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"A couple of days ago I met a guy of fab when we went into his bedroom he opened a draw and it was full of dildos vibrators butt plugs and even a pussy pump asked if it was to use them on me I found it a massive turn on that they had used on former girlfriends and meets of fab am I just freaky or has anyone else experienced this or have a view I. Would luv to know " Sounds massively horny. Love to hear what toys were used. | |||
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"The main thing is, have they been cleaned properly, do they use them with condoms on? I have impact toys that I use on multiple partners, but insertable toys, my partners have their own toys that they prefer. " Even impact toys can bother me. Anything capable of breaking skin is a no for me. If it's a material like leather that isn't as simple to sterilise as the metal ones then absolutely not. | |||
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"It amazing the number of people that would stick their tongue in a strangers ass or swallow a strange cock but turn their nose up at a dildo " If I don't have faith in someone or the asshole or cock looks like it hasn't been cleaned properly since it was last used then I don't want it either | |||
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"They were all clean he even cleaned each toy again properly with steriliser before he used them on me " I wouldn't use someone else's toys in part because if they'd used steriliser, even one that was supposed to be used on them, because I'd have a reaction to it and not in a good way | |||
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"Used a friend's fleshlight " Sloppy seconds | |||
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"Used a friend's fleshlight Sloppy seconds " Definitely! ?? | |||
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"Most infectious stuff won't survive outside the body very long, so the risk level must be very low. As long as it looks clean, it's probably safe." Marmite is safe. I still don't want to taste it. | |||
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"Yeah I'd want to know his full cleaning process first, whether condoms are used on them etc. I'm always happy to share toys, I'm also happy to share details on cleaning solutions we use, the routine we opt for for this and what condoms & lube we use too. I expect the same from others. Our kink toys such as impact implements are the same... anything I've broken skin with wouldn't be used on others. Anything that can't be thoroughly cleaned wouldn't be used on others. It's a horny idea but I wouldn't want to risk my mine or anyone else's health " When I got into BDSM game the rules that I was told were: Anything that comes into contact with bodily fluids (blood, semen, women's lubrication) should only be used on that person. As well as breaking skin, flogging of female genitals with a leather flogger, then that flogger should be restricted to one person. Whips, if you break skin keep the cracker for that person and put on a fresh one. Theoretically the only way to have 100% piece of mind with steel products is to put it in a autoclave. But most use anti virus wipes. With ropes, I use artifical ropes like POSH in clubs. This is because if the ropes go on genitals or on the floor ( and who knows whats on the floor or place where you put your ropes), once I get home the ropes are thrown into the washing machine with disinfectant. This leaves my jute for non sexual play. I think the BDSM view is that you should look after the people you play with and not unnecessarily expose them to harm. But everyone has their own risk matrix. | |||
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"Yeah I'd want to know his full cleaning process first, whether condoms are used on them etc. I'm always happy to share toys, I'm also happy to share details on cleaning solutions we use, the routine we opt for for this and what condoms & lube we use too. I expect the same from others. Our kink toys such as impact implements are the same... anything I've broken skin with wouldn't be used on others. Anything that can't be thoroughly cleaned wouldn't be used on others. It's a horny idea but I wouldn't want to risk my mine or anyone else's health When I got into BDSM game the rules that I was told were: Anything that comes into contact with bodily fluids (blood, semen, women's lubrication) should only be used on that person. As well as breaking skin, flogging of female genitals with a leather flogger, then that flogger should be restricted to one person. Whips, if you break skin keep the cracker for that person and put on a fresh one. Theoretically the only way to have 100% piece of mind with steel products is to put it in a autoclave. But most use anti virus wipes. With ropes, I use artifical ropes like POSH in clubs. This is because if the ropes go on genitals or on the floor ( and who knows whats on the floor or place where you put your ropes), once I get home the ropes are thrown into the washing machine with disinfectant. This leaves my jute for non sexual play. I think the BDSM view is that you should look after the people you play with and not unnecessarily expose them to harm. But everyone has their own risk matrix." Yeah i don't think most people follow this methodology | |||
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"Most infectious stuff won't survive outside the body very long, so the risk level must be very low. As long as it looks clean, it's probably safe." Same reasoning for cocks. | |||
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"It amazing the number of people that would stick their tongue in a strangers ass or swallow a strange cock but turn their nose up at a dildo If I don't have faith in someone or the asshole or cock looks like it hasn't been cleaned properly since it was last used then I don't want it either " | |||
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"Marmite is safe. I still don't want to taste it." OK, you've won the argument! | |||
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"It amazing the number of people that would stick their tongue in a strangers ass or swallow a strange cock but turn their nose up at a dildo " This | |||
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"A couple of days ago I met a guy of fab when we went into his bedroom he opened a draw and it was full of dildos vibrators butt plugs and even a pussy pump asked if it was to use them on me I found it a massive turn on that they had used on former girlfriends and meets of fab am I just freaky or has anyone else experienced this or have a view I. Would luv to know " I too, would find it a massive turn on | |||
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"A couple of days ago I met a guy of fab when we went into his bedroom he opened a draw and it was full of dildos vibrators butt plugs and even a pussy pump asked if it was to use them on me I found it a massive turn on that they had used on former girlfriends and meets of fab am I just freaky or has anyone else experienced this or have a view I. Would luv to know " We have met bulls in the past that had their own collection of sex toys, one in particular that Dee used to visit and play with had his own sybian that she used to ride. | |||
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"A couple of days ago I met a guy of fab when we went into his bedroom he opened a draw and it was full of dildos vibrators butt plugs and even a pussy pump asked if it was to use them on me I found it a massive turn on that they had used on former girlfriends and meets of fab am I just freaky or has anyone else experienced this or have a view I. Would luv to know We have met bulls in the past that had their own collection of sex toys, one in particular that Dee used to visit and play with had his own sybian that she used to ride. " Ooh nice!! Did she enjoy it? Always wanted to ride a Symbian | |||
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"A couple of days ago I met a guy of fab when we went into his bedroom he opened a draw and it was full of dildos vibrators butt plugs and even a pussy pump asked if it was to use them on me I found it a massive turn on that they had used on former girlfriends and meets of fab am I just freaky or has anyone else experienced this or have a view I. Would luv to know We have met bulls in the past that had their own collection of sex toys, one in particular that Dee used to visit and play with had his own sybian that she used to ride. Ooh nice!! Did she enjoy it? Always wanted to ride a Symbian " She said it gave her an intense orgasm as she rode it ! | |||
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