that people at swingers clubs are generally more sensible with alcohol than your local revellers/lager louts.

There's always much less trouble at swinger clubs than regular bars.

Also, if this is the club that I'm thinking it is, I know that they are incredibly safe, well run and responsible enough to know when enough is enough.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

"My thoughts are that people at swingers clubs are generally more sensible with alcohol than your local revellers/lager louts.

There's always much less trouble at swinger clubs than regular bars.

Also, if this is the club that I'm thinking it is, I know that they are incredibly safe, well run and responsible enough to know when enough is enough."

You will also find the bar staff can still "cut you off" for a while if they deem you to becoming intoxicated as you cannot/able to give clear consent.

I think you'll find the "all inclusives" are still very well managed

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Seen a club doing an all inclusive alcohol drinks bar for NYE.

Personally I am avoiding this as likely to see more people who are "d*unk" trying to get their monies worth!

Personally I do not think swinging and being d*unk don't mix

What's the collectives thoughts? "

There's a big drinking culture amongst many swingers unfortunately. We go on club nights where people take their own drinks and drink spirits like water. You'll get dr@nk people at most club nights, but you can avoid these people and mix with those who don't drink too much.

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!

We have had an all inclusive bar every New Year eve since we opened five years ago and never with any major issues and it's always a full house so I think that talks for itself

We have already done four other all inclusive bars this year at our big events like Halloween & Willy Wonka at Easter & again all with no issues and massive successful nights with record glowing reviews on fab everytime xxx

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Seen a club doing an all inclusive alcohol drinks bar for NYE.

Personally I am avoiding this as likely to see more people who are "d*unk" trying to get their monies worth!

Personally I do not think swinging and being d*unk don't mix

What's the collectives thoughts? "

Being d*unk doesn't mix with many things. Apart from being a dick.

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By *reasyontheeyes OP Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"We have had an all inclusive bar every New Year eve since we opened five years ago and never with any major issues and it's always a full house so I think that talks for itself

Well thats good to hear, reviews i have learnt to take with a pinch of salt as rarely do you see an avoid.

The overall cost is 50% higher than a "normal" ticket , how does yours vary in cost for an all inclusive drinks v a normal night?

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

The best clubs ie Fun4two and Fata Morgana in Holland have always been all inclusive food and drink with your entrance fee. We've never seen anyone falling around d*unk there.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Sadly, many people can't swing without at least some alcohol, or "Dutch courage". I personally prefer to keep my wits about me and stick to soft drinks only. And avoid anyone who is d*unk. "

Most of the time when we go to a club I will be driving, so I won't be drinking at all. Neither of us ever drink a lot, but it's nice to have a few drinks occasionally. We certainly won't be intoxicated though.

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!

"We have had an all inclusive bar every New Year eve since we opened five years ago and never with any major issues and it's always a full house so I think that talks for itself

Well thats good to hear, reviews i have learnt to take with a pinch of salt as rarely do you see an avoid.

The overall cost is 50% higher than a "normal" ticket , how does yours vary in cost for an all inclusive drinks v a normal night?"

It's new years eve my friend and if we didn't have a free bar it would actually be £40 a couple so we are only £15 more expensive at £55 on a new years eve with a free bar and buffet and open until 4pm.

That only £7.50 each as a couple for your drinks all night!

If its wasn't New years eve entry would be £30 entry, with a free bar £45 again only £15 more a couple

in fact on the Saturday 30th we are doing a free bar for £45 as well like the New years eve but thats £55.

Everyone's entitled to there own opions and views but unless you have attended one of our all inclusive event then you can't really comment on how we run and manage these events and welcome to go a club that doesn't serve alcohol or serve your own back to you on a new years eve lol

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

have a drink within reason

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!

"The best clubs ie Fun4two and Fata Morgana in Holland have always been all inclusive food and drink with your entrance fee. We've never seen anyone falling around d*unk there."

Thank you, it's all about how you manage the club, bar and people in the club xx

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By *reasyontheeyes OP Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"We have had an all inclusive bar every New Year eve since we opened five years ago and never with any major issues and it's always a full house so I think that talks for itself

Well thats good to hear, reviews i have learnt to take with a pinch of salt as rarely do you see an avoid.

The overall cost is 50% higher than a "normal" ticket , how does yours vary in cost for an all inclusive drinks v a normal night?

That only £7.50 each as a couple for your drinks all night!

If its wasn't New years eve entry would be £30 entry, with a free bar £45 again only £15 more a couple

in fact on the Saturday 30th we are doing a free bar for £45 as well like the New years eve but thats £55.

Firstly I am not "your friend"

This is not £55 but more than double that, so not exactly cheap. Hence why i orginally posted

Having said that its a very good club.

I pay £1 for bottles of water but got charged for a "branded" plastic cup.

I know clubs have a limited client based, but £90 for a single guy, free bar or not is quite expensive for the use of the facilites.

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!

"We have had an all inclusive bar every New Year eve since we opened five years ago and never with any major issues and it's always a full house so I think that talks for itself

Well thats good to hear, reviews i have learnt to take with a pinch of salt as rarely do you see an avoid.

The overall cost is 50% higher than a "normal" ticket , how does yours vary in cost for an all inclusive drinks v a normal night?

That only £7.50 each as a couple for your drinks all night!

If its wasn't New years eve entry would be £30 entry, with a free bar £45 again only £15 more a couple

in fact on the Saturday 30th we are doing a free bar for £45 as well like the New years eve but thats £55.

Firstly I am not "your friend"

This is not £55 but more than double that, so not exactly cheap. Hence why i orginally posted

Having said that its a very good club.

I pay £1 for bottles of water but got charged for a "branded" plastic cup.

I know clubs have a limited client based, but £90 for a single guy, free bar or not is quite expensive for the use of the facilites."

We don't know why you but you seem very agitated that we are trying to be friendly and explain our pricing to you and others in a mild manored way?

We also can't understand why you are distorting fact on pricing?

Our new years eve it pricing -

Couples – £55

Single Males – £55

Single Ladies – £25

Tv,s TS,s or Trans – £25

With a free bar & buffet & FREE membership.

Where you are getting £90 a single from?

Anyway even if you are not our friend we wish you a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year xxx

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

We would agree that out and out dr*nkenness is less common in clubs than in vanilla venues. That said a minority will indulge heavily and we always avoid them - intoxication is a major turnoff for us.

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!

"We would agree that out and out dr*nkenness is less common in clubs than in vanilla venues. That said a minority will indulge heavily and we always avoid them - intoxication is a major turnoff for us.

Totally agree but with bring your own or a free bar the same people will always unfortunately try and drink to much but just like in any other bar or club it's our job to make judgement calls on when to cut people off at the bar or suggest some water which I think we are very good at doing xxx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Can't be much worse than the clubs after the organised socials, people falling over d*unk and swinging just isn't hot.

I'm sure if managed well it could be a great night.

Mrs

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

each to their own but we wouldn't play if someone was d*unk , they can't consent if too d*unk

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Drink and swinging is not always a good mix.

If only people would drink a bit less than they can handle it would be much better.

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By *reasyontheeyes OP Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"We have had an all inclusive bar every New Year eve since we opened five years ago and never with any major issues and it's always a full house so I think that talks for itself

Well thats good to hear, reviews i have learnt to take with a pinch of salt as rarely do you see an avoid.

The overall cost is 50% higher than a "normal" ticket , how does yours vary in cost for an all inclusive drinks v a normal night?

That only £7.50 each as a couple for your drinks all night!

If its wasn't New years eve entry would be £30 entry, with a free bar £45 again only £15 more a couple

in fact on the Saturday 30th we are doing a free bar for £45 as well like the New years eve but thats £55.

Firstly I am not "your friend"

This is not £55 but more than double that, so not exactly cheap. Hence why i orginally posted

Having said that its a very good club.

I pay £1 for bottles of water but got charged for a "branded" plastic cup.

I know clubs have a limited client based, but £90 for a single guy, free bar or not is quite expensive for the use of the facilites.

We don't know why you but you seem very agitated that we are trying to be friendly and explain our pricing to you and others in a mild manored way?

We also can't understand why you are distorting fact on pricing?

Our new years eve it pricing -

Couples – £55

Single Males – £55

Single Ladies – £25

Tv,s TS,s or Trans – £25

With a free bar & buffet & FREE membership.

Where you are getting £90 a single from?

Anyway even if you are not our friend we wish you a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year xxx"

Getting £90 for a guy from a club listing in the SW.

Couples are actually £120.

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!

"We have had an all inclusive bar every New Year eve since we opened five years ago and never with any major issues and it's always a full house so I think that talks for itself

Well thats good to hear, reviews i have learnt to take with a pinch of salt as rarely do you see an avoid.

The overall cost is 50% higher than a "normal" ticket , how does yours vary in cost for an all inclusive drinks v a normal night?

That only £7.50 each as a couple for your drinks all night!

If its wasn't New years eve entry would be £30 entry, with a free bar £45 again only £15 more a couple

in fact on the Saturday 30th we are doing a free bar for £45 as well like the New years eve but thats £55.

Firstly I am not "your friend"

This is not £55 but more than double that, so not exactly cheap. Hence why i orginally posted

Having said that its a very good club.

I pay £1 for bottles of water but got charged for a "branded" plastic cup.

I know clubs have a limited client based, but £90 for a single guy, free bar or not is quite expensive for the use of the facilites.

We don't know why you but you seem very agitated that we are trying to be friendly and explain our pricing to you and others in a mild manored way?

We also can't understand why you are distorting fact on pricing?

Our new years eve it pricing -

Couples – £55

Single Males – £55

Single Ladies – £25

Tv,s TS,s or Trans – £25

With a free bar & buffet & FREE membership.

Where you are getting £90 a single from?

Anyway even if you are not our friend we wish you a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year xxx

Getting £90 for a guy from a club listing in the SW.

Couples are actually £120.

Sorry to hear that we are in the Northwest and less than half those prices xxx

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, I didn't think it was a thread about how much clubs charge single men? Some clubs charge more, some charge less. No point in arguing.

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By *reasyontheeyes OP Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"OP, I didn't think it was a thread about how much clubs charge single men? Some clubs charge more, some charge less. No point in arguing. "

Its not, but the club made a thing about the cost.

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!

"OP, I didn't think it was a thread about how much clubs charge single men? Some clubs charge more, some charge less. No point in arguing.

Its not, but the club made a thing about the cost.

What different clubs charge to get in is not our concern and we are only focused on ourselves and our pricing.

You clearly start this thread talking and complaining about all inclusive bars on new years eve, NOT the cost of entry into the clubs.

Then moved on to complaining that these club's are more expensive, which we replied too and pointed out our pricing on New years eve at Club Play in Blackpool with an all inclusive bar.

We would say if you have a problem with all inclusive clubs on new years eve or pricing of entry into any club ever just don't go.

In anycase whatever, we hope you have a very merry rest of your Christmas and a happy New year xxx

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Personally I think a self-serve soft drink fountain would be a good idea, you can pay for a plastic glass to refill all night. I could get behind that when a bar can be very busy on party nights.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

To be honest for me this isn't an issue, when I walk up to the bar with no shoes no shirt i still get service

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I've rarely if ever seen people d*unk in a club but suspect the chances would be higher with an all inclusive bar, but a well run club with good staff would be able to manage the small number that may get carried away. I always drink far less at a club than I might on a vanilla night out.

And the prices that have been quoted on here in my honest opinion represent unbelievably great value for a New Year's Eve party so everyone enjoy and have a great time.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"I've rarely if ever seen people d*unk in a club but suspect the chances would be higher with an all inclusive bar, but a well run club with good staff would be able to manage the small number that may get carried away. I always drink far less at a club than I might on a vanilla night out.

And the prices that have been quoted on here in my honest opinion represent unbelievably great value for a New Year's Eve party so everyone enjoy and have a great time."

Consider some city centre pubs, entirely vanilla, also charge an entry fee for NYE and over £6 a pint for beer and over £4 for a , for a swingers club to have an all-inclusive bar at the price stated.

Well, speaks for itself.

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By *reasyontheeyes OP Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"OP, I didn't think it was a thread about how much clubs charge single men? Some clubs charge more, some charge less. No point in arguing.

Its not, but the club made a thing about the cost.

What different clubs charge to get in is not our concern and we are only focused on ourselves and our pricing.

You clearly start this thread talking and complaining about all inclusive bars on new years eve, NOT the cost of entry into the clubs.

Then moved on to complaining that these club's are more expensive, which we replied too and pointed out our pricing on New years eve at Club Play in Blackpool with an all inclusive bar.

We would say if you have a problem with all inclusive clubs on new years eve or pricing of entry into any club ever just don't go.

In anycase whatever, we hope you have a very merry rest of your Christmas and a happy New year xxx"

Wow i bet you could start an argument in an empty room!!

I never complained about any all inclusive clubs I just said it wasnt for me and asked what other thought.

I have no complaints over what clubs charge, they set their own prices we all have a choice as to where we wish to go, some would say you get what you pay for.

But paying a high end price doesn't always get you a fun night, free alcohol or not!

One thing i have certainly learnt from this thread, is its not all about the venue or the attendees but the attitude of club owners as well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"each to their own but we wouldn't play if someone was d*unk , they can't consent if too d*unk "

Always at least one pissed up woman getting arsey in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like to mix alcohol and sex. It’s not enjoyable, alcohol breathe isn’t a turn on, and the whole consent thing becomes questionable too.

I mean, of course I’ve pulled on nights out in the past, but if I’ve been drinking I almost always regret it the next day. So I no longer do that and I would avoid a club if the aim was to get pissed

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

Being teetotal, I'd avoid an event which was all inclusive/drinks included which personally I feel encourages those to drink to excess. I also avoid people who drink to excess as they are often unable to properly consent at the levels they drink to.

An option to buy a drinks inclusive package may work out better for some but personally I'd probably not bother with those either. One d*unk is one d*unk too many.

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Dangerous this as all sorts of d*unken accusations could be thrown about, we wouldn’t play with someone who was smashed (with alcohol)

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

wont play with anyone in a club whos been drinking and to those who say they never see d*unk people lol we've seen loads over the years but they are not the problem the problen is often with those who are merry but a pain in the arse normally must be said male halfs of couples where the wife is off having fun and hes not..

swinging and booze do not mix people wont admit it because they dont want people to know that something went wrong or they cant remember if you need booze to swing then that alone is kinda sad and lets not forget consent goes out the window too

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"wont play with anyone in a club whos been drinking and to those who say they never see d*unk people lol we've seen loads over the years but they are not the problem the problen is often with those who are merry but a pain in the arse normally must be said male halfs of couples where the wife is off having fun and hes not..

Wise words

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Can only give my honest view, have never seen anyone that I thought was really d*unk.

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

I agree that often the male partner of a couple turns to drink due to inactivity and lack of invites in but it's certainly not limited to them.

The scariest tend to be single females who when they are d*unk I avoid like the plague.

I would say the least problematic are single males as they are policed more fervently than anyone else and are usually removed before they get that d*unk at all.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Doesn’t bother me.

It’s a nice gesture from the club.

I’ve been swinging in clubs for over 8 years. Sometimes I drink sometimes I don’t, sometimes I’m absolutely steaming and sometimes it’s a couple, or I stay sober.

No one has ever asked me if I’ve had a drink, or how much I’ve drank, or said no to me.

I’ve maybe once or twice seen someone d*unk at a level i don’t find safe. No big deal, we made sure they got home ok and I’m sure had the hangover from hell the day after.

I tend not to judge what others are doing, and like a normal night out, I’d avoid anyone I felt was unable to make suitable decisions.

Not everyone is in the club to have sex. I’ve been for girls nights plenty of times and enjoyed the time with my friends and a drink.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's great to hear variety and special occasions help to keep a place lively. On a busy night, you will have dozens of people who will not be drinking or under the influence to a great extent. Club Play is one of the better managed clubs and you won't find problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's great to hear variety and special occasions help to keep a place lively. On a busy night, you will have dozens of people who will not be drinking or under the influence to a great extent. Club Play is one of the better managed clubs and you won't find problems

That scenario is very creepy. Half the people sober. Other half d*unk. There’s something predatory about it. Which is why I think clubs should be sober places

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

d*unk women can be a problem seen it a few times groping and stuff without asking.

i personally like my wife wont go near anyone whos drinking

and heres another problem food/buffet in a swinging club where people are touching themselves and each other then handling food and then after stuffing themselves wanting to get sexual is rank and is a reason i/we no longer go to clubs with food it really is gross

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

All inclusive means that if you don't drink, you're subsidising those that do.

So I'd rather go on another night.

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By *reasyontheeyes OP Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"All inclusive means that if you don't drink, you're subsidising those that do.

So I'd rather go on another night."

No matter which night you go, as a single guy you will be subsidising others.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

"No matter which night you go, as a single guy you will be subsidising others."

I only go to clubs as part of a couple, so I've got used to being in the privileged group!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"All inclusive means that if you don't drink, you're subsidising those that do.

So I'd rather go on another night."

Why cant you drink soft drinks? Cans of , nice flavoured waters , non alcoholic stuff etc are just as expensive as alcohol.

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By *hloe_TTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not bothered at all by people who drink at clubs. Seems like a nice time/place to have a drink. Don't get the anti drinking sentiment on this thread at all. In the clubs ive gone to the problem was always access. The bars were always packed. Takes forever to get served. If it was me id have the bar staff walk round selling shots nightclub style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a drink whilst in a club here and there only when I'm staying over. I do not get d*unk though, it makes consent to murky.

I'm usually stone cold sober though.

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
over a year ago

carluke

We have seen people legless at club nights, male, female and couples. We tend to avoid these people as consent would be an issue.

On the subject of drinking, one of us does and the other is teatotal, we have no issues with people who want to have a drink, but think moderation is the key when it comes to drinking at a club.

As someone said earlier, there can be a feeling that predatory behaviour will come into play if some are sober and others very d*unk.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Maybe it also depends if you make better or worse choices and decisions if you're d*unk or not.every choice has consequences.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

"Why cant you drink soft drinks? Cans of , nice flavoured waters , non alcoholic stuff etc are just as expensive as alcohol."

I'm not going to sit there drinking expensive soft drinks just to "get my money's worth"! What's the point of that?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Why cant you drink soft drinks? Cans of , nice flavoured waters , non alcoholic stuff etc are just as expensive as alcohol.

I'm not going to sit there drinking expensive soft drinks just to "get my money's worth"! What's the point of that?"

I don’t think the price is too much different when certain clubs do all inclusive for certain events.

I’ve been to an event at _lub play with an all inclusive bar but didn’t pay extra to get in. Just usual prices. Was just an offer from the club x

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

"I’ve been to an event at _lub play with an all inclusive bar but didn’t pay extra to get in. Just usual prices. Was just an offer from the club x"

Well that's fair enough, but personally I might still steer clear just because of the increased risk of d*unken people!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"Why cant you drink soft drinks? Cans of , nice flavoured waters , non alcoholic stuff etc are just as expensive as alcohol.

I'm not going to sit there drinking expensive soft drinks just to "get my money's worth"! What's the point of that?"

What do you want so you can have your moneys worth?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"Why cant you drink soft drinks? Cans of , nice flavoured waters , non alcoholic stuff etc are just as expensive as alcohol.

I'm not going to sit there drinking expensive soft drinks just to "get my money's worth"! What's the point of that?

I don’t think the price is too much different when certain clubs do all inclusive for certain events.

I’ve been to an event at _lub play with an all inclusive bar but didn’t pay extra to get in. Just usual prices. Was just an offer from the club x"

I've been to a _lub play all inclusive bat also, the club was packed and a great mix of single gents, females and couples. No one saying that they had to pay lots more than normal. It was great value for everyone

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Seen a club doing an all inclusive alcohol drinks bar for NYE.

Personally I am avoiding this as likely to see more people who are "d*unk" trying to get their monies worth!

Personally I do not think swinging and being d*unk don't mix

What's the collectives thoughts? "

Avoiding because of this makes you uncomfortable? Fair enough you dont want to go anywhere you feel uncomfortable, I get that. But also maybe more fool you if it was actually a club and/or party you wanted to visit. Drinky swingers will drink anyways. If it wasn't an all inclusive bar people would still bring or purchase the amount of alcohol they want anyways. I really don't see it creating a real difference. However from a club point of veiw when the club is going to be packed for NYE it makes things so much easier than having to constantly operate the till or tally up 100s of bar bills at the end (depending how the bar normally operates).

I do get the sense that some people on here look down on swingers who like a drink. They tend to like to virtue signal to others their superior position. But some of us (us two included) like few a drinks in a club. We are adults after all.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

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"I do get the sense that some people on here look down on swingers who like a drink. They tend to like to virtue signal to others their superior position. But some of us (us two included) like few a drinks in a club. We are adults after all. "

Well if you think it's a superior position then you're entitled to your opinion, but for me it's just a preference not to be in a heavy drinking environment. I don't enjoy being d*unk, and if you want to avoid trouble on a night out the best tactic is to avoid d*unk people.

Obviously not all d*unk people cause trouble, but pretty much all troublemakers are d*unk.

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